How many negatives in a girl would outweigh the good and kill any chance of dating???????

[Im sorry mother]

So here’s the situation: I’ve been talking to this girl for about 5 months. She approached me first and got my number first. We’ve gone on 6+ dates, we’ve already had sex , and honestly, we act like we’re a couple. I’ve even bought her gifts and flowers for Girlfriend’s Day. I really do love her, and I’ve put in a lot of effort to keep things going (yeah, I know it sounds like simp/cuck stuff, but trust the plan lol).


She says she loves me too, but the problem is she’s not great at communicating when we arent together irl . She ghosts me for days, lies sometimes, and her mood shifts like crazyyyyyy. One week she acts like she’s ready to be my wife sending me good morning and goodnight texts and shit, then the next week she’s super cold. Every time we see each other, it feels like I have to make her fall for me all over again or else it’s overrrrrrr!!! it also feels like she sometimes only reach outs when she needs smth like a ride or smth and uses the excuse to hang out with me so I can give it to her lol.


It feels like I’m stuck in some evil limbo hell lol. I could make a whole list of negatives about her. it’s a lot. But she’s exactly my type. If I drew my dream girl, it would literally be her. That’s why I’m stuck. I love her way more than she loves me, and I’m definitely putting in more effort than she is. She is perfect when we are together but when we are not together its all hell.

I just got out of rehab and promised I’d reach out to her and she told me shed wait for me, but I haven’t talked to her in 2 weeks. I haven’t even checked my phone since I got it back 3 days ago because I’m scared to text her back lmaoooo shes so sweet but a fucking psychooo.


what to do brossss should I keep trying with this girl, or is it time to walk away???????

Dont bother replying with "chad fucking her rn/ chad wouldnt even think about this" cuz i already know lmaooo

 

[Foreverbrad]

Just get a side chick so you have something to take your mind off it when she’s acting cold.

 

[takethezincpill]

Just get a side chick so you have something to take your mind off it when she’s acting cold.

This is the way

 

[zuffensons]

I had this kind of gf , i just started being cold all the time and then she decided to be more active

 

[htautist]

So here’s the situation: I’ve been talking to this girl for about 5 months. She approached me first and got my number first. We’ve gone on 6+ dates, we’ve already had sex , and honestly, we act like we’re a couple. I’ve even bought her gifts and flowers for Girlfriend’s Day. I really do love her, and I’ve put in a lot of effort to keep things going (yeah, I know it sounds like simp/cuck stuff, but trust the plan lol).


She says she loves me too, but the problem is she’s not great at communicating when we arent together irl . She ghosts me for days, lies sometimes, and her mood shifts like crazyyyyyy. One week she acts like she’s ready to be my wife sending me good morning and goodnight texts and shit, then the next week she’s super cold. Every time we see each other, it feels like I have to make her fall for me all over again or else it’s overrrrrrr!!! it also feels like she sometimes only reach outs when she needs smth like a ride or smth and uses the excuse to hang out with me so I can give it to her lol.


It feels like I’m stuck in some evil limbo hell lol. I could make a whole list of negatives about her. it’s a lot. But she’s exactly my type. If I drew my dream girl, it would literally be her. That’s why I’m stuck. I love her way more than she loves me, and I’m definitely putting in more effort than she is. She is perfect when we are together but when we are not together its all hell.

I just got out of rehab and promised I’d reach out to her and she told me shed wait for me, but I haven’t talked to her in 2 weeks. I haven’t even checked my phone since I got it back 3 days ago because I’m scared to text her back lmaoooo shes so sweet but a fucking psychooo.


what to do brossss should I keep trying with this girl, or is it time to walk away???????

Dont bother replying with "chad fucking her rn/ chad wouldnt even think about this" cuz i already know lmaooo

I mean if she’s your dream girl might aswell keep trying idk

 

[Im sorry mother]

Just get a side chick so you have something to take your mind off it when she’s acting cold.

I don’t wanna cheat on her lol. It’s rare for me to even find a girl attractive, and when I do, I put in everything to make her happy (yeah, even staying loyal lmaooo). My female friends are boring, side chicks cause drama , and this girl stalks my stuff like crazy but pretends not to care shes a fucking psycho, but I’m hooked on her like cocaine.

 

[Cicciosudmaxxer]

This type of girl will drain you
I’ve accepted I can’t be w these girls bc they literally will go crazy a couple days a month

 

[Im sorry mother]

I mean if she’s your dream girl might aswell keep trying idk

I had this kind of gf , i just started being cold all the time and then she decided to be more active

Everyone told me to do this and kinda works lol but I wanna talk to her everyday and I NEED those goodmorning texts to not feel like shit

 

[Im sorry mother]

This type of girl will drain you
I’ve accepted I can’t be w these girls bc they literally will go crazy a couple days a month

Rather her go crazy about me than not. But you're right she drains me a lot but its worth it since I really really like her

 

[Cicciosudmaxxer]

Rather her go crazy about me than not. But you're right she drains me a lot but its worth it since I really really like her

I meant they go crazy and you have no idea what to expect from them
I brought a girl I was seeing a rose on st valentines and she freaked out
Went on to tell my friends I was obsessed w her and I was crazy, meanwhile this bitch told me on like the 3rd date she had bpd

 

[browncurrycel]

we’ve already had sex

Stopped reading here

 

[Im sorry mother]

I meant they go crazy and you have no idea what to expect from them
I brought a girl I was seeing a rose on st valentines and she freaked out
Went on to tell my friends I was obsessed w her and I was crazy, meanwhile this bitch told me on like the 3rd date she had bpd

Nah shes not that type of crazy or has BPD maybe some but slightly. Sorry to hear about that man.


She’s told everyone she knows about me saying nothing but how perfect I am etc , but the problem is how up and down she is. In person she’s the best thing ever, sometimes she’s sweet over text too but then she’ll randomly ignore me, leave me on sent on purpose , and the next day act like nothing happened and then stalk my socials the days shes leaving me on sent lollll. It’s honestly so exhausting.


She’s also kinda “famous” online, which makes it worse. Maybe I’m just overthinking, but my biggest worry isn’t she cheating cuz I know she's not trust me I know but it’s whether she actually cares about me at all. That’s why I’m scared to text her again… what if she’s already moved on from me???

Stopped reading here

JFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL gave me a good laughhhh

 

[LTNUser]

Stopped reading here

You should Gymmaxe bhai,maybe that could save you

 

[browncurrycel]

You should Gymmaxe bhai,maybe that could save you

Already been working out for around 2.5 years bhai
I have a good physique but no point as I'm 5'5