how over is it for socially awkward/anxious men?

[appealisLAW]

some days i am kind of socially anxious/awkward around people that are not my close friends of family, also i kind of enjoy being alone most of the day and i hate small talk at the gym or school regardless if i feel anxious that day or not. My question is since i don't look like a typical loner and since i like being alone and i don't go out that much to social events or clubs (instead i just chill with my friends who are similar to me) how over is it for me?

it's weird that even though some days i feel like a weirdo or i just lose the confidence that day i get get attention fairly often (most of the time it's girls asking for my socials or starting conversations with me out of nowhere.)

 

[tom1000]

Worse than being sub5

 

[appealisLAW]

Worse than being sub5

would girls ask for sub5s social and start random convos?
the worst part is that i live in a country where almost everyone is an extrovert

 

[Drugsmaxxer]

hop on maois before its too late

 

[soggra]

Worse than being sub5

Nah because if your good looking enough girls will come to you regardless if your socially awkward. Plus being sub5 makes it more likely for you to be bullied

 

[Deleted member 110111]

over if in latin america. i dont understand american customs