How exactly

[forearmgod]

How do you accept the mistakes you have made in the past and that you have basically shifted the timeline? That you have a parallel universe where you didn’t make that mistake and everything went well? How do you move past that?

I know this is a ridiculous question to ask but Im tired of venting to ChatGPT and i crashout everyday because of what ifs

 

[LTNUser]

I always accept my mistakes but my biggest mistake itself is that I never learn from it

 

[forearmgod]

I always accept my mistakes but my biggest mistake itself is that I never learn from it

bro same. i met a girl that is the exact copy of the ex i was trying to get over for 6 months and seemed like a lunatic.

SHE LIKED ME FIRST TF

I took things too fast and while we kissed and dry humped in the back of my car, I started undressing her. I ALREADY KNEW SHE WAS SO STRICT ABOUT THIS.

I don’t want to get bops, I don’t want hookups, I don’t want to slay whores. I have alr did that and is not even interesting. It’s just a hobby.

She was a good girl with nice ass and our energy was unmatched, she was all over me. Now she is certain that Im just like any other fucking guy that wants her for her body.

And i spiral down every day cuz got literally gifted me with another chance and I ruined it. Now she is the coldest person ever and once again I have to rely on fucking time. FUCK THIS SHIT

If i didn’t make this fucking mistake we would have at least continued to see eachother. And now once again I have eyes for nobody else and Im gonna re-live pain.

Sorry for the vent

 

[Toad]

You already moved on

 

[superpsycho]

I always accept my mistakes but my biggest mistake itself is that I never learn from it

i need to make the same mistake at least 5 times before i learn from it.

 

[TheVoidInside]

id would still be an incel anyway lol. best i could have gotten was being a simp/buxx for my old itis. maybe she would have let me fuck her if all the other guys ghosted her. with the lights off ofc. and with 10 condoms on. for like 5 minutes or so. then she would tell me to go to the bathroom to "finish", cant do that in front of her.

 

[forearmgod]

You already moved on

can you elaborate

 

[White_Bwoi]

bro same. i met a girl that is the exact copy of the ex i was trying to get over for 6 months and seemed like a lunatic.

SHE LIKED ME FIRST TF

I took things too fast and while we kissed and dry humped in the back of my car, I started undressing her. I ALREADY KNEW SHE WAS SO STRICT ABOUT THIS.

I don’t want to get bops, I don’t want hookups, I don’t want to slay whores. I have alr did that and is not even interesting. It’s just a hobby.

She was a good girl with nice ass and our energy was unmatched, she was all over me. Now she is certain that Im just like any other fucking guy that wants her for her body.

And i spiral down every day cuz got literally gifted me with another chance and I ruined it. Now she is the coldest person ever and once again I have to rely on fucking time. FUCK THIS SHIT

If i didn’t make this fucking mistake we would have at least continued to see eachother. And now once again I have eyes for nobody else and Im gonna re-live pain.

Sorry for the vent

Brutal story, buuuut it's in our nature, no need to blame yourself too much... Strict blackpiller would say that "she wouldn't be that strict with a Chad"
I actually made the same mistake 2 months ago, did too much too fast and she was kinda creeped out, and I dumped her after like a motherfucker, these things happen when you're desperate & don't REALLY like the girl.. If I had a REAL crush I would treat her differently I guess... I would be too scared to fuck things up... That's why chads behave often times like a mf's its too easy

 

[forearmgod]

Brutal story, buuuut it's in our nature, no need to blame yourself too much... Strict blackpiller would say that "she wouldn't be that strict with a Chad"
I actually made the same mistake 2 months ago, did too much too fast and she was kinda creeped out, and I dumped her after like a motherfucker, these things happen when you're desperate & don't REALLY like the girl.. If I had a REAL crush I would treat her differently I guess... I would be too scared to fuck things up... That's why chads behave often times like a mf's its too easy

she was a good girl that was raised by christian parents and is still a virgin as her brother confirmed. if it was about blackpill shi we wouldn’t have made out for like 20 minutes in the backseat unfortunately, i would have been only a money bank or sth.

but yea i get what you mean. i just acted too quickly and now i have to live with that. another high value woman missed tf.

After all we knew eachother for like 3 weeks or so. I KNOW thats short but still

 

[White_Bwoi]

she was a good girl that was raised by christian parents and is still a virgin as her brother confirmed. if it was about blackpill shi we wouldn’t have made out for like 20 minutes in the backseat unfortunately, i would have been only a money bank or sth.

but yea i get what you mean. i just acted too quickly and now i have to live with that. another high value woman missed tf.

After all we knew eachother for like 3 weeks or so. I KNOW thats short but still

I understand, very similar story I knew that girl for 3-4 weeks... But I think it's good that I ended it, didn't feel like it was "IT", I'm too selective nowadays, maybe 'low t' enough to think too much lol. Anyway good luck, if there are opportunities to fuck up they will come again