How to actually become a Normie?

[AlexAP]

It's hard for me to have a normal emotional state and social life because of my past experiences. My family was extremely toxic, and in my brain they influenced me into what I think of family and community:

- My parents or siblings never showed any compassion, never said basic stuff like "That was god from you!", "I want you to be happy, son", "I'm proud of you", etc., but tons of arguments and shoutings. Now no contact.
- In school I was a loner, the dominant boys made fun of me, zero friends.
- Because of my problems in school, my parents had the idea that I was mentally ill and forced me to go useless therapy.
- I never became more social. I have some colleagues, etc., I'm not realy "shy", but very silent, straight face all the time. Many times I don't get invited when a new friends group is formed.
- The internet filled me with this autistic views of "masculinity", never show vulnerability/weakness, men don't need emotional support, etc. I don't believe in it, but it's exactly how my father was and how I lived, basically I can't "disprove" it for me.

I would love to be able to believe that it's okay for men to have basic emotional needs. Somehow my mind doesn't believe in it, so I keep quiet all the time. I know this forum is the wrong place, as retards here believe Normie men with emotional support are fags, pussys, soyboys, etc., so I would probably be better off with leaving this forum. But that's it, I can't, I feel alienated from Normies.

Let's be honest: Normies are the masterrace, sigmas are coping retards. Did anyone of you ever went from an emotionless weirdo to a Normie with healthy emotional expressiveness?

 

[AlexAP]

Brutal

 

[inceI]

its 2025 unc, we dont read essays anymore

take this to reddit

 

[HighLtn]

It's hard for me to have a normal emotional state and social life because of my past experiences. My family was extremely toxic, and in my brain they influenced me into what I think of family and community:

- My parents or siblings never showed any compassion, never said basic stuff like "That was god from you!", "I want you to be happy, son", "I'm proud of you", etc., but tons of arguments and shoutings. Now no contact.
- In school I was a loner, the dominant boys made fun of me, zero friends.
- Because of my problems in school, my parents had the idea that I was mentally ill and forced me to go useless therapy.
- I never became more social. I have some colleagues, etc., I'm not realy "shy", but very silent, straight face all the time. Many times I don't get invited when a new friends group is formed.
- The internet filled me with this autistic views of "masculinity", never show vulnerability/weakness, men don't need emotional support, etc. I don't believe in it, but it's exactly how my father was and how I lived, basically I can't "disprove" it for me.

I would love to be able to believe that it's okay for men to have basic emotional needs. Somehow my mind doesn't believe in it, so I keep quiet all the time. I know this forum is the wrong place, as retards here believe Normie men with emotional support are fags, pussys, soyboys, etc., so I would probably be better off with leaving this forum. But that's it, I can't, I feel alienated from Normies.

Let's be honest: Normies are the masterrace, sigmas are coping retards. Did anyone of you ever went from an emotionless weirdo to a Normie with healthy emotional expressiveness?

 

[superpsycho]

normies arent made

theyre born

 

[FiendFiend]

It's hard for me to have a normal emotional state and social life because of my past experiences. My family was extremely toxic, and in my brain they influenced me into what I think of family and community:

- My parents or siblings never showed any compassion, never said basic stuff like "That was god from you!", "I want you to be happy, son", "I'm proud of you", etc., but tons of arguments and shoutings. Now no contact.
- In school I was a loner, the dominant boys made fun of me, zero friends.
- Because of my problems in school, my parents had the idea that I was mentally ill and forced me to go useless therapy.
- I never became more social. I have some colleagues, etc., I'm not realy "shy", but very silent, straight face all the time. Many times I don't get invited when a new friends group is formed.
- The internet filled me with this autistic views of "masculinity", never show vulnerability/weakness, men don't need emotional support, etc. I don't believe in it, but it's exactly how my father was and how I lived, basically I can't "disprove" it for me.

I would love to be able to believe that it's okay for men to have basic emotional needs. Somehow my mind doesn't believe in it, so I keep quiet all the time. I know this forum is the wrong place, as retards here believe Normie men with emotional support are fags, pussys, soyboys, etc., so I would probably be better off with leaving this forum. But that's it, I can't, I feel alienated from Normies.

Let's be honest: Normies are the masterrace, sigmas are coping retards. Did anyone of you ever went from an emotionless weirdo to a Normie with healthy emotional expressiveness?

jgs

just go school.

 

[cute]

I cant express myself emotionally to people irl (it took me years to be able to even say “i love you” back to my mother without feeling cringe) on the internet though i dont feel that cringe but thats because it doesnt feel as real and personal.
As to becoming more social and shit, thats tuff as fuck and ngl im still looking for the answer myself. Tried drugs, le fake it till u make it, OLD, new friend groups, got more positive affirmations, tried going through uncomfortable situations just to push myself but nothing helps permanently

 

[AlexAP]

normies arent made

theyre born

I really hope there's a way to become one, it's my biggest hope

 

[superpsycho]

I really hope there's a way to become one, it's my biggest hope

tbh

if u were ever active on this forum at any point which i assume u were cuz ur post count

u have an extremely slim chance of ever being a normie mentally

but u can fraud as a normie in ur interactions maybe

 

[AlexAP]

I cant express myself emotionally to people irl (it took me years to be able to even say “i love you” back to my mother without feeling cringe) on the internet though i dont feel that cringe but thats because it doesnt feel as real and personal.
As to becoming more social and shit, thats tuff as fuck and ngl im still looking for the answer myself. Tried drugs, le fake it till u make it, OLD, new friend groups, got more positive affirmations, tried going through uncomfortable situations just to push myself but nothing helps permanently

I never said the words "I love you", never received it either. Just "I like you" and only to girls, and only after they said they like me. I feel cringe when saying that, I would love not to but the cringe is very real. I hate to feel this.
I also tried to be more social, going to meetups, had colleagues/friends, went to therapy (even voluntary), nothing really helped so far. There is an inhibition in every social interaction. I would go into high debt to pay someone to make me different ngl.

 

[AlexAP]

but u can fraud as a normie in ur interactions maybe

What I would like to fraud is being more extraverted, don't need to be the life of the party, but at least say more and be more likable.

I hope there are drugs for it.

 

[superpsycho]

I hope there are drugs for it.

ive heard a lot of users here take things like pregab and baclofen to be low inhib but i havent tried it myself yet so i cant really tell u

 

[alriodai]

i like u for who u are OP

 

[thebestasianmoggere]

ive heard a lot of users here take things like pregab and baclofen to be low inhib but i havent tried it myself yet so i cant really tell u

i am actually a normie

 

[thebestasianmoggere]

What I would like to fraud is being more extraverted, don't need to be the life of the party, but at least say more and be more likable.

I hope there are drugs for it.

check dms i will help you out

 

[thebestasianmoggere]

ive heard a lot of users here take things like pregab and baclofen to be low inhib but i havent tried it myself yet so i cant really tell u

No, you do not need drugs to fit in

 

[superpsycho]

No, you do not need drugs to fit in

cope

 

[thebestasianmoggere]

normies arent made

theyre born

cap