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huntingroids23
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Please take 5 minutes to read this and, if possible, just share some advice or guidance. Just try to see this from my POV.
I'm 19yo, and I decided not to go to university or academy. Most people I know did, and they've moved to other cities. I'm not someone who struggles to talk to people or make friends it's not easy for me, but I can do it. Throughout school and high school, I always had friends. I was never alone I had people to talk to, work out with, and even a few girls in my life.
But now, without universities, academies, schools, or even a similar community, I have difficulties meeting new people my old friends are not here, and it is suddenly very hard to be happy. All I do work and go gym right now. Meeting somebody in my work is unreal, but at the gym, possibilities are small. When my friends get back, we have fun and go out, but that's maybe once or twice a month. The rest of the time, it's just me always me, me and me and me... And I'm getting tired of it.
I try to cope by enjoying on my own, but for the long term that won't fix my issue, I don’t want to be alone in my 30s or 40s. On top of this, I’ve realized the person I felt most connected to has moved on from me. They went to a different country for university, and everything has changed. They are already talking to someone else. (I got informed from another friends about this, even tho with this person I talk daily nonstop 24/7 and we are super closer) I really need to work on my attachments to that person, since the only thing that will bring me is pain.
Sometimes, I find myself wondering why I'm even bothering with all the self-improvement and looksmaxing if I'm lonely mf seeing noone. I mean, I know it's a lot for my confidence and myself, but what is the point, right, if I am not meeting people?
Appreciate anyone reading this and know there might be some trolls, but I hope someone cares enough to give some advice. I'm also unsure if this even belongs in the looksmaxing category.
Help pls
I'm 19yo, and I decided not to go to university or academy. Most people I know did, and they've moved to other cities. I'm not someone who struggles to talk to people or make friends it's not easy for me, but I can do it. Throughout school and high school, I always had friends. I was never alone I had people to talk to, work out with, and even a few girls in my life.
But now, without universities, academies, schools, or even a similar community, I have difficulties meeting new people my old friends are not here, and it is suddenly very hard to be happy. All I do work and go gym right now. Meeting somebody in my work is unreal, but at the gym, possibilities are small. When my friends get back, we have fun and go out, but that's maybe once or twice a month. The rest of the time, it's just me always me, me and me and me... And I'm getting tired of it.
I try to cope by enjoying on my own, but for the long term that won't fix my issue, I don’t want to be alone in my 30s or 40s. On top of this, I’ve realized the person I felt most connected to has moved on from me. They went to a different country for university, and everything has changed. They are already talking to someone else. (I got informed from another friends about this, even tho with this person I talk daily nonstop 24/7 and we are super closer) I really need to work on my attachments to that person, since the only thing that will bring me is pain.
Sometimes, I find myself wondering why I'm even bothering with all the self-improvement and looksmaxing if I'm lonely mf seeing noone. I mean, I know it's a lot for my confidence and myself, but what is the point, right, if I am not meeting people?
Appreciate anyone reading this and know there might be some trolls, but I hope someone cares enough to give some advice. I'm also unsure if this even belongs in the looksmaxing category.
Help pls
