how much money should you brlng lf your taklng a glrl out shopplng?

[Gosick]

llke lf a glrl wants to go shopplng wlth you, how much money should you brlng? how much do they typcally spend?


anyone know?

 

[turkproducer]

first she approached u in ur car, now ur going shopping

are you betabuxing this girl

 

[Alt Number 3]

Chad brings $0 and his girl betabuxes him

 

[Gosick]

first she approached u in ur car, now ur going shopping

are you betabuxing this girl

no, l only spent llke 3 dollars on her so far and lt was for her drlnk, and lts really hard to say "no" to a glrl thats very gllng tbh for some reason.

 

[Over]

0$ you low T cuck betabux

 

[eduardkoopman]

first she approached u in ur car, now ur going shopping

are you betabuxing this girl

It screams Beta-Buxxing.

At the same time.
I think beta-Buxxing has gotten to bad of a reputation. While it is bad; it's also not THAT bad.

For a normie, Beta-Buxxing is the only way to be maybe able to date/fuck within or outside of his looks league. (i could get a woman that was about 0.5PSL higher then me, to be in retalionship with me for 4 years, by low-key Beta Buxxing (in my case, me doing 75% of the spending of the shared expenses. and me being more generous with gifts for certain ..days).

I advice, beta-Buxxers. To be reserved about it initially. Be, carefull. Use a tit-for-tat approach. Don't go full out at once, but in small amounts/portions. And be a bit difficult when beta-buxxing, as in negotiate down.

Maybe any normie, should at least once in his life go beta-buxxing type of relationship. ONLY Beta-Buxx;for like maximum 3-5 dates/meetups when trying to get with a woman. Then sex should had happened (max 5 dates rule for example). And after 3-5 dates; ONLY continue Beta-Buxxing if sex had happened already. Otherwise cut is lose (i thinnk that is a decent general rule).
Then you can experience, what Beta-Buxxing feels like.

I did it once. In a 4 years relationships. My only LTR I ave had. I was low-key Beta-Buxxing. And I relly did love her.
Afterwards and during also a bit, Beta-Buxxing fealt bad/pathetic. But the compensated sex and validation kind mad up for it a bit. But overall; it doesn't feel so good, or bad, to be Beta-buxxing 9al least for me it did). It's okay to do it though once, to try it out.
But, don't be a Beta-Buxxer without sex (with the only exception of the first 3 dates orso, where you can be LOW KEY beta-buxxing for thse first 3-5 dates to aim to get sex). NeverBeta-Buxx, likes these fools that send money to intagram/snapchat/etc.. women; ONLY beta-buxx when dating for 1-on-1 meetups/dates. Only then.

 

[turkproducer]

It screams Beta-Buxxing.

At the same time.
I think beta-Buxxing has gotten to bad of a reputation. While it is bad; it's also not THAT bad.

For a normie, Beta-Buxxing is the only way to be maybe able to date/fuck within or outside of his looks league.

I advice, beta-Buxxers. To be reserved about it initially. Be, carefull. Use a tit-for-tat approach. Don't go full out at once, but in small amounts/portions. And be a bit difficult when beta-buxxing, as in negotiate down.

Maybe any normie, should at least once in his life go beta-buxxing type of relationship. ONLY Beta-Buxx;for like maximum 3-5 dates/meetups. Then sex should had happened. And after 3-5 dates; ONLY continue Beta-Buxxing if sex had happened already. Otherwise cut is lose (i thinnk that is a decent general rule).
Then you can experience, what Beta-Buxxing feels like.

I did it once. In a 4 years relationships. My only LTR I ave had. I was low-key Beta-Buxxing. And I relly did love her.
Afterwards and during also a bit, Beta-Buxxing fealt bad/pathetic. But the compensated sex and validation kind mad up for it a bit. But overall; it doesn't feel so good, or bad, to be Beta-buxxing 9al least for me it did). It's okay to do it though once, to try it out.
But, don't be a Beta-Buxxer without sex (with the only exception of the first 3 dates orso, where you can be LOW KEY beta-buxxing for thse first 3-5 dates to aim to get sex). NeverBeta-Buxx, likes these fools that send money to intagram/snapchat/etc.. women; ONLY beta-buxx when dating for 1-on-1 meetups/dates. Only then.

idk bro i’m not that high value and i never betabuxed

it instantly lowers her perception of your value

 

[Gosick]

It screams Beta-Buxxing.

At the same time.
I think beta-Buxxing has gotten to bad of a reputation. While it is bad; it's also not THAT bad.

For a normie, Beta-Buxxing is the only way to be maybe able to date/fuck within or outside of his looks league.

I advice, beta-Buxxers. To be reserved about it initially. Be, carefull. Use a tit-for-tat approach. Don't go full out at once, but in small amounts/portions. And be a bit difficult when beta-buxxing, as in negotiate down.

Maybe any normie, should at least once in his life go beta-buxxing type of relationship. ONLY Beta-Buxx;for like maximum 3-5 dates/meetups. Then sex should had happened. And after 3-5 dates; ONLY continue Beta-Buxxing if sex had happened already. Otherwise cut is lose (i thinnk that is a decent general rule).
Then you can experience, what Beta-Buxxing feels like.

I did it once. In a 4 years relationships. My only LTR I ave had. I was low-key Beta-Buxxing. And I relly did love her.
Afterwards and during also a bit, Beta-Buxxing fealt bad/pathetic. But the compensated sex and validation kind mad up for it a bit. But overall; it doesn't feel so good, or bad, to be Beta-buxxing 9al least for me it did). It's okay to do it though once, to try it out.
But, don't be a Beta-Buxxer without sex (with the only exception of the first 3 dates orso, where you can be LOW KEY beta-buxxing for thse first 3-5 dates to aim to get sex). NeverBeta-Buxx, likes these fools that send money to intagram/snapchat/etc.. women; ONLY beta-buxx when dating for 1-on-1 meetups/dates. Only then.

dude lm not betabuxxlng

but anyway, lt feels really good havlng a very attractlve glrl around you/followlng you tbh, l cant really explaln lt f.

 

[Time Travel]

Chad brings $0 and his girl betabuxes him

 

[eduardkoopman]

dude lm not betabuxxlng

but anyway, lt feels really good havlng a very attractlve glrl around you/followlng you tbh, l cant really explaln lt f.

I assumed you were going to pay the bill, of her shopping spree?
But that is not the case, I guess? And she will pay her won goods, and you yours?

If you're going to pay for what she buys. Then I don't advice you to go on such a date. That's to soon. Paying for a woman her clothes, should only be reserved for when you are in sexual relationship with her already. Then only that type of beta Buxxing makes a little bit of sense.

If she is paying for what she is buying. Then it's okay to have a shopping together type of date/meetup/hangout.

 

[Time Travel]

If your girl doesn't pay for your food on dates you might aswell see a prostitute.

 

[Gosick]

I assumed you were going to pay the bill, of her shopping spree?

ldk tbh, she asked me to go to the mall wlth her so l assumed she wants me to go shopplng w her. l just drlve her around places atm (2x so far) cus she cant drlve yet.

lt feels wlerd tbh, never had a glrl wlth a hlgh psl ratlng ever text me llke thls/blowlng up my phone or even had a glrl text me at all.

 

[eduardkoopman]

ldk tbh, she asked me to go to the mall wlth her so l assumed she wants me to go shopplng w her. l just drlve her around places atm (2x so far) cus she cant drlve yet.

lt feels wlerd tbh, never had a glrl wlth a hlgh psl ratlng ever text me llke thls/blowlng up my phone or even had a glrl text me at all.

You have to set your own financial boundries, for yourself. Especially, and Mainly; when you're catsed for a beta-buxx type of role.

So.
Since it's still in the open, wether she is gonna pay for her shopping; or tries to get/manipulate/ask/beg/pitty for you to pay for the bill.
Be prepared! Be prepared, for her to go ask to you to pay for it. And be prepered, what you will answer. Maybe she will explain how money is tight, how she can't afford it, how hard life is, how she will pay you back, how gratefull she would be, etc... Remember plenty women, are masters in getting men to pay. And when you're biology/penis gets involved, you might just budge and go pay up.

I personally, would not pay up. I would (back in the days, when i was okay with beta-buxxing in the contect of a relationship/LTR); if she asked me to pay up for her shopping costs before anything sexual had happened. I would answer, that privilidge of me paying for a woman her clothing, is only reserved for a woman that has become my LTR girlfriend. And that I don't do that for other women. So, if she likes me to pay for that (in the futures), things would need to get more serious between us first.

I was beta-buxx in the past. BUT only in exchange for sex/commitement/relationship (with the excpetion of the first 3 dates; I used to have the "3-date-rule"(with felixibility to max 5-date-rule if I really liked hanging with the woman).
I agree still with that type of beta-Buxxing attitude I had.
No beta-buxxing is best. But sometimes beta-buxxing is the only way to get at least some (becuase of my/our inferior looks)

 

[turkproducer]

You have to set your own financial boundries, for yourself. Especially, and Mainly; when you're catsed for a beta-buxx type of role.

So.
Since it's still in the open, wether she is gonna pay for her shopping.
Be prepared! Be prepared, for her to go ask to you to pay for it. And be prepered, what you will answer. Maybe she will explain how money is tight, how she can't afford it, etc.. Wome women, are masters in getting me to pay.

I personally, would not pay up. I would (back in the days, when i was okay with beta-buxxing in the contect of a relationship/LTR); if she asked me to pay up for her shopping costs before anything sexual had happened. I would answer, that privilidge of me paying for a woman her clothing, is only reserved for a woman that has become my LTR girlfriend. And that I don't do that for other women. So, if she likes me to pay for that (in the futures), things would need to get more serious between us first.

I was beta-buxx in the past. BUT only in exchange for sex/commitement/relationship (with the excpetion of the first 3 dates; I used to have the "3-date-rule"(with felixibility to max 5-date-rule if I really liked hanging with the woman).
I agree still with that type of beta-Buxxing attitude I had.
No beta-buxxing is best. But sometimes beta-buxxing is the only way to get at least some (becuase of my/our inferior looks)

why don’t you just get surgery instead of spending money on women Lol

 

[eduardkoopman]

why don’t you just get surgery instead of spending money on women Lol

That's an alternative also.