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I get constant mixed signals from women whenever I first meet them. They’ll be flirty and coy, and then they’ll start giving me dirty looks and covering up when I walk by. But then, within days or weeks, it reverts back to them being flirty and talking girly, and it just keeps cycling since I don’t change anything about myself. Then when I get in relationships it’s like the women I attract want me to be toxic and emotionally manipulative
Right now, I started a new job last month. All the women at work would eye me or check me out when I first started, not because of attraction but curiosity. Except for this chick in a different department; I never caught her looking once. She’s a solid Latina/white htb maybe stacy if you like piercings and tattoos, 5’8.5-5’9 (taller than me, rarely matters). Looks like she’d be into tall light skin black dudes who play basketball with dreads.
The few times I would pass by, she’d rub her nose and look away.
During a new employee training class, I came in late, and as soon as I sat down, she rubbed her nose from across the room just by seeing me through her peripheral vision. But then, when she noticed the manager woman there was eyeing me up, she started playing with her hair and sitting more upright.
She ignores me again for weeks until I accidentally sat across from her on a bench at a company appreciation lunch. Every time I spoke to my coworker who I sat with, she’d raise her head up from her phone and eavesdrop. At one point, I feel her staring at me, and she stopped herself from fixing her hair.
She still hasn’t made eye contact with me tho. Like, at all. Literally even gay dudes and in the closet men are smiling at me or staring at me from afar.
Seems like we’re both new employees. I don’t even plan on talking to her but who tf does she think she is starting a feud with a new coworker
I guarantee once I pretend she’s invisible and I cut off that dopamine or serotonin rush that she’s gets from ignoring me and talking shit, she’ll subconsciously still crave attention and validation from me. I’ll train her like a dog by only giving her attention when she acts how I want her to
Right now, I started a new job last month. All the women at work would eye me or check me out when I first started, not because of attraction but curiosity. Except for this chick in a different department; I never caught her looking once. She’s a solid Latina/white htb maybe stacy if you like piercings and tattoos, 5’8.5-5’9 (taller than me, rarely matters). Looks like she’d be into tall light skin black dudes who play basketball with dreads.
The few times I would pass by, she’d rub her nose and look away.
During a new employee training class, I came in late, and as soon as I sat down, she rubbed her nose from across the room just by seeing me through her peripheral vision. But then, when she noticed the manager woman there was eyeing me up, she started playing with her hair and sitting more upright.
She ignores me again for weeks until I accidentally sat across from her on a bench at a company appreciation lunch. Every time I spoke to my coworker who I sat with, she’d raise her head up from her phone and eavesdrop. At one point, I feel her staring at me, and she stopped herself from fixing her hair.
She still hasn’t made eye contact with me tho. Like, at all. Literally even gay dudes and in the closet men are smiling at me or staring at me from afar.
Seems like we’re both new employees. I don’t even plan on talking to her but who tf does she think she is starting a feud with a new coworker
I guarantee once I pretend she’s invisible and I cut off that dopamine or serotonin rush that she’s gets from ignoring me and talking shit, she’ll subconsciously still crave attention and validation from me. I’ll train her like a dog by only giving her attention when she acts how I want her to
