Xylmaxxing
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I get compliments (like 3-5, generally 3 a month) from guys on the basis of my looks (on "sexiness" or face, not hairstyle or some stupid shit). I normally don't take compliments seriously, so I filter them into serious and casual compliments (and applying that filter, i get at least 2 serious ones every month).
Also guys in my school do not refrain from complimenting (as some people might think that guys do not compliment at all). And I talk to very few girls (I'm introverted and shy). Also some guys call me gay/zesty (probably due to the fact that I used to have a zesty accent and gestures and that I look more boyish than manly).
I often do not take a strong stance for myself and set my boundaries. Also I'm short.
These are all the negative signs:
I have been insulted on my looks and called ugly by some guys (could be jokingly or serious idk).
I do not get girls approaching me or trying to talk to me on their own, only ltbs and mtbs sometimes (when I do talk to a girl though, she does mostly seem interested to at least talk however).
Once I had shaved my arms for swimming and a girl called me gay for that.
Here are some positive signs from women I got:
A femcel once complimented me on my face (she came in the class and sat beside me and complimented me).
A girl (mtb-htb) once said that I looked better than my ltn-mtn friend when he asked her about who looked better.
I also got an obsessive femcel-ltb once (like extremely obsessive). Her friend (mtb) however said that "i was not good looking" to her (the obsessive girl).
My now female friend (mtb-htb) once said that I looked hot in a new uniform (this wasn't that serious, she has a habit of complimenting people)
One day I feel my looks are completely validated, and the other day I'm questioning myself
Am I htn by normal guy standards but ltn for htbs and stacylites? Please say something I am slowly losing my mind.
Also guys in my school do not refrain from complimenting (as some people might think that guys do not compliment at all). And I talk to very few girls (I'm introverted and shy). Also some guys call me gay/zesty (probably due to the fact that I used to have a zesty accent and gestures and that I look more boyish than manly).
I often do not take a strong stance for myself and set my boundaries. Also I'm short.
These are all the negative signs:
I have been insulted on my looks and called ugly by some guys (could be jokingly or serious idk).
I do not get girls approaching me or trying to talk to me on their own, only ltbs and mtbs sometimes (when I do talk to a girl though, she does mostly seem interested to at least talk however).
Once I had shaved my arms for swimming and a girl called me gay for that.
Here are some positive signs from women I got:
A femcel once complimented me on my face (she came in the class and sat beside me and complimented me).
A girl (mtb-htb) once said that I looked better than my ltn-mtn friend when he asked her about who looked better.
I also got an obsessive femcel-ltb once (like extremely obsessive). Her friend (mtb) however said that "i was not good looking" to her (the obsessive girl).
My now female friend (mtb-htb) once said that I looked hot in a new uniform (this wasn't that serious, she has a habit of complimenting people)
One day I feel my looks are completely validated, and the other day I'm questioning myself
Am I htn by normal guy standards but ltn for htbs and stacylites? Please say something I am slowly losing my mind.