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IT'S POSSIBLE. GTFI if you're a fapcel. GTFO if you're a FAPcel.
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As you guys know, my last thread I talked about the implications of porn addiction on the younger generations of this world. Obviously, there is no use in talking about the harmful effects if there is no effort made in trying to prevent it.
So here I am today, 1 year 7 months clean. I work for an agency that helps tutor underprivileged kids (mostly impoverished), and I am feeling more fulfilled than ever. I can't provide proof for this obviously, but I remember the first few weeks that I tried quitting porn. It was hell on earth; I could barely focus on schoolwork because my brain was expecting my daily dose of dopamine and oxytocin.
However, as the weeks passed by, the urges grew stronger than ever, yet I felt like I served a purpose. I was always an athiest, but for some reason I felt closer to God. It was probably because I knew now that I was heading towards a better path in life, my track record forgiven.
I was first exposed to pornography at age 6. It was really messed up, and being the impressionable young juvenile I was at the time; it really left a mark on me. I will never be the same ever again, but at least I made an effort in trying to save me before it was truly too late.
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Enough with the talking; let's get into the guide.----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- PREFIX -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
As you guys know, my last thread I talked about the implications of porn addiction on the younger generations of this world. Obviously, there is no use in talking about the harmful effects if there is no effort made in trying to prevent it.
So here I am today, 1 year 7 months clean. I work for an agency that helps tutor underprivileged kids (mostly impoverished), and I am feeling more fulfilled than ever. I can't provide proof for this obviously, but I remember the first few weeks that I tried quitting porn. It was hell on earth; I could barely focus on schoolwork because my brain was expecting my daily dose of dopamine and oxytocin.
However, as the weeks passed by, the urges grew stronger than ever, yet I felt like I served a purpose. I was always an athiest, but for some reason I felt closer to God. It was probably because I knew now that I was heading towards a better path in life, my track record forgiven.
I was first exposed to pornography at age 6. It was really messed up, and being the impressionable young juvenile I was at the time; it really left a mark on me. I will never be the same ever again, but at least I made an effort in trying to save me before it was truly too late.
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1. Find something you enjoy doing (or have to do). Literally anything.
- I found out about this method during a trip to another country. I was too busy doing my own thing that I totally forgot about my porn addiction. Literally just like that! Every day I came home too tired to do anything and woke up too hasteful to even think about my urges.
2. Find true love.
- Contrary to public belief, having a relationship will not increase your urges. In fact, having a real life outlet for your urges is healthier than dedicating it to online sources of quote-on-quote "love". Ever since my girlfriend came to my life, my sexual life has been nothing but healthy.
3. Spend more time outdoors.
- So far everything in my guide has been cliche. Because there's honestly not much more to it. Most people who complain about "this is the same information that everybody gives" has never even try any of the methods aforementioned. My adoration for nature has totally trumped my obsession with pornography. I am particularly fascinated with mushrooms, and love mushroom spotting/identifying.
4. Listen to music/produce music.
- Music is a huge part of my life, and I grew up playing multiple different instruments. I'm passionate for music, and I believe that the production of music can truly do wonders for a human. After all, hearing is a tertiary component of human senses.
"Ok, how do I know when I have completely quit porn?"
This is a complicated a question, for it varies for every person. According to different online sources, dopamine receptors return to a normal state after 9 months. This number is completely false in my opinion. After around 6 months, you'll be feeling much more rejuvenated and fulfilled, even for a person who has struggled with porn as much as me.
"I think porn is normal."
Before I state my opinion on that statement, I would like to proclaim that I do not find nothing inherently wrong with masturbating regularly (even though I don't do it), especially if you're a teenager. There is something, however, wrong with pornography. First off, not only are you watching men have sex with other women right in front of you (basically cucking but online), but your brain also gets used to things pretty quickly. If you ever tried to pee your pants on purpose, you will find it difficult because all your life you've been trained to NOT pee your pants. It's the same thing with pornography. When it's time to actually have sex with real girls, you just can't get hard because your entire life you've been watching girls having sex with OTHER men who aren't you. Second off, porn as a concept is just inhumane at a base level because pornography truly does objectify women. Imagine your mother or sister in a pornography video. You wouldn't enjoy that, would you? (Or at least I hope you don't). This is because you truly love your sister/mother. You know these women on a different level, but what about the women you see on porn sites? How are they different other than the fact that they decided to turn the wrong path in life? Those human beings are also worthy of love, you cannot tell me otherwise.
Do not put this in the same category as the corny nofap community. This is genuine advice, coming from a person who has escaped from my mental captivity. Be free.
Rise up amongst men and escape before it's too late!!!