How the f*ck can I find new people in my life? [SERIOUS]

[huntingroids23]

Please take 5 minutes to read this and, if possible, just share some advice or guidance. Just try to see this from my POV.

I'm 19yo, and I decided not to go to university or academy. Most people I know did, and they've moved to other cities. I'm not someone who struggles to talk to people or make friends it's not easy for me, but I can do it. Throughout school and high school, I always had friends. I was never alone I had people to talk to, work out with, and even a few girls in my life.

But now, without universities, academies, schools, or even a similar community, I have difficulties meeting new people my old friends are not here, and it is suddenly very hard to be happy. All I do work and go gym right now. Meeting somebody in my work is unreal, but at the gym, possibilities are small. When my friends get back, we have fun and go out, but that's maybe once or twice a month. The rest of the time, it's just me always me, me and me and me... And I'm getting tired of it.

I try to cope by enjoying on my own, but for the long term that won't fix my issue, I don’t want to be alone in my 30s or 40s. On top of this, I’ve realized the person I felt most connected to has moved on from me. They went to a different country for university, and everything has changed. They are already talking to someone else. (I got informed from another friends about this, even tho with this person I talk daily nonstop 24/7 and we are super closer) I really need to work on my attachments to that person, since the only thing that will bring me is pain.

Sometimes, I find myself wondering why I'm even bothering with all the self-improvement and looksmaxing if I'm lonely mf seeing noone. I mean, I know it's a lot for my confidence and myself, but what is the point, right, if I am not meeting people?

Appreciate anyone reading this and know there might be some trolls, but I hope someone cares enough to give some advice. I'm also unsure if this even belongs in the looksmaxing category.

Help pls

 

[EliDKing]

can you give tldr dnr

 

[huntingroids23]

TLDR:
I don't know how to meet new people, everyone I know is gone, everyone went to Uni and Im alone now. I don't know where to find new people?

 

[shizuku11111]

not going to uni killed every chance u had of meeting ppl ur age, try wageslaving and meeting ppl there

 

[nortaa4]

Become a chad have you seen lonely chads?

 

[floopmaxxed]

internet?

 

[huntingroids23]

not going to uni killed every chance u had of meeting ppl ur age, try wageslaving and meeting ppl there

Maybe you are right, but Is there any other way I can find people? I was thinking of moving out to the city where my friends are and then I can just be more around them = meeting new people?

 

[huntingroids23]

internet?

You mean like social media?

 

[huntingroids23]

Become a chad have you seen lonely chads?

True, need to work on that and working already.

 

[shizuku11111]

Maybe you are right, but Is there any other way I can find people? I was thinking of moving out to the city where my friends are and then I can just be more around them = meeting new people?

not bad idea but it would cost u solid money i suppose, u made big mistake by not going to uni, only reason i will go to uni is to keep my social life alive, and maybe finish it

 

[huntingroids23]

not bad idea but it would cost u solid money i suppose, u made big mistake by not going to uni, only reason i will go to uni is to keep my social life alive, and maybe finish it

The thing is all i do is literally work and go gym as I said. Its no problem for me to make money. I just don't like the fact thats all I have in life.

 

[shizuku11111]

The thing is all i do is literally work and go gym as I said. Its no problem for me to make money. I just don't like the fact thats all I have in life.

then go ahead and move, social status and connections are #1 thing in life

 

[huntingroids23]

But going through that process I think Its really imprortant for me to find the right person since after uni ends, most people will be put in this situation again as well...

 

[JoChico]

send me a friend request on jerkmate

 

[panjeet currycel]

Become a chad have you seen lonely chads?

majority of the time being good looking isnt as great as you think
Especially being a good looking man

 

[Pento]

Yea that’s pretty much how modern society is nowadays, there’s a lack of a third place. I’m exactly in your position same age and in CC

 

[overtier1011]

Join hobby clubs. Like mma club, sports club, etc

 

[looks>books]

Join clubs or find hobbies, then find groups that maybe do those hobbies.

Also church (not catholic) has perfected community

 

[NORDEN SLAVORUM]

If you are into very niche things you can join groups or even cults

 

[elfin]

Maybe you are right, but Is there any other way I can find people? I was thinking of moving out to the city where my friends are and then I can just be more around them = meeting new people?

Still not too late to go to a uni at 19 tho? Why not pursue that instead

 

[solpafanima]

Please take 5 minutes to read this and, if possible, just share some advice or guidance. Just try to see this from my POV.

I'm 19yo, and I decided not to go to university or academy. Most people I know did, and they've moved to other cities. I'm not someone who struggles to talk to people or make friends it's not easy for me, but I can do it. Throughout school and high school, I always had friends. I was never alone I had people to talk to, work out with, and even a few girls in my life.

But now, without universities, academies, schools, or even a similar community, I have difficulties meeting new people my old friends are not here, and it is suddenly very hard to be happy. All I do work and go gym right now. Meeting somebody in my work is unreal, but at the gym, possibilities are small. When my friends get back, we have fun and go out, but that's maybe once or twice a month. The rest of the time, it's just me always me, me and me and me... And I'm getting tired of it.

I try to cope by enjoying on my own, but for the long term that won't fix my issue, I don’t want to be alone in my 30s or 40s. On top of this, I’ve realized the person I felt most connected to has moved on from me. They went to a different country for university, and everything has changed. They are already talking to someone else. (I got informed from another friends about this, even tho with this person I talk daily nonstop 24/7 and we are super closer) I really need to work on my attachments to that person, since the only thing that will bring me is pain.

Sometimes, I find myself wondering why I'm even bothering with all the self-improvement and looksmaxing if I'm lonely mf seeing noone. I mean, I know it's a lot for my confidence and myself, but what is the point, right, if I am not meeting people?

Appreciate anyone reading this and know there might be some trolls, but I hope someone cares enough to give some advice. I'm also unsure if this even belongs in the looksmaxing category.

Help pls

yo bro dm me

 

[richcel]

Please take 5 minutes to read this and, if possible, just share some advice or guidance. Just try to see this from my POV.

I'm 19yo, and I decided not to go to university or academy. Most people I know did, and they've moved to other cities. I'm not someone who struggles to talk to people or make friends it's not easy for me, but I can do it. Throughout school and high school, I always had friends. I was never alone I had people to talk to, work out with, and even a few girls in my life.

But now, without universities, academies, schools, or even a similar community, I have difficulties meeting new people my old friends are not here, and it is suddenly very hard to be happy. All I do work and go gym right now. Meeting somebody in my work is unreal, but at the gym, possibilities are small. When my friends get back, we have fun and go out, but that's maybe once or twice a month. The rest of the time, it's just me always me, me and me and me... And I'm getting tired of it.

I try to cope by enjoying on my own, but for the long term that won't fix my issue, I don’t want to be alone in my 30s or 40s. On top of this, I’ve realized the person I felt most connected to has moved on from me. They went to a different country for university, and everything has changed. They are already talking to someone else. (I got informed from another friends about this, even tho with this person I talk daily nonstop 24/7 and we are super closer) I really need to work on my attachments to that person, since the only thing that will bring me is pain.

Sometimes, I find myself wondering why I'm even bothering with all the self-improvement and looksmaxing if I'm lonely mf seeing noone. I mean, I know it's a lot for my confidence and myself, but what is the point, right, if I am not meeting people?

Appreciate anyone reading this and know there might be some trolls, but I hope someone cares enough to give some advice. I'm also unsure if this even belongs in the looksmaxing category.

Help pls

Same shit I’m 19 and not in uni I bought a Porsche and went to a car meet, they were all losers except I made a friend or 2 and also met some irl friends through racist twitter chats, but OVERALL I would say just go to uni, it’s not a huge deal to be a little bit older than other people so just go next year and take all easy classes before it’s too late and you’re old, I’m gonna do that too if my business doesn’t take off on a big way.

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

Please take 5 minutes to read this and

No sorry.

"Finding" new people in your life is something that happens organicly. People can sense if you are trying to build "friendship" just to have a better cope and will try to avoid you.

 

[darodcel]

then go ahead and move, social status and connections are #1 thing in life

possibly the most correct comment on this site ever.

everything in college is just connections, you don't pay for the education you pay for the degree and networking opportunities, and social life.

 

[Deleted member 82215]

Please take 5 minutes to read this and, if possible, just share some advice or guidance. Just try to see this from my POV.

I'm 19yo, and I decided not to go to university or academy. Most people I know did, and they've moved to other cities. I'm not someone who struggles to talk to people or make friends it's not easy for me, but I can do it. Throughout school and high school, I always had friends. I was never alone I had people to talk to, work out with, and even a few girls in my life.

But now, without universities, academies, schools, or even a similar community, I have difficulties meeting new people my old friends are not here, and it is suddenly very hard to be happy. All I do work and go gym right now. Meeting somebody in my work is unreal, but at the gym, possibilities are small. When my friends get back, we have fun and go out, but that's maybe once or twice a month. The rest of the time, it's just me always me, me and me and me... And I'm getting tired of it.

I try to cope by enjoying on my own, but for the long term that won't fix my issue, I don’t want to be alone in my 30s or 40s. On top of this, I’ve realized the person I felt most connected to has moved on from me. They went to a different country for university, and everything has changed. They are already talking to someone else. (I got informed from another friends about this, even tho with this person I talk daily nonstop 24/7 and we are super closer) I really need to work on my attachments to that person, since the only thing that will bring me is pain.

Sometimes, I find myself wondering why I'm even bothering with all the self-improvement and looksmaxing if I'm lonely mf seeing noone. I mean, I know it's a lot for my confidence and myself, but what is the point, right, if I am not meeting people?

Appreciate anyone reading this and know there might be some trolls, but I hope someone cares enough to give some advice. I'm also unsure if this even belongs in the looksmaxing category.

Help pls

go to uni wtf

 

[imnotincelcore]

Maybe you are right, but Is there any other way I can find people? I was thinking of moving out to the city where my friends are and then I can just be more around them = meeting new people?

Don't do that. Don't base your life around other people.

 

[noodlelover]

Move near a college, and near you friends and join a frat. Try different frats until one lets you in without being part of the school, or fake documents or proof or whatever that you go to the school.

Also join a groups for the college.

 

[moewizard]

Don't do that. Don't base your life around other people.

were social animals of course were going to base our lifes around other people

 

[in8aesthetics]

Please take 5 minutes to read this and, if possible, just share some advice or guidance. Just try to see this from my POV.

I'm 19yo, and I decided not to go to university or academy. Most people I know did, and they've moved to other cities. I'm not someone who struggles to talk to people or make friends it's not easy for me, but I can do it. Throughout school and high school, I always had friends. I was never alone I had people to talk to, work out with, and even a few girls in my life.

But now, without universities, academies, schools, or even a similar community, I have difficulties meeting new people my old friends are not here, and it is suddenly very hard to be happy. All I do work and go gym right now. Meeting somebody in my work is unreal, but at the gym, possibilities are small. When my friends get back, we have fun and go out, but that's maybe once or twice a month. The rest of the time, it's just me always me, me and me and me... And I'm getting tired of it.

I try to cope by enjoying on my own, but for the long term that won't fix my issue, I don’t want to be alone in my 30s or 40s. On top of this, I’ve realized the person I felt most connected to has moved on from me. They went to a different country for university, and everything has changed. They are already talking to someone else. (I got informed from another friends about this, even tho with this person I talk daily nonstop 24/7 and we are super closer) I really need to work on my attachments to that person, since the only thing that will bring me is pain.

Sometimes, I find myself wondering why I'm even bothering with all the self-improvement and looksmaxing if I'm lonely mf seeing noone. I mean, I know it's a lot for my confidence and myself, but what is the point, right, if I am not meeting people?

Appreciate anyone reading this and know there might be some trolls, but I hope someone cares enough to give some advice. I'm also unsure if this even belongs in the looksmaxing category.

Help pls

Get into the gym and make friends there, get into a sport where you have a team or just people doing it with you (like boxing), you can meet people in church, you can get a job and make friends there.

 

[inceleron]

Looksmaxx and gymmaxx to attract foids so u won't feel lonely