How many women have shown a genuine romantic/sexual interest in you IRL?

How many women have given you real IOIs?


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TheLightOfMyLife

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Genuinely curious as to how many women have shown you guys IOIs.
No internet or dating app shit unless it led to a lay.
 
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Genuinely curious as to how many women have shown you guys IOIs.
No internet or dating app shit unless it led to a lay.
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1-3 but not in recent years for sure..
 
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does being approached count
 
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6 girls without me showing any interest in them, and 2 girls that I was also interested in
 
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In my whole life like 7, most were just attention seekers idk if that counts


Like girls who were so friendly with me people would assume we were a couple and they wouldn't deny it, send me pics of themselves etc... But then reject me when I ask them
 
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like 4 in that case but 3 of those were from years ago and im a subhuman either way
brutally and viciously mogs me
 
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In my whole life like 7, most were just attention seekers idk if that counts
considering pua ioi – yes, it counts
 
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0 but maybe 1 when i was younger [like 7] cant remember though
 
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Genuinely curious as to how many women have shown you guys IOIs.
No internet or dating app shit unless it led to a lay.
do you count compliments as an interest ?
 
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do you count compliments as an interest ?


Depends on what was said and the context. Bitches will absolutely give fake compliments to people they view as beneath them all the time
 
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Depends on what was said and the context. Bitches will absolutely give fake compliments to people they view as beneath them all the time
nah like real compliments but from girls i wasn't attracted to
 
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Of those 6

3 were coworkers with me at my first job (One simp on me after the first 2-3 months, the other 2 after I had the balls to quit my job after 4 months, after we saw each other at the university again, because we all had common classes)

1 was a girl from the Netherlands who I started chatting with on Facebook from an atheist group around 2017

1 was my cousin when she was 12 and me like 9

1 was a girl in the first year of university, who heard me randomly singing some dumb catchy neo-Protestant music through the break, came very happily up to me to tell me that she listens to that shit too, and if I didn't want to go with her on some weekend to church

And the 2 that I was also interested in were:

1 girl crush from the first 4 years of school

1 girl crush from the last 2 years of high school
 
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Of those 6

3 were coworkers with me at my first job (One simp on me after the first 2-3 months, the other 2 after I had the balls to quit my job after 4 months, after we saw each other at the university again, because we all had common classes)

1 was a girl from the Netherlands who I started chatting with on Facebook from an atheist group around 2017

1 was my cousin when she was 12 and me like 9

1 was a girl in the first year of university, who heard me randomly singing some dumb catchy neo-Protestant music through the break, came very happily up to me to tell me that she listens to that shit too, and if I didn't want to go with her on some weekend to church

And the 2 that I was also interested in were:

1 girl crush from the first 4 years of school

1 girl crush from the last 2 years of high school
Good analysis
 
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Depends on what was said and the context. Bitches will absolutely give fake compliments to people they view as beneath them all the time
There was this girl who used to compliment me a lot, like stop me in the hallway and say I looked handsome when I wore something nice

I asked her out, just the two of us at night , she agreed, then her goddamm monkey brain clicked and she said that I shouldn't be flirting with her and rejected me :feelswhy:

Same happened with another one who'd tell me I had a facecard and would let me cope a feel sometimes, send me pics, show me her tattoos, straight up pose for me when I compliment her and she still rejected me

And I have like 3 other anecdotes like that

I must've beat some kind of record by now
 
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0, i’m a filthy subhuman
 
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As @truthhurts said there was such a list given to me, and I would say I am pretty aware of what my weak points are.
I just don't feel like anything will really matter, and it certainly won't undo this trauma and self-hatred, and I don't think I could ever be genuinely loved. I am a doomed soul and I can't do anything but feel depressed and sorry for myself.
 
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50+ 9.3%? who tf are the 9.3%
 
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As @truthhurts said there was such a list given to me, and I would say I am pretty aware of what my weak points are.
I just don't feel like anything will really matter, and it certainly won't undo this trauma and self-hatred, and I don't think I could ever be genuinely loved. I am a doomed soul and I can't do anything but feel depressed and sorry for myself.
If your surgeries somehow go fine, you could easily go to 3rd countries and slay there to regain your confidence.
I don’t think love as concept does exist.
But once again you need money and you have to include other things aswell,

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If your surgeries somehow go fine, you could easily go to 3rd countries and slay there to regain your confidence.
I don’t think love as concept does exist.
But once again you need money and you have to include other things aswell,

:ogre:
I know beggars can't be choosers, but I would rather blow my brains out in a sewer than go for any woman who wasn't an average/skinny white MTB or HTB. I just would not get much dopamine from slaying in 3rd world countries because I cannot feel the tenderness/care towards brown/asian women that I can feel for white women.

but yeah , money will be important for coping and living an acceptable life as a lonely weirdo.
 
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I know beggars can't be choosers, but I would rather blow my brains out in a sewer than go for any woman who wasn't an average/skinny white MTB or HTB. I just would not get much dopamine from slaying in 3rd world countries because I cannot feel the tenderness/care towards brown/asian women that I can feel for white women.

but yeah , money will be important for coping and living an acceptable life as a lonely weirdo.
No, the idea is to regain confidence in 3rd countries, then settle down or slay in your country.
You could easily slay, your BBC Mogger:feelsyay:
Just wait for the appropriate snowbunny season
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