How much does JBF (just be first), actually matter?

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If you get your first gf in say 9th grade youre both 14 and somehow stay together through all of high school. When you leave and go to college. How likely is it that she cheats on you with a chad there? Because I see niggas talking about teen love but now that I think about it. Its much worse to experience teen love and then get cheated on by your gf when you get to college. Obviously a foid today has the ability to fuck any chad because of instagram and intended. But seeing a chad in person must be even more tempting for a foid.
 
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If you get your first gf in say 9th grade youre both 14 and somehow stay together through all of high school. When you leave and go to college. How likely is it that she cheats on you with a chad there? Because I see niggas talking about teen love but now that I think about it. Its much worse to experience teen love and then get cheated on by your gf when you get to college. Obviously a foid today has the ability to fuck any chad because of instagram and intended. But seeing a chad in person must be even more tempting for a foid.
the jbf pill doesnt matter at all, ive seen stories where couples have been together since middle school and the guy still gets cheated on
 
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the jbf pill doesnt matter at all, ive seen stories where couples have been together since middle school and the guy still gets cheated on
Its better to be chad with a gf that has had a body count than be mtn with a virgin. The mtn is never in the clear but chad knows he mogs all her previous partners
 
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Its much worse to experience teen love and then get cheated on by your gf when you get to college.
Shit like this can happen in all types of relationships. Loyalty isn’t inherently real. If she finds someone better than you, the only logical thing to do is leave you for that better person.
However, just being first is still very important. You’re the one who took her virginity, her first kiss, her first time holding hands. The chemical bonds formed during these first experiences connect you both. After years together, that connection would be more important to her than any hookup. It’ll make her less likely to cheat.
Honestly, teen love might not be the best experience, but it’s crucial for your development. You’ll never be as emotionally intelligent or mentally developed as your peers if you miss out.
 
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If you get your first gf in say 9th grade youre both 14 and somehow stay together through all of high school. When you leave and go to college. How likely is it that she cheats on you with a chad there? Because I see niggas talking about teen love but now that I think about it. Its much worse to experience teen love and then get cheated on by your gf when you get to college. Obviously a foid today has the ability to fuck any chad because of instagram and intended. But seeing a chad in person must be even more tempting for a foid.
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f í was a chad to begin with, why would she cheat on me? talk about a perfect couple.
 
Shit like this can happen in all types of relationships. Loyalty isn’t inherently real. If she finds someone better than you, the only logical thing to do is leave you for that better person.
However, just being first is still very important. You’re the one who took her virginity, her first kiss, her first time holding hands. The chemical bonds formed during these first experiences connect you both. After years together, that connection would be more important to her than any hookup. It’ll make her less likely to cheat.
Honestly, teen love might not be the best experience, but it’s crucial for your development. You’ll never be as emotionally intelligent or mentally developed as your peers if you miss out.
I had an entirely different dimension of experiences, but its not a problem. "De nem baj"
 

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