How many married men actually have good sex?

[disillusioned]

 

[CupOfCoffee]

There's no logical reason to get married as a man. Zero upside/reward. I'm never falling for this meme

 

[hebbewem]

Taking away old people they probaly have better sex life compared to when they were single

 

[Deleted member 15099]

Great majority have sex but its not that good. Also caged at the last option

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

being married implies ur already old enough to not enjoy sex anymore. over for ur sex life beyond 25 yo tbh for men and women

 

[Reckless Turtle]

There's already a stat that gets passed around
(I've seen it on FDS) of an only ~30% success rate regarding the female orgasm (I don't know the exact specifications), and that probably includes women sharing a top tier guy.

Factoring in old people and couples with children, I'd argue that the 5% option is fairly accurate.

 

[disillusioned]

being married implies ur already old enough to not enjoy sex anymore. over for ur sex life beyond 25 yo tbh for men and women

Tbh I think this is bullshit.

Yes, the agepill is brutal. But I've seen chads in their late 40's/early 50's make out with milfs at the nightclub. Clearly some chads age better than others. And he was fat as well (gymcels on suicide watch).

 

[CupOfCoffee]

There's already a stat that gets passed around
(I've seen it on FDS) of an only ~30% success rate regarding the female orgasm (I don't know the exact specifications), and that probably includes women sharing a top tier guy.

Factoring in old people and couples with children, I'd argue that the 5% option is fairly accurate.

being married implies ur already old enough to not enjoy sex anymore. over for ur sex life beyond 25 yo tbh for men and women

Bruh my sister has multiple children with her husband, I've talked to her about sex and she talks about sex like it's something from her past life, like it's a little treat she gives her husband once a month JFL but she "doesn't even think about it anymore".

Just LOL at this meme of "love" and commitment

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

Tbh I think this is bullshit.

Yes, the agepill is brutal. But I've seen chads in their late 40's/early 50's make out with milfs at the nightclub. Clearly some chads age better than others. And he was fat as well (gymcels on suicide watch).

yeah but still their sex drive is nowhere near close to the teenage horniness. making out and having sex just so happens to be arousing enough at even 50 yo doesn't mean it's as enjoyable as when ur young

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

Bruh my sister has multiple children with her husband, I've talked to her about sex and she talks about sex like it's something from her past life, like it's a little treat she gives her husband once a month JFL but she "doesn't even think about it anymore".

Just LOL at this meme of "love" and commitment

lol mirin ur openness to talk so casually with ur sister about her sex life

 

[CupOfCoffee]

lol mirin ur openness to talk so casually with ur sister about her sex life

Yeah I got mad at her and told her to not be a lazy asshole to her husband jfl. Women become pathetic once they have kids and commitment it makes me laugh at the whole concept of monogamy

 

[HOLYFUARK]

Asking incels how many husbands still have sex ,mirin iq

 

[Deleted member 11292]

Realistically how many years is she going to want to spread her legs in name of the little "commitments" you made each other

 

[Deleted member 11292]

And that's all she has to really, but she can't even do that!

 

[disillusioned]

yeah but still their sex drive is nowhere near close to the teenage horniness. making out and having sex just so happens to be arousing enough at even 50 yo doesn't mean it's as enjoyable as when ur young

Tbh I think the hormone thing is bullshit. Women have way lower testosterone than males yet somehow they go crazy for chad and many have hundreds of partners.

I think the reason people of both genders get less excited for sex as they age is merely because they've become desensitized to it. I remember how stunned I was the first time I saw actual porn. Up until that point my only experience seeing sex was in the movies where the naughty elements got censored. I was actually able to masturbate to the sex scene from Titanic merely because it had a naked woman in it. That was all it took. A naked woman with uncensored tits. Now that I'm a 31 year old male with 15+ years of masturbating to hardcore porn, the idea of getting off to something like that is utterly laughable. In fact, even porn itself is no longer very exciting to me.

Your 'hormones' have nothing to do with this. You merely lose the ability to get excited because of repeat exposure. The awe factor is gone.

Also consider this fact: In the 1950's, the average male lasted only 1-2 min during sex. 1-2 fucking minutes. When jerking off to porn I can last for 20-60 min easily. Why? Exposure.

Tbh this is pretty fucking sad when you think about it.

 

[SLA]

There's a really important caveat - whether they waited for marriage. I don't know why anyone rational would be shocked to hear this - if you rip out the very center of marriage, no wonder it doesn't work.

For a modern "couple" that fornicates constantly, maybe 20%.

For a proper couple that waits, probably 90% if not more.

 

[SLA]

double post website is dead without lamarcus

 

[Deleted member 11292]

Tbh I think the hormone thing is bullshit. Women have way lower testosterone than males yet somehow they go crazy for chad and many have hundreds of partners.

I think the reason people of both genders get less excited for sex as they age is merely because they've become desensitized to it. I remember how stunned I was the first time I saw actual porn. Up until that point my only experience seeing sex was in the movies where the naughty elements got censored. I was actually able to masturbate to the sex scene from Titanic merely because it had a naked woman in it. That was all it took. A naked woman with uncensored tits. Now that I'm a 31 year old male with 15+ years of masturbating to hardcore porn, the idea of getting off to something like that is utterly laughable. In fact, even porn itself is no longer very exciting to me.

Your 'hormones' have nothing to do with this. You merely lose the ability to get excited because of repeat exposure. The awe factor is gone.

Also consider this fact: In the 1950's, the average male lasted only 1-2 min during sex. 1-2 fucking minutes. When jerking off to porn I can last for 20-60 min easily. Why? Exposure.

Tbh this is pretty fucking sad when you think about it.

Lmao this is who you are

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

Tbh I think the hormone thing is bullshit. Women have way lower testosterone than males yet somehow they go crazy for chad and many have hundreds of partners.

I think the reason people of both genders get less excited for sex as they age is merely because they've become desensitized to it. I remember how stunned I was the first time I saw actual porn. Up until that point my only experience seeing sex was in the movies where the naughty elements got censored. I was actually able to masturbate to the sex scene from Titanic merely because it had a naked woman in it. That was all it took. A naked woman with uncensored tits. Now that I'm a 31 year old male with 15+ years of masturbating to hardcore porn, the idea of getting off to something like that is utterly laughable. In fact, even porn itself is no longer very exciting to me.

Your 'hormones' have nothing to do with this. You merely lose the ability to get excited because of repeat exposure. The awe factor is gone.

Also consider this fact: In the 1950's, the average male lasted only 1-2 min during sex. 1-2 fucking minutes. When jerking off to porn I can last for 20-60 min easily. Why? Exposure.

Tbh this is pretty fucking sad when you think about it.

u can't speak for anyone when it comes to ur desensitisation to porn. hormones plummeting as u age, hence lower sex drive, is very real it's not even debatable when it comes to affecting sex enjoyability, but i agree mostly with what u said, exposure has a lot to do with boring sex lives.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

My stepfather, in his 50s:

white, over 6', NW2ish, didn't look as old as he was, lean muscle mass (went to the gym, bicycled seriously), made over 6 figures

My mom (even years before menopause; she was a decade younger than him) slept in another bedroom and they would maybe have sex once or twice a month. I was in HS and there were no other kids. She would throw temper tantrums multiple times a week, sent him to jail once for putting his hands on her (trying to calm her down), and would accuse him of cheating.

He was easily in the top 5% of men in his age bracket. Now imagine the guys below him...

 

[Deleted member 14138]

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All answers are wrong. Because the number is less than 1 percent.

 

[Deleted member 11292]

All answers are wrong. Because the number is less than 1 percent.

Dude I was gonna marry this girl, I still am? What the fuck do I do?

 

[Deleted member 11292]

All answers are wrong. Because the number is less than 1 percent.

Dude I was gonna marry this girl, I still am? What the fuck do I do?

 

[Deleted member 14138]

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All answers are wrong. Because the number is less than 1 percent.

Dude I was gonna marry this girl, I still am? What the fuck do I do?

Obi Wan Kenobi yourself. And let the fate of your future take its course.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

6', NW2ish, didn't look as old as he was, lean muscle mass (went to the gym, bicycled seriously), made over 6 figures

- 180cm, NW2, 6 figures
- Top 5%

pick one

 

[Reckless Turtle]

- 180cm, NW2, 6 figures
- Top 5%

pick one

He was easily in the top 5% of men in his age bracket.

6' (183 cm): 85th percentile
6 figures: 90th percentile (and I have no idea how much more than $100k he was earning)

Being white, having lean muscle mass, not destroyed by NW reaper, not wrinkly are also exclusive metrics.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Almost impossible to tell. I would say no more then 20% of married couples have good sex (good sex multiple times a week). You can't really ask this question to somebody and expect an honest answer from people.

My parents are probably dead bedroom, I would be suprised if they have had sex in the last few years. They have simply coexisted for a long time. No affection between them ever since my mum became a wagecuck.

When I see the average married couple, I would be in shock if they are having sex multple times per week.

Everything factoring agaisnt you (both men and women):

>Lots of distractions. TV, phones, Games. Not much time to be initimate with your SO. Give all screens a Dr eppley custom wraparound shotgun implant ASAP if your married.
>Most people let themselves go when they get into an LTR because "looks don't matter" JFL. Its quite sad to see. People just stop caring about their apperance once they have sealed the deal.
>People get fucked over by their shitty jobs. Come back from work stressed out. No time for intimacy. (Probably what happened to my parents).
>Other commitments. Kids, billls etc.
>Dwindling sex drive. Although this is cope until your 60+.
>Complatency. People being dishonest with themselves, staying in shitty relationships. The list goes on.

Male specific
>Being a betabux. Your just an ATM machine, not a sexual partner.

Female specific
>Fat acceptance movement. Men are more likely to be down bad and stay with a woman they aren't attracted to. You see alot more overweight women + normal weight man then overweight man + normal woman before.
>Crazy women. Men have higher tolarance for this shit then vice versa. If a man acts crazy is domestic abuse. If a woman acts crazy "she can't help it.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Almost impossible to tell. I would say no more then 20% of married couples have good sex (good sex multiple times a week). You can't really ask this question to somebody and expect an honest answer from people.

My parents are probably dead bedroom, I would be suprised if they have had sex in the last few years. They have simply coexisted for a long time. No affection between them ever since my mum became a wagecuck.

When I see the average married couple, I would be in shock if they are having sex multple times per week.

Everything factoring agaisnt you (both men and women):

>Lots of distractions. TV, phones, Games. Not much time to be initimate with your SO. Give all screens a Dr eppley custom wraparound shotgun implant ASAP if your married.
>Most people let themselves go when they get into an LTR because "looks don't matter" JFL. Its quite sad to see. People just stop caring about their apperance once they have sealed the deal.
>People get fucked over by their shitty jobs. Come back from work stressed out. No time for intimacy. (Probably what happened to my parents).
>Other commitments. Kids, billls etc.
>Dwindling sex drive. Although this is cope until your 60+.
>Complatency. People being dishonest with themselves, staying in shitty relationships. The list goes on.

Male specific
>Being a betabux. Your just an ATM machine, not a sexual partner.

Female specific
>Fat acceptance movement. Men are more likely to be down bad and stay with a woman they aren't attracted to. You see alot more overweight women + normal weight man then overweight man + normal woman before.
>Crazy women. Men have higher tolarance for this shit then vice versa. If a man acts crazy is domestic abuse. If a woman acts crazy "she can't help it.

 

[Deleted member 16289]

Only White Men have sex

 

[Tusseleif]

I saw some stats that said sex decreases significantly each year after marriage. I doubt it’s no more than half having regular sex

 

[Deleted member 5786]

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[Deleted member 16134]

Actually boomers are having more sex than ever