How important is it to argue in a relationship?

[TerminatorGenisys9]

I just overdramatized about something the girl I’m currently talking to had on my insta. I feel like it was a good move not only because it shows I won’t deal with any bs but also because we’ve only been sunshine and rainbows since we started talking and even I sorta almost got bored of it.

All though it would be ideal to never spike my cortisol the only issue is I don’t think she would enjoy it very much. I had to also give her a litmus test right now to see if she would delete it and how much she would argue for it. She said she was fine with me being uncomfortable but didn’t like that I was actually mad at her for it and kept saying sorry and said she would delete them.

I unfollowed her so idk if she did or didn’t but I’m sure I’ll find out tmrw. Sadly I don’t wanna have to play these games on someone who I really like like her but it’s only fair because I truly was uncomfortable and she also has other habits I don’t like. This is the first step of fixing her to be my perfect girl all though it sounds bad the habits she has are extremely unhealthy and she’ll thank me for changing her later on.

There has only been one woman I’ve spoken to who we could have looksmaxxed optimized babies with and I’m trying to see if I can achieve that again. I still value this girl a lot and think I have formed attachment to her but I had to do something.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Arguing with a woman only shows you WILL put up with bullshit.

You either obey me in everything or you immediately get the fuck out of my life.

If you don't like something and I'm unwilling to compromise then you better be quiet. You get 10 minutes at most to sulk. If you try arguing with me I tell you to shut your mouth. If you continue after that you get one more warning, I might smash something or piss all over the floor, but after that I will beat you.

This has never failed me with women. They love it even though they say they don't.

Never argue with a woman.

 

[Eltrē]

Arguing with a woman only shows you WILL put up with bullshit.

You either obey me in everything or you immediately get the fuck out of my life.

If you don't like something and I'm unwilling to compromise then you better be quiet. You get 10 minutes at most to sulk. If you try arguing with me I tell you to shut your mouth. Of you continue you after that you get one more warning, I might smash something or piss all over the floor, but after that I will beat you.

This has never failed me with women. They love it even though they say they don't.

Never argue with a woman.

This only works because you married a 4'11 SEA monkey

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

This only works because you married a 4'11 SEA monkey

I’m dying

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Arguing with a woman only shows you WILL put up with bullshit.

You either obey me in everything or you immediately get the fuck out of my life.

If you don't like something and I'm unwilling to compromise then you better be quiet. You get 10 minutes at most to sulk. If you try arguing with me I tell you to shut your mouth. If you continue after that you get one more warning, I might smash something or piss all over the floor, but after that I will beat you.

This has never failed me with women. They love it even though they say they don't.

Never argue with a woman.

I can be very mean and obviously my intention wasn’t to hurt her feelings it’s just a way of like warning her for future reference I won’t deal with bs she gives me. She said it’s only been a week and there’s already a lot of expectations for her. I completely ignored her and was just letting her know that she didn’t need to delete the stuff as it’s her insta but if she didn’t I just wouldn’t be around anyways and that I didn’t care much

 

[Lefty Rankin]

This only works because you married a 4'11 SEA monkey

I married a 5'5" Northern Chinese. And before that have been with 8/10's of all races.

It works for me because girls have always seen me as an enigma. I don't need looks mother fucker. I've had multiple girls tell me they would have called the police on any of their ex boyfriends, or any other man, if they ever hit them. Not me though. Girls simply don't have principles when they're with me, besides loyalty.

 

[Eltrē]

I married a 5'5" Northern Chinese. And before that have been with 8/10's of all races.

It works for me because girls have always seen me as an enigma. I don't need looks mother fucker. I've had multiple girls tell me they would have called the police on any of their ex boyfriends, or any other man, if they ever hit them. Girls simply don't have principles when they're with me, besides loyalty.

Whatever you say, old man!

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

I married a 5'5" Northern Chinese. And before that have been with 8/10's of all races.

It works for me because girls have always seen me as an enigma. I don't need looks mother fucker. I've had multiple girls tell me they would have called the police on any of their ex boyfriends, or any other man, if they ever hit them. Girls simply don't have principles when they're with me, besides loyalty.

You’re funny bro you’ve never met a woman who has looks standards and wouldn’t put up with your bs. The only way to get away with what u do is looks so don’t say u don’t have any

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I can be very mean and obviously my intention wasn’t to hurt her feelings it’s just a way of like warning her for future reference I won’t deal with bs she gives me. She said it’s only been a week and there’s already a lot of expectations for her. I completely ignored her and was just letting her know that she didn’t need to delete the stuff as it’s her insta but if she didn’t I just wouldn’t be around anyways and that I didn’t care much

You don't want a girl but getting emotional with them when they don't do what you want. You just make yourself look like a little bitch when you do that. When they don't do what you want you just ignore everything and move on to a new girl without telling them. Once you've done that enough times you'll just have a certain way about you that they can sense. They'll just know not to do anything you don't like, and that if there's something about themselves that you don't like they'll change it without you even having to ask.

This is much deeper than red pill. This is seduction.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Whatever you say, old man!

Yeah, I say it.

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

You don't want a girl but getting emotional with them when they don't do what you want. You just make yourself look like a little bitch when you do that. When they don't do what you want you just ignore everything and move on to a new girl without telling them. Once you've done that enough times you'll just have a certain way about you that they can sense. They'll just know not to do anything you don't like, and that if there's something about themselves that you don't like they'll change it without you even having to ask.

This is much deeper than red pill. This is seduction.

I agree but I don’t want to let her go I like her a lot

 

[Lefty Rankin]

You’re funny bro you’ve never met a woman who has looks standards and wouldn’t put up with your bs. The only way to get away with what u do is looks so don’t say u don’t have any

I don't look like a burn victim.

Women really don't think like men. Everyone likes to think they're different but I truly am 1 in a million. Girls sense this and intrigue with them can go much further than looks. I got the right ingredients and call the shots in any situation I find myself in. I'm not talking about just with girls.

How's that for looks?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I agree but I don’t want to let her go I like her a lot

Grow up. Rip off the bandage.

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Grow up. Rip off the bandage.

I’d listen to this advice if this wasn’t a looksmaxxing forum where ur feeding me redpill shit instead of blackpill

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I’d listen to this advice if this wasn’t a looksmaxxing forum where ur feeding me redpill shit instead of blackpill

Redpill has a bad name because it's evolved into a bunch of dorky betas on YouTube, convincing themselves they're alphas, telling everyone to make money and go to the gym.

Fuck fucking exercising. Fuck needing money. I can get any type of girl while being broke as a joke and 220lb.

15 years ago the concept of redpill was more legit.

Seduction is more useful and rare though. I've always known how to seduce and I can't even help doing it.

Playing with girl's minds is super easy. Just a couple weeks ago a 19 year old banger of a chick heard me out in the hall speaking Chinese on the phone with my wife as she was leaving to go home. Ever since then she's been on my dick like white on rice. Super self conscious. She doesn't know why I can speak Chinese or that I'm married. But that's all it took and she's completely smitten. In the office I speak very little but whenever I do everybody listens.

Seduction is about being noticed without being purposeful. I've always just done that. Girls might not like me at first glance but they're always very quickly head over heals for me. That's the way it's always been since I was a little kid. I'm 38 years old and have never been a looksmaxxer.

 

[austrianpsycho]

I married a 5'5" Northern Chinese. And before that have been with 8/10's of all races.

It works for me because girls have always seen me as an enigma. I don't need looks mother fucker. I've had multiple girls tell me they would have called the police on any of their ex boyfriends, or any other man, if they ever hit them. Not me though. Girls simply don't have principles when they're with me, besides loyalty.

you arent an enigma,you went to countrys where women are dependent on you

 

[Lefty Rankin]

you arent an enigma,you went to countrys where women are dependent on you

When I was 23. You think I wasn't getting my dick wet long before that? And bitch please, I went to China. Most people there, in the cities at least, have way more money in the bank than the average American. Shit, even most the people in the countryside do. And besides, I fucked all kinds of girls in China. Not just Asians.

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

you arent an enigma,you went to countrys where women are dependent on you

LMAOOO

 

[nobodylovesme]

Yeah, definitely play games with her feelings like unfollowing and stuff. Dear god... people here seriously lack all interpersonal skills

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Redpill has a bad name because it's evolved into a bunch of dorky betas on YouTube, convincing themselves they're alphas, telling everyone to make money and go to the gym.

Fuck fucking exercising. Fuck needing money. I can get any type of girl while being broke as a joke and 220lb.

15 years ago the concept of redpill was more legit.

Seduction is more useful and rare though. I've always known how to seduce and I can't even help doing it.

Playing with girl's minds is super easy. Just a couple weeks ago a 19 year old banger of a chick heard me out in the hall speaking Chinese on the phone with my wife as she was leaving to go home. Ever since then she's been on my dick like white on rice. Super self conscious. She doesn't know why I can speak Chinese or that I'm married. But that's all it took and she's completely smitten. In the office I speak very little but whenever I do everybody listens.

Seduction is about being noticed without being purposeful. I've always just done that. Girls might not like me at first glance but they're always very quickly head over heels for me. That's the way it's always been since I was a little kid. I'm 38 years old and have never been a looksmaxxer.

So why are you on this forum again?

 

[BeanCelll]

You either obey me in everything or you immediately get the fuck out of my life.

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Yeah, definitely play games with her feelings like unfollowing and stuff. Dear god... people here seriously lack all interpersonal skills

Tf lacking im not lacking shit I’m gonna love bomb her after to make up for it then go bye and make her wish I was there

 

[LoLoyi]

I just overdramatized about something the girl I’m currently talking to had on my insta. I feel like it was a good move not only because it shows I won’t deal with any bs but also because we’ve only been sunshine and rainbows since we started talking and even I sorta almost got bored of it.

All though it would be ideal to never spike my cortisol the only issue is I don’t think she would enjoy it very much. I had to also give her a litmus test right now to see if she would delete it and how much she would argue for it. She said she was fine with me being uncomfortable but didn’t like that I was actually mad at her for it and kept saying sorry and said she would delete them.

I unfollowed her so idk if she did or didn’t but I’m sure I’ll find out tmrw. Sadly I don’t wanna have to play these games on someone who I really like like her but it’s only fair because I truly was uncomfortable and she also has other habits I don’t like. This is the first step of fixing her to be my perfect girl all though it sounds bad the habits she has are extremely unhealthy and she’ll thank me for changing her later on.

There has only been one woman I’ve spoken to who we could have looksmaxxed optimized babies with and I’m trying to see if I can achieve that again. I still value this girl a lot and think I have formed attachment to her but I had to do something.

Nigga what the fuck are you doing, you obv matter to her bc she said that shes sorry and that she would delete it. What the fuck do you expect? There is maybe a 10!percent chance that she will chase you after you fucking unfollowed her for no reason

 

[Lefty Rankin]

So why are you on this forum again?

I found the place by accident in early 2021 and got addicted to Offtopic. See, I was living in a country where the internet is extremely restrictive. I've never been one to use a VPN and this was one of the only English based websites that wasn't banned.

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Nigga what the fuck are you doing, you obv matter to her bc she said that shes sorry and that she would delete it. What the fuck do you expect? There is maybe a 10!percent chance that she will chase you after you fucking unfollowed her for no reason

You’re right that’s my bad but why even contest it. If you knew how stupid the shit was she had there you’d be giving me the right of way. Under no circumstance would I still have that up and if I was talking to someone I wouldn’t want them to see that at all I swear it was a shit test

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

I found the place by accident in early 2021 and got addicted to Offtopic. See, I was living in a country where the internet is extremely restrictive. I've never been one to use a VPN and this was one of the only English based websites that wasn't banned.

Ahhh that’s understandable then

 

[LoLoyi]

You’re right that’s my bad but why even contest it. If you knew how stupid the shit was she had there you’d be giving me the right of way. Under no circumstance would I still have that up and if I was talking to someone I wouldn’t want them to see that at all I swear it was a shit test

Im trying to figure your story out but i dont just cant, wtf did she had on your instagram?

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Im trying to figure your story out but i dont just cant, wtf did she had on your instagram?

It’s not her main but on her spam she still had posts up with her ex bf who she claims cheated on her and like originally I didn’t care but then I realized I was actually attached and decided to throw a 50/50 ball where either she’s the one and will listen to me and quit her bad habits eventually this is step one of her listening to me. Or she’s just like boy ain’t no way u way too ugly to me telling me what to do

 

[LoLoyi]

It’s not her main but on her spam she still had posts up with her ex bf who she claims cheated on her and like originally I didn’t care but then I realized I was actually attached and decided to throw a 50/50 ball where either she’s the one and will listen to me and quit her bad habits eventually this is step one of her listening to me. Or she’s just like boy ain’t no way u way too ugly to me telling me what to do

Nah bro she aint the one wtf, if its like this then you did good, but even if she “changes” she will just delete the story but her mindset wont. Theres a high chance you wouldve got cheated on by that hoe

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Nah bro she aint the one wtf, if its like this then you did good, but even if she “changes” she will just delete the story but her mindset wont. Theres a high chance you wouldve got cheated on by that hoe

3 year relationship and she says she hasn’t been with anyone else and to her defense she has like 210 posts but I don’t CAREEEEEE

Dude needs to lock in but I’ll just keep updating here I suppose

 

[LoLoyi]

3 year relationship and she says she hasn’t been with anyone else and to her defense she has like 210 posts but I don’t CAREEEEEE

Dude needs to lock in but I’ll just keep updating here I suppose

Maybe she didnt even broke up with him and shes just fucking with you, but who knows? She obv doesnt deserve anything from anyone stupid whore

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Maybe she didnt even broke up with him and shes just fucking with you, but who knows? She obv doesnt deserve anything from anyone stupid whore

WOAH easy chill on her but I did think of that. Idk she’s really sweet and fits my personality a lot like i genuinely like her but um yeah im puzzled.

My friend who left our college town but his older sister is still here told me she was saying i had cute feminine features so tmrw im gonna go buy matcha from her and try to flirt my way in to forget about this girl

 

[LoLoyi]

WOAH easy chill on her but I did think of that. Idk she’s really sweet and fits my personality a lot like i genuinely like her but um yeah im puzzled.

My friend who left our college town but his older sister is still here told me she was saying i had cute feminine features so tmrw im gonna go buy matcha from her and try to flirt my way in to forget about this girl

Nah sorry, but that girl deserves it, shes obv trolling you and you was letting her dissrespect you

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Nah sorry, but that girl deserves it, shes obv trolling you and you was letting her dissrespect you

Ight so I was in the right for fucking making her feel bad then right? Like that is so deserved cause if I like someone I’m removing ALL pics of me with girls if I truly like them. I guess it comes down to not being good looking enough ssdly

 

[RecessedCels]

I had to also give her a litmus test right now to see if she would delete it and how much she would argue for it. She said she was fine with me being uncomfortable but didn’t like that I was actually mad at her for it and kept saying sorry and said she would delete them.

Delete what

 

[LoLoyi]

Ight so I was in the right for fucking making her feel bad then right? Like that is so deserved cause if I like someone I’m removing ALL pics of me with girls if I truly like them. I guess it comes down to not being good looking enough ssdly

Yea youre deff in the right, i had a few situations like this and the moral of the story is that youre not good looking enough sadly

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Delete what

On her spam she still had posts where it was her and her ex bf

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Yea youre deff in the right, i had a few situations like this and the moral of the story is that youre not good looking enough sadly

BROOOOTAL yeah honestly im so glad i did that 50/50 cause ngl like she was just spiking my cortisol and making my tummy hurt making my anxiety go crazy. Plus now that shes mad at me possibly idk what she is but we aren’t really talking i can actually go after my friend’s sister

 

[RecessedCels]

On her spam she still had posts where it was her and her ex bf

Hmmm wait not as bad as I imagined. If she's just spamming shit I doubt she checks her old posts. If she doesn't delete them instantly tho then

 

[LoLoyi]

BROOOOTAL yeah honestly im so glad i did that 50/50 cause ngl like she was just spiking my cortisol and making my tummy hurt making my anxiety go crazy. Plus now that shes mad at me possibly idk what she is but we aren’t really talking i can actually go after my friend’s sister

Wait for how long did yall text? And im sorry that im kinda being brutal to you, but the chances that shes mad at you are pretty small

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Hmmm wait not as bad as I imagined. If she's just spamming shit I doubt she checks her old posts. If she doesn't delete them instantly tho then

I’m sure she doesn’t check it and maybe it was an honest mistake but this is what she said when I got mad.

“but like i feel like its normal to be uncomfortable about it but to actually be upset at me abt it is different and the only thing i can do now is apologize and delete them but thats not doing anything”

And maybe she’s right but um it just shows she really doesn’t like me or something. Like I just know if I really liked this girl I wouldn’t do it.

Then she also said this “
I haven’t posted with him in months first of all

second of all i am over him i think i would know that

third of all we just met how was i supposed to know you were entering my life

fourth of all ts same guy who cheated on me btw i literally dont want that mf whatsoever

Fifth of all I like you
“

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Wait for how long did yall text? And im sorry that im kinda being brutal to you, but the chances that shes mad at you are pretty small

We’ve been like seriously texting for like a week but she was alr plotting on me and told me how she would stalk my snapscore to make sure I was only snapping her way before we started like flirting.

The issue with her is I fell so attached cause we stayed up so late talking right away and our personalities just clicked

 

[RecessedCels]

E

I’m sure she doesn’t check it and maybe it was an honest mistake but this is what she said when I got mad.

“but like i feel like its normal to be uncomfortable about it but to actually be upset at me abt it is different and the only thing i can do now is apologize and delete them but thats not doing anything”

And maybe she’s right but um it just shows she really doesn’t like me or something. Like I just know if I really liked this girl I wouldn’t do it.

Then she also said this “
I haven’t posted with him in months first of all

second of all i am over him i think i would know that

third of all we just met how was i supposed to know you were entering my life

fourth of all ts same guy who cheated on me btw i literally dont want that mf whatsoever

Fifth of all I like you
“

Ehh doesn't sound too bad . So how'd you react

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

E

Ehh doesn't sound too bad . So how'd you react

I talk like a girl every girl I’ve talked to points out my sass and attitude but um. At first I was just like ight wtv idc forget about it. Then 30 mins later I sorta crashed out saying buddy says she’s over her bf but didn’t delete the posts with him and was just saying it was standard to do that and saying how if I got cheated on I definitely wouldn’t have posts up with us still together. And said I knew girls who would get in fights with their bfs of years and delete all their posts right away but saying it’s fine she doesn’t need to delete them she can do wtv she wants but I just wasn’t gonna follow her spam cause it would make me conscious and I’d be seen as a cuck

 

[LoLoyi]

We’ve been like seriously texting for like a week but she was alr plotting on me and told me how she would stalk my snapscore to make sure I was only snapping her way before we started like flirting.

The issue with her is I fell so attached cause we stayed up so late talking right away and our personalities just clicked

Damn idk bro

 

[Wexilarious]

Ts is good if you harmer type guy and she is selfharmer type girl or vise versa

 

[RecessedCels]

I talk like a girl every girl I’ve talked to points out my sass and attitude but um. At first I was just like ight wtv idc forget about it. Then 30 mins later I sorta crashed out saying buddy says she’s over her bf but didn’t delete the posts with him and was just saying it was standard to do that and saying how if I got cheated on I definitely wouldn’t have posts up with us still together. And said I knew girls who would get in fights with their bfs of years and delete all their posts right away but saying it’s fine she doesn’t need to delete them she can do wtv she wants but I just wasn’t gonna follow her spam cause it would make me conscious and I’d be seen as a cuck

Well I don't really know. If she deleted everything from her main account and barely uses the spam account then it makes sense somewhat I guess? Is there anything else she does that's suspicious

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Ts is good if you harmer type guy and she is selfharmer type girl or vise versa

I’m not rlly into that but like at the same time it’s a shittest I fear and she just is trynna see what she can get away with I think.

I also don’t think she thinks I like her so me reacting this way might’ve attracted her more as I showed I care

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Well I don't really know. If she deleted everything from her main account and barely uses the spam account then it makes sense somewhat I guess? Is there anything else she does that's suspicious

Yeah you’re right idk I’m sure we will make up tmrw I’ll go over and we can start loving eachother again. Um suspicious she has a guy best friend since 4th grade but he has a gf anyways idk how I feel about that.

Luckily I’ve developed my own girl best friend recently who is lesbian so I can play a card similar

 

[RecessedCels]

Um suspicious she has a guy best friend since 4th grade but he has a gf anyways idk how I feel about that.

Yeah man nah . Has posts up with a guy AND has a guy best friend. Only redeeming factor is that he's in a relationship