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Make proper eye contact, don't slouch your shoulders, keep your head leveled (don't look at the ground).
Try to walk and to act slowly. Don't play with your hair out of nervosity, don't wiggle your feet all the time. These are non-nt traits.
Only speak when appropriate, cold approach is a psyops. Only speak in settings where you are expected to.
Introduce yourself and break the ice by asking people about their interests. Don't try to be funny, you're probably not.
If people are responding dry to your questions, consider the conversation dead. Don't force people to interact with you.
When talking to someone, take on a listening role. My method is LAIR: Listen to a person's input, ask why they feel like that, (briefly) insert something meaningful into the conversation, repeat.
You'll want to be talking about yourself 30% of the time, and taking interest 70% of the time. Again, when it's dry it's dead, don't beat a dead horse when you could be talking to more people.
Try to be genuine, meaning that you won't talk if you don't want to. Only ask when trying to get an answer. Don't talk to someone you have no interest talking to.
Remember to take a breather. You don't need to rush everything, if you feel burnt out simply take a deep inhale and exhale and you'll be fine.
Try to walk and to act slowly. Don't play with your hair out of nervosity, don't wiggle your feet all the time. These are non-nt traits.
Only speak when appropriate, cold approach is a psyops. Only speak in settings where you are expected to.
Introduce yourself and break the ice by asking people about their interests. Don't try to be funny, you're probably not.
If people are responding dry to your questions, consider the conversation dead. Don't force people to interact with you.
When talking to someone, take on a listening role. My method is LAIR: Listen to a person's input, ask why they feel like that, (briefly) insert something meaningful into the conversation, repeat.
You'll want to be talking about yourself 30% of the time, and taking interest 70% of the time. Again, when it's dry it's dead, don't beat a dead horse when you could be talking to more people.
Try to be genuine, meaning that you won't talk if you don't want to. Only ask when trying to get an answer. Don't talk to someone you have no interest talking to.
Remember to take a breather. You don't need to rush everything, if you feel burnt out simply take a deep inhale and exhale and you'll be fine.