Nicki
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I've had two relationships with this specific problem but this recent one was more serious. I'll be talking about how mind boggling this situation was and why it makes me mad. The relationship started very well and both of us were attracted to eachother. She has a crush on me for a year and asked me out just like in the movies. Overtime this just started slowly slipping away. Her affection felt less and less as if something behind the scenes was telling her things. Her friends never liked me from the start and I always felt it. They gave me looks, whispered and laughed around me anytime I was in their proximity. I am not ugly and not short. I am HTN and 6ft, decent enough to turn heads sometimes. But that never mattered to them. Every small mistake I made got stretched into something bigger. Whether it was an argument or a disagreement they never took my side. Every normal flaw became proof that I was not good enough. That is when I really understood how social proof works. Once people decide who you are, everything you do gets filtered through that label.
Over time she stopped seeing me for who I actually was. She started seeing me through their opinions. The "love" faded little by little. More my friends think this and my friends think that rather than what she thought. It did not matter that I stayed loyal or treated her right. Her friends planted the idea that she could level up and ofc everyone including her is hypergamous so she believed it. By the end I was not fighting for her anymore. I was fighting a room full of people that already moved on from me in their heads. The saddest part is realizing I did not lose her to another guy. I lost her to some bitches that are jealous and can't let others have a happy relationship. To clarify, I'm a son of a rich family, extreme appeal, tall and great style. Genuinely softmaxxed to the brim yet it doesn't save me ig? 3 years improving for what lmao. Idk wtf these girls want atp like a fucking 6'5 chad billionaire. And a genuine question is how my friends don't have this problem when they are clearly worse in all of these aspects. To add a cherry on top, one of her friends hit me up after the relationship asking if we could link. Fucking bitches make me wanna peel my skin off i hate them sm. NGL it's because im a asshole but who cares
Over time she stopped seeing me for who I actually was. She started seeing me through their opinions. The "love" faded little by little. More my friends think this and my friends think that rather than what she thought. It did not matter that I stayed loyal or treated her right. Her friends planted the idea that she could level up and ofc everyone including her is hypergamous so she believed it. By the end I was not fighting for her anymore. I was fighting a room full of people that already moved on from me in their heads. The saddest part is realizing I did not lose her to another guy. I lost her to some bitches that are jealous and can't let others have a happy relationship. To clarify, I'm a son of a rich family, extreme appeal, tall and great style. Genuinely softmaxxed to the brim yet it doesn't save me ig? 3 years improving for what lmao. Idk wtf these girls want atp like a fucking 6'5 chad billionaire. And a genuine question is how my friends don't have this problem when they are clearly worse in all of these aspects. To add a cherry on top, one of her friends hit me up after the relationship asking if we could link. Fucking bitches make me wanna peel my skin off i hate them sm. NGL it's because im a asshole but who cares
