How the FUCK do I approach?

[roxycodone]

I'm so tired of fapping and being so insecure. For reference I'm 190cm 75kg non-gymmaxxed and low HTN. What pisses me off is that foids actually hit me up on IG but I'm always too insecure to actually meet up with them because I'm scared that I angle-frauded my pics in one way or another and IRL I dont look how I look in my pics.

So my question is how the fuck can I approach IRL ? I got a very small circle of friends fully consisting of men, so warm approaching is out of the way.

I've tried just about everything including faking my confidence and this shit doesn't work. In my whole life I approached a classmate while I was in 7th grade and got rejected, and another while I was in 9th grade which resulted into a relationship.

 

[roxycodone]

Bump

 

[roxycodone]

Bump

 

[chadspanishknight]

DBAP

 

[Clqs]

Just rot and embrace the incelness

 

[134applesauce456]

most of us are incels, we wouldn't know

 

[roxycodone]

Just rot and embrace the incelness

I would gladly do that but I worked so hard to get to where I am rn, it would feel like a waste

 

[Beanermaxxer]

Inject testosterone, you probably are a low T cuck

 

[roxycodone]

DBAP

Yeah but how exactly can I do that ?

 

[fuxkdakikez]

you don’t

 

[craven]

TALES FROM MONTENEGRO COFFEE SHOP

 

[GhostBoySwag]

190 perfect weight and low HTN

dawg start NTmaxxin

 

[liberty]

honestly i dont think its worth it to cold approach unless you're really hardcore

try to find an environment where you can meet women, you can "warm approach" if lets say you're in the same sport as a woman and you guys start talking, from there you just try to seem friendly and normal, then you can approach her and it will not be "cold", it'd be more socially acceptable since you know each other

 

[Copeful]

if you were HTN you wouldnt have to approach
women would come to you bud

 

[roxycodone]

dawg start NTmaxxin

This is what I'm trying to do but I got the abused dog syndrome, foids nuked my whole personality and confidence when I was a fat blob in my childhood

 

[roxycodone]

if you were HTN you wouldnt have to approach
women would come to you bud

I already said that they come to me, thru dm's and shit like that but I'm too much of a pussy to actually meet up with them

 

[roxycodone]

try to find an environment where you can meet women

I'm currently in college so the environment isn't an issue, the thing is I don't know how to initiate shit with women

 

[Copeful]

I already said that they come to me, thru dm's and shit like that but I'm too much of a pussy to actually meet up with them

your scared cause your frauding
so the solution is to stop frauding and post candids
just sayin if you were HTN irl women would approach you especially on a college campus lol

 

[Mess]

You become nt

 

[roxycodone]

your scared cause your frauding

I don't think that I'm frauding tbh, I literally take pics in the mirror, full frontal face pics without any angle frauding involved, my fear is pretty irrational

 

[Copeful]

I don't think that I'm frauding tbh, I literally take pics in the mirror, full frontal face pics without any angle frauding involved, my fear is pretty irrational

your fear is irrational which you already realise so just overcome it
not that hard

 

[Zangano1]

I dont interact with females

 

[roxycodone]

You become nt

Any suggestion on how I could do that ? I basically have to build my personality from the ground up

 

[liberty]

I'm currently in college so the environment isn't an issue, the thing is I don't know how to initiate shit with women

you need to initiate it over a shared interest, an interest implicit in the shared environment and activity

something about the lectures, about the finals, about the professor, whatever it may be, you just need to look for the opportunities and grab them, there are always things worth having small talk over

if you're guarded and closed off from other ppl this might be difficult tho

 

[roxycodone]

just overcome it

It's easy when you say it like that, but I find it extremely hard to overcome

 

[Mess]

Any suggestion on how I could do that ? I basically have to build my personality from the ground up

You act just as though and then it becomes your nature

 

[PRIEST Sv3rige]

Most retarded post I've seen all day. It's really self-explanatory. Kill yourself ASAP.

 

[roxycodone]

if you're guarded and closed off from other ppl this might be difficult tho

Nah, it's cool, I'm not closed off in any way

I missed so many oppportunities with these foids it's actually insane, I told my friends about them and they called me a retard. At this point a woman could even come up to me and confess her love for me and I still wouldn't believe her

 

[liberty]

Nah, it's cool, I'm not closed off in any way

I actually missed so many oppportunities with these foids it's actually insane, I told my friends about them and they called me a retard. At this point a woman could even come up to me and confess her love for me and I still wouldn't believe her

you can just be friendly with them and build a connection, you dont have to flirt with them the first time you meet them

unironically treat them as you'd treat guys, its the best way to stop viewing women in this way where its all about building up to a date or hookup from the get-go

 

[narcomogs]

psl wasted on these motherfuckers

 

[moreplatesmoreweigh]

Istg you told me u were 180 ages ago

 

[_MVP_]

u are a son of a bitch

 

[roxycodone]

Istg you told me u were 180 ages ago

I told you I was 187cm, managed to grow to 190

 

[sover]

I'm so tired of fapping and being so insecure. For reference I'm 190cm 75kg non-gymmaxxed and low HTN. What pisses me off is that foids actually hit me up on IG but I'm always too insecure to actually meet up with them because I'm scared that I angle-frauded my pics in one way or another and IRL I dont look how I look in my pics.

So my question is how the fuck can I approach IRL ? I got a very small circle of friends fully consisting of men, so warm approaching is out of the way.

I've tried just about everything including faking my confidence and this shit doesn't work. In my whole life I approached a classmate while I was in 7th grade and got rejected, and another while I was in 9th grade which resulted into a relationship.

think less,be dumb and instanly act