How i stopped fapping 3 times a day

[lilvro]

Its been about 14+ months since i started nofap and i wanted to share how i quit and had 0 urges to masturbate.

I had been struggling for years and would fap at least 3 times a day and yes working out and taking cold showers have helped me to get rid of the urge temporarily but the main thing that helped me is my mindset about the fapping addiction.

You need to sit with yourself the entire day and actually think and journal about what you're doing to yourself, you are literally using your hands to have sex with yourself while watching two people having sex together. Once you finally understand how disgusting fapping is and that the benefits outweigh the negatives you will eventually quit for good.

Sorry for the bad english XD
Ps: i obviously get horny i just dont think about porn at all. I get horny and thats it.

 

[Angutoid]

fapping is not risky porn is
a healthy male gets horny and if u cant reach women u gotta do what u gotta do

 

[Gengar]

I am doing a bit of nofap ATM but I think it's all cope. I'm just doing it to shoot a bigger load.

 

[lilvro]

fapping is not risky porn is
a healthy male gets horny and if u cant reach women u gotta do what u gotta do

I believe that If you cant reach women then work on yourself and become the best version of yourself and then you will find the one and can have sex whenever you want this is the healthy way not fapping/watching porn.

 

[Angutoid]

I believe that If you cant reach women then work on yourself and become the best version of yourself and then you will find the one and can have sex whenever you want this is the healthy way not fapping/watching porn.

so u think fapping shouldnt be done since it gives u the pleasure of sex without having to work for it? what should someone whos best version could still not get laid do then

 

[wsada]

I'm currently doing it as a cope it's too easy

 

[ihearvoices]

I need a woman puss to stop fapping

 

[lilvro]

I am doing a bit of nofap ATM but I think it's all cope. I'm just doing it to shoot a bigger load.

so u think fapping shouldnt be done since it gives u the pleasure of sex without having to work for it? what should someone whos best version could still not get

If he is truly the best version of himself and still cant get laid its not the end of the world he will eventually find someone he doesnt have to experience the pleasure of sex one way or the other.

 

[NoReedemingFeature]

You need to be dead set on the goal of not fapping
You don't fail because the urge is irresistible but because your body fools you into desiring the urge.
And so your mind has to be set on you desiring to not fap, give yourself a time goal for a month or more, so that you have external motivation.

 

[lilvro]

I need a woman puss to stop fapping

Look brother im not gonna force you to do anything but you have to keep in mind that us men cant be weak (both mentally and physically) and if you let such an addiction such as fapping control your mind then its an issue and you should quit it whether you are have a girl or not.
I know what im saying is super obvious but trust me most people dont truly fathom such info.

 

[Gengar]

If he is truly the best version of himself and still cant get laid its not the end of the world he will eventually find someone he doesnt have to experience the pleasure of sex one way or the other.

I do things for myself and not others. I don't really care about women.

 

[ihearvoices]

Look brother im not gonna force you to do anything but you have to keep in mind that us men cant be weak (both mentally and physically) and if you let such an addiction such as fapping control your mind then its an issue and you should quit it whether you are have a girl or not.
I know what im saying is super obvious but trust me nobody truly fathom such info.

Ty for effort.

I felt weak when i was younger and was fapping always with porn unfortunately. Now after longer nofap streaks i wake up with raging boner and , eventually rub one out.

I believe there is sweet spot when you are fapping just every once in a while, bcz on longer streaks i felt like I had to dedicate a lot of willpower to not fap.

But porn is bad always.

 

[Deleted member 86980]

People who grew up without the internet just used to jack to magazines.
Porn is kinda different because you're basically wiring yourself to be aroused to watching 2 people fuck. Which is almost voyeurism.

If you can't get laid whatsoever then is jacking to some pics of girls rlly all that bad?

 

[ihearvoices]

People who grew up without the internet just used to jack to magazines.
Porn is kinda different because you're basically wiring yourself to be aroused to watching 2 people fuck. Which is almost voyeurism.

If you can't get laid whatsoever then is jacking to some pics of girls rlly all that bad?

Dont know if it is bad.

From my experience if you dont know her it is feels good.

But dont fap to pics of your crush, tried it once and it felt weird, especially intercating with her at scholl, etc.

 

[Kaari]

Its been about 14+ months since i started nofap and i wanted to share how i quit and had 0 urges to masturbate.

I had been struggling for years and would fap at least 3 times a day and yes working out and taking cold showers have helped me to get rid of the urge temporarily but the main thing that helped me is my mindset about the fapping addiction.

You need to sit with yourself the entire day and actually think and journal about what you're doing to yourself, you are literally using your hands to have sex with yourself while watching two people having sex together. Once you finally understand how disgusting fapping is and that the benefits outweigh the negatives you will eventually quit for good.

Sorry for the bad english XD
Ps: i obviously get horny i just dont think about porn at all. I get horny and thats it.

I used to go 7 times a day and stayed up doing so until like 7am kek

 

[ihearvoices]

If he is truly the best version of himself and still cant get laid its not the end of the world he will eventually find someone he doesnt have to experience the pleasure of sex one way or the other.

But bro, dont lose your streak bcz of some idiot like me yapping on .org.

 

[FBl]

I am doing a bit of nofap ATM but I think it's all cope. I'm just doing it to shoot a bigger load.

To shoot a bigger load at yourself?

 

[Gengar]

To shoot a bigger load at yourself?

maby

 

[meropeu]

Its been about 14+ months since i started nofap and i wanted to share how i quit and had 0 urges to masturbate.

I had been struggling for years and would fap at least 3 times a day and yes working out and taking cold showers have helped me to get rid of the urge temporarily but the main thing that helped me is my mindset about the fapping addiction.

You need to sit with yourself the entire day and actually think and journal about what you're doing to yourself, you are literally using your hands to have sex with yourself while watching two people having sex together. Once you finally understand how disgusting fapping is and that the benefits outweigh the negatives you will eventually quit for good.

Sorry for the bad english XD
Ps: i obviously get horny i just dont think about porn at all. I get horny and thats it.

Start beating it to yourself in mirror. One you get disgusted and stop else u become narcissistic chad