How I'm not depressed when my life is objectively shit? 🤔

[Klasik616]

I might be but is not constant, I feel depressed about 7pm until I get to sleep but during the day I feel normal (a bit angry tho). Although I've never been on a date and never been accepted by a girl, also no having friends for a record of 6 years and barely talking with people, I don't feel crazy or broken but I feel numb.

Probably because I used to have this life when I was a kid, staying at home all day and going to school where I had 0 friends. I don't think life has to be forced to happen, it's all just copes: study, get married. Not everyone is gonna end up marrying or having a career.

Graphics say is not common to be a virgin at 20 but I don't care about not being the dude women wants to have around. I tried to be around women but they never understood me, it was a couple of messages and she lossed interest. They all like the same men.

People who might relate @MoggerGaston @Nick.Harte @HarrierDuBois
@ey88
@CopiumX

 

[Klasik616]

It still bafles me how women can have a list of 1000 red flags and 100 icks and think they are perfect. Isnt that a proof all women are narcissistic and low IQ?

How I'm supposed to date such a low IQ being when I'm smart and know a lotta things from different topics, it sounds stupid and forced. Idk how you guys date those monsters lol

 

[Klasik616]

I love women

 

[Klasik616]

I have to talk with myself on this forum because I have 0 people to talk to in WhatsApp

It still bafles me how women can have a list of 1000 red flags and 100 icks and think they are perfect. Isnt that a proof all women are narcissistic and low IQ?

How I'm supposed to date such a low IQ being when I'm smart and know a lotta things from different topics, it sounds stupid and forced. Idk how you guys date those monsters lol

Yea I would never date a dumb foid too

 

[healer]

How old are you? Did heartbreak break you at one point and you never seemed to recover? Did you parents neglect you or overly control you? Were your parents weak people without a strong sense of life-purpose? Did you grow up religious? What do you believe about free-will vs determinism? Have you tried niches? A lot of the online forums such as this one forget about niches and how much opportunity and how much variance there is in that. Are you retaining your seed? Don’t say it’s cope. It changes everything. Inner and outer. I promise. Meet people online and talk with them over call and voice chat. It’s really, really easy, even with girls. Talk with people from other cultures. Get to know them and their life situation. Compare each others lives and talk about everything. Ask people about their trauma, and they will unload. Be there to listen. Then, after you’ve proven to them that you care, you can unload yourself. Find ways to relate on insecurities. You need certain people who you are genuinely unfiltered around. I mean it. It’s not weak, this is useful. Extremely useful for healing yourself. You need people who will unconditionally listen to you and love you no matter what. The people you can talk and talk with for hours about anything and ramble to. They ramble back. This is what you need.

 

[Zexiiscarmi]

It still bafles me how women can have a list of 1000 red flags and 100 icks and think they are perfect. Isnt that a proof all women are narcissistic and low IQ?

How I'm supposed to date such a low IQ being when I'm smart and know a lotta things from different topics, it sounds stupid and forced. Idk how you guys date those monsters lol

simple answer men will kill for pussy and not everyone can get it

 

[Zexiiscarmi]

I might be but is not constant, I feel depressed about 7pm until I get to sleep but during the day I feel normal (a bit angry tho). Although I've never been on a date and never been accepted by a girl, also no having friends for a record of 6 years and barely talking with people, I don't feel crazy or broken but I feel numb.

Probably because I used to have this life when I was a kid, staying at home all day and going to school where I had 0 friends. I don't think life has to be forced to happen, it's all just copes: study, get married. Not everyone is gonna end up marrying or having a career.

Graphics say is not common to be a virgin at 20 but I don't care about not being the dude women wants to have around. I tried to be around women but they never understood me, it was a couple of messages and she lossed interest. They all like the same men.

People who might relate @MoggerGaston @Nick.Harte @HarrierDuBois
@ey88
@CopiumX

while this is sad it isnt uncommon the best thing to do is make urself more appealing like i did

 

[RICHCELDOM]

You just never came close to a good life so you don't know how it can be.

It's like asking "I'm not 7psl but I'm not that depressed" it's because you do not have a state of reference to know what you are missing out on.


This can be sometimes good as it's easier to go from nothing to something then from something back to nothing and accept that mentally.

 

[healer]

How old are you? Did heartbreak break you at one point and you never seemed to recover? Did you parents neglect you or overly control you? Were your parents weak people without a strong sense of life-purpose? Did you grow up religious? What do you believe about free-will vs determinism? Have you tried niches? A lot of the online forums such as this one forget about niches and how much opportunity and how much variance there is in that. Are you retaining your seed? Don’t say it’s cope. It changes everything. Inner and outer. I promise. Meet people online and talk with them over call and voice chat. It’s really, really easy, even with girls. Talk with people from other cultures. Get to know them and their life situation. Compare each others lives and talk about everything. Ask people about their trauma, and they will unload. Be there to listen. Then, after you’ve proven to them that you care, you can unload yourself. Find ways to relate on insecurities. You need certain people who you are genuinely unfiltered around. I mean it. It’s not weak, this is useful. Extremely useful for healing yourself. You need people who will unconditionally listen to you and love you no matter what. The people you can talk and talk with for hours about anything and ramble to. They ramble back. This is what you need.

After you have this, you can begin implementing the strength. Most people who are loners say they look the best they ever have ect ect, but it’s the mental stuff that ends up ensnaring them. Take the leap of faith on things. Heal your dopamine. Go new places. Attend random events and talk with a lot of people who there. Introduce yourself and get familiar with bridging connection with new people. This is an extremely useful skill and makes other things click, especially while you’re with the other people and right after it. Your brain just snaps itself back, I don’t know how else to explain it other than getting into the concept of nurturing the neurochemistry with the power of belief.