How important is height really for attractiveness?

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I'm almost 6 foot so pretty average in terms of height (where I'm from - german speaking western europe).

Now we all know that women in general prefer tall guys, but what does that actually mean?

Normies are even more adamant than guys here about the importance of height. I've obsessively read through a lot of threads on reddit and other forums and watched a lot of interviews about the topic of girls preference. Insecure normie guys often claim that there's a huge difference in appeal once you get from 5'10 to 6'1.

They literally claim that once you're tall you're set for dating.

I think that's vastly overexagerrated because I know a lot of tall guys that don't look special other than their height that have average dating experiences, while I know handsome average height guys (or even short ones) that slay. They all have well above average faces though.

Where does this dissent come from? Either people that claim that are very insecure about their height or it's due to them being from the U.S where women are a lot more heightist.

In general you have an advantage when you're above average height thats a given but I'm wondering how much of an advantage it exactly is.

A lot of girls also say that they value males height relative to their own, so as long as you mog her by whatever her preference is you should be good. I don't know if thats just virgue signalling from girls and cope from guys, maybe other users can chime in and give their opinion.

The last thing I'm wondering is in what way height matters. Is it the equivalent to boobs, where it's just very viscerally and sexually attractive? Like can you equate large boobs with well above average height? If yes than that's utter suifuel, because big boobs are the most attractive thing on girls for me. I literally daydream about being suffocated and sucking on titties the whole day.

Or is it just a nice thing to have and girls feel unfeminine when their partner doesn't heightmog them by a substantial amount. I get that because it just feels weird to make out or have sex with a girl near your height, its not the same chemistry as when you heightmog her.

Ok so it's apparent that I spent a lot of time thinking about this topic and here's my conclusion:

Height matters to women because it makes them feel feminine when they look up to their partner (same as I feel unmasculine when hooking up with a girl my height). Being above average height (say 6'2) is good because you appeal to more women due to being tall enough for more women relative to their height. For some women it's also more sexually attractive because of the overall size difference, but you can work on that also by building physique. Female height is almost equivalent to male height in terms of how it matters for attractiveness. The equivalent for boobs, ass and hourglass figure for women is chest, broad shoulders, thighs and V-taper for men. Face is its own thing for both genders and the most basic prerequsite you need to cross.

Am I coping or am I right? Whats your opinion?

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My initial thought was that height mattered a lot for raw, primal attraction and that looks mattered more when it was long term. Kinda like how guys can want to fuck some mediocre girl with nice tits and ass but prefer better face girls for LTRs.
But honestly? While that plays a role, IME it's some kind of status thing. Women can be attracted to short guys and short guys can have some slaying success, but it's almost embarrassing to be seen in a public relationship with one.
 
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It is the most important thing for the SMV
 
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My initial thought was that height mattered a lot for raw, primal attraction and that looks mattered more when it was long term. Kinda like how guys can want to fuck some mediocre girl with nice tits and ass but prefer better face girls for LTRs.
But honestly? While that plays a role, IME it's some kind of status thing. Women can be attracted to short guys and short guys can have some slaying success, but it's almost embarrassing to be seen in a public relationship with one.
yea thats what I think too

once someone is taller than the girl it only matters for status and how they're viewed in public

its not really about physical attraction like boobs or ass are
 
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I'm almost 6 foot so pretty average in terms of height (where I'm from - german speaking western europe).

Now we all know that women in general prefer tall guys, but what does that actually mean?

Normies are even more adamant than guys here about the importance of height. I've obsessively read through a lot of threads on reddit and other forums and watched a lot of interviews about the topic of girls preference. Insecure normie guys often claim that there's a huge difference in appeal once you get from 5'10 to 6'1.

They literally claim that once you're tall you're set for dating.

I think that's vastly overexagerrated because I know a lot of tall guys that don't look special other than their height that have average dating experiences, while I know handsome average height guys (or even short ones) that slay. They all have well above average faces though.

Where does this dissent come from? Either people that claim that are very insecure about their height or it's due to them being from the U.S where women are a lot more heightist.

In general you have an advantage when you're above average height thats a given but I'm wondering how much of an advantage it exactly is.

A lot of girls also say that they value males height relative to their own, so as long as you mog her by whatever her preference is you should be good. I don't know if thats just virgue signalling from girls and cope from guys, maybe other users can chime in and give their opinion.

The last thing I'm wondering is in what way height matters. Is it the equivalent to boobs, where it's just very viscerally and sexually attractive? Like can you equate large boobs with well above average height? If yes than that's utter suifuel, because big boobs are the most attractive thing on girls for me. I literally daydream about being suffocated and sucking on titties the whole day.

Or is it just a nice thing to have and girls feel unfeminine when their partner doesn't heightmog them by a substantial amount. I get that because it just feels weird to make out or have sex with a girl near your height, its not the same chemistry as when you heightmog her.

Ok so it's apparent that I spent a lot of time thinking about this topic and here's my conclusion:

Height matters to women because it makes them feel feminine when they look up to their partner (same as I feel unmasculine when hooking up with a girl my height). Being above average height (say 6'2) is good because you appeal to more women due to being tall enough for more women relative to their height. For some women it's also more sexually attractive because of the overall size difference, but you can work on that also by building physique. Female height is almost equivalent to male height in terms of how it matters for attractiveness. The equivalent for boobs, ass and hourglass figure for women is chest, broad shoulders, thighs and V-taper for men. Face is its own thing for both genders and the most basic prerequsite you need to cross.

Am I coping or am I right? Whats your opinion?

@Niko @bonelessMan @Dr. Bruh @averagejoe @Amnesia @alriodai @fucclife @the BULL @forevergymcelling @enchanted_elixir @Xangsane @LightSkinNoob @Prettyboy
Height is not important,I am very we above average height to tell you that
 
Height for a man is like face for a woman. Being manlet is the worst thing possible in 2022. I’d rather have stage 4 terminal cancer.
 
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My initial thought was that height mattered a lot for raw, primal attraction and that looks mattered more when it was long term. Kinda like how guys can want to fuck some mediocre girl with nice tits and ass but prefer better face girls for LTRs.
But honestly? While that plays a role, IME it's some kind of status thing. Women can be attracted to short guys and short guys can have some slaying success, but it's almost embarrassing to be seen in a public relationship with one.
Height and face are equal. Short man is as bad as obese foid. Tbh worse
 
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yea thats what I think too

once someone is taller than the girl it only matters for status and how they're viewed in public

its not really about physical attraction like boobs or ass are
Not true. They want tall men. Not just taller than them. On bumble if you’re 6’0 u will still be filtered out by 40% of women
 
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Height and face are equal. Short man is as bad as obese foid. Tbh worse
It depends tbh.
Regardless though short man = no respect even if you get girls
 
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It depends tbh.
Regardless though short man = no respect even if you get girls
The faces required to be saved at sub 5’10 don’t exist often. Especially in the west. You literally need a chadlite wasp face to succeed at sub 5’10.
 
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Not true. They want tall men. Not just taller than them. On bumble if you’re 6’0 u will still be filtered out by 40% of women

I’ve larped my height like crazy and then meet girls and they don’t care

I’m 5’11 (measured in mornjng) and larped as 6’3 even when I didn’t wear lifts and 5’6-5’9 girls didn’t even care after meeting me

Height pill is brutal in clubs tho I’ve seen ugly 6’4 guys get attractive girls
 
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Not true. They want tall men. Not just taller than them. On bumble if you’re 6’0 u will still be filtered out by 40% of women
No man lusts for obese women. Women will lust for Manlet chads.

Height is a failo but it can’t be compared to health or lifestyle indicators especially if you’re over 5’5
 
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I’ve larped my height like crazy and then meet girls and they don’t care

I’m 5’11 (measured in mornjng) and larped as 6’3 even when I didn’t wear lifts and 5’6-5’9 girls didn’t even care after meeting me

Height pill is brutal in clubs tho I’ve seen ugly 6’4 guys get attractive girls
What's your psl?
 
No man lusts for obese women. Women will lust for Manlet chads.

Height is a failo but it can’t be compared to health or lifestyle indicators especially if you’re over 5’5
Wrong

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No man lusts for obese women. Women will lust for Manlet chads.

Height is a failo but it can’t be compared to health or lifestyle indicators especially if you’re over 5’5
No man lusts for obese? They lust for granny I’m sure they lust for obese jfl. Height is crucial. If I were 5’11 I wouldn’t be on this forum on god
 
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Face is eveything
 
She’s not obese she’s just fat. Face and proportions are still good

Meanwhile one of the biggest sex symbols for 3 generations is 5’7 Tom cruise
Bro u can’t use celebs. Look at this bumble data. If you’re short and look like hexum doesn’t matter. U won’t even be shown to women. They filter you out
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yea thats what I think too

once someone is taller than the girl it only matters for status and how they're viewed in public

its not really about physical attraction like boobs or ass are
Thats just not true, women are turned on when the guy is much bigger than them
 
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Didn't read as I'm 6'2 and my opinion matters more
 
Not true. They want tall men. Not just taller than them. On bumble if you’re 6’0 u will still be filtered out by 40% of women
by 40% of women THAT SET A HEIGHT STANDARD

very important distinction
 
by 40% of women THAT SET A HEIGHT STANDARD

very important distinction
Most of them set one. On tinder I get 4/5 matches a day on bumble I got 2 matches In 1.5 weeks.
 
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Most of them set one. On tinder I get 4/5 matches a day on bumble I got 2 matches In 1.5 weeks.
dont you think thats because more people are on tinder ig

i also dont think that most of them set a height filter becaue IIRC its a paid feature
 
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1. Face 2. Height 3. everything else
 
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Thats just not true, women are turned on when the guy is much bigger than them
i guess but thats also about frame size

no girl looks at a skinny tiqg 6'5 lanklet, only when combined with a proportional frame
 
dont you think thats because more people are on tinder ig

i also dont think that most of them set a height filter becaue IIRC its a paid feature
Nope on bumble u get one free filter. All the foids use that to filter out height. It’s hinge where they’re all paid. And no bro. 5/6 matches a day to 2 matches 3 likes isn’t from user base. It’s because I no longer can compensate for height w face cause I’m not even shown
 
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yeah foids care about height.
 
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i guess but thats also about frame size

no girl looks at a skinny tiqg 6'5 lanklet, only when combined with a proportional frame
They absolutely do look at lanklets as long as their face isn't terrible, frame means fuck all if you're short
 
5'10 chadlite over a 6'5 mtn all day
 
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this is how important it is..


READ THE COMMENTS!!!!
 
As long as you’re taller than the girl she often won’t care. Being 6’2 is often ideal as it’s a nice range to be the ideal height for the largest number of chicks.

Even if she’s taller she sometimes will let it slide as long as you can reap enough smv points elsewhere (face, body) or status and money, although I think using these to bridge the attraction gap is betabuxxing
 

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