How the hell do you respond to "how are you doing?"

[VHD]

Guy replied to my insta story asking "how are you doing"
I simply replied "good"
Am I expected to ask him how hes doing as well? Is it gonna come off rude if I don't?

I don't know this guy very well btw he isn't like a close contact or whatever
Does that mean he expects me to tell him how my life is going and what I'm doing?

 

[Mess]

Honestly wouldn't know what to do there that's so random

 

[TiktokUser]

Actual autism

 

[noahwillascend]

social interaction as a child is in the negatives

 

[ey88]

Just say “good, how are you?”

 

[Toad]

Actual autism

Worse JFL

 

[looksmaxxed]

i respond god be with you

 

[mog_or_be_mogged]

just say "fuck you nigga"

 

[keepcopingboyo]

"good" if you have nothing to say

or something like "great....." and talk about some shit thats happened in ur life to keep convo going

 

[VHD]

or something like "great....." and talk about some shit thats happened in ur life to keep convo going

I don care about keeping the convo going with some random nigga I barely know. I only want to talk to women. Or good friends.

 

[VHD]

Actual autism

Sorry I dont talk to men. If a guy messages me I expect him to tell me what he wants outright, I'm not gonna play these retarded games with a male

 

[sb23]

Just say “good, how are you?”

Simple shit like that, im not able to think off. It would feel so uncomfortable asking that knowing full well I dont give a shit. I legit cant have conversation. All my responses are 1 word. Wtf is wrong with me. Thank god for pharmacology. Last hope for my nt.

 

[DarkTriadBeliever]

Just say what's up my nigga

 

[sb23]

i respond god be with you

 

[aryan mogger]

"fine, how about you?"

 

[VHD]

Just say what's up my nigga

I couldn't care any less how a random guy I barely know is doing
I only care about avoiding a negative impact

 

[sb23]

Sorry I dont talk to men. If a guy messages me I expect him to tell me what he wants outright, I'm not gonna play these retarded games with a male

So fucking true. We need to collectively oppose shitty small talk. Literally just say what you want or shut the fuck up.

 

[DarkTriadBeliever]

I couldn't care any less how a random guy I barely know is doing
I only care about avoiding a negative impact

Ignore them then, no point in responding if you genuinely don't care about them

 

[VHD]

Ignore them then, no point in responding if you genuinely don't care about them

I did just replied "good". Don't wanna come off as an asshole who ghosts dudes when they ask him how he's doing though. I don't want people to think I'm a POS but I don't really care about their life or being butt buddies with them either

 

[_MVP_]

i just respond with "how do you do"

 

[IHATEINDIANS]

Just say fine and dont ask how they're doing if u dont want to continue conversation, if you want to continue it ask how theyre doing as well

 

[The Grinch]

Guy replied to my insta story asking "how are you doing"
I simply replied "good"
Am I expected to ask him how hes doing as well? Is it gonna come off rude if I don't?

I don't know this guy very well btw he isn't like a close contact or whatever
Does that mean he expects me to tell him how my life is going and what I'm doing?