how to actually deal with neurodivergence

[000fifi]

genuinely tired of how this ruins my interaction with people:
not being able to communicate properly cause of some kind of stutters and blockages.
sometimes the conversation just doesn't progress cause i don't know how to keep it going.
i feel like an outcast for not even being able to hold eye contact during a conversation. (it's looks even funnier when i actually try to make myself do it but i just end up holding it for a few seconds and break it off)

and it's not like it's to the point that i'm a retard because there are people who actually want to talk to me and hang out but these little thinks i feel ruin everything and make them think of me less.

really interested in what y'all ND's do that helps atleast a little.
should i cope my way into acting normal (like i've been doing) or is just more worth it to get a proper diagnosis and treatment.

 

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Dnrd

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

genuinely tired of how this ruins my interaction with people:
not being able to communicate properly cause of some kind of stutters and blockages.
sometimes the conversation just doesn't progress cause i don't know how to keep it going.
i feel like an outcast for not even being able to hold eye contact during a conversation. (it's looks even funnier when i actually try to make myself do it but i just end up holding it for a few seconds and break it off)

and it's not like it's to the point that i'm a retard because there are people who actually want to talk to me and hang out but these little thinks i feel ruin everything and make them think of me less.

really interested in what y'all ND's do that helps atleast a little.
should i cope my way into acting normal (like i've been doing) or is just more worth it to get a proper diagnosis and treatment.

depends what u have, whether its aspd, ocd, etc etc

 

[gimmedatacc]

give up on life and become a shut in

 

[000fifi]

depends what u have, whether its aspd, ocd, etc etc

never found out actually.
my parents don't believe in that shit and even after telling them that i struggle with socializing and maybe i should get checked out i was told that i'm not a retard (literally)

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

never found out actually.
my parents don't believe in that shit and even after telling them that i struggle with socializing and maybe i should get checked out i was told that i'm not a retard (literally)

okay tell me besides social situations do you struggle mentally in any way or does any of your behavior seem odd compared to others?

 

[MOSSADGLOWIE]

never found out actually.
my parents don't believe in that shit and even after telling them that i struggle with socializing and maybe i should get checked out i was told that i'm not a retard (literally)

how do people treat you (foids especially)
do u feel as if ur treated differently and condescendingly?
if u dont see any difference ur most likely not nd and most likely just anxious

 

[PrettyLights]

did this nigga just self diagnose himself with a neurological disorder ? many such cases

 

[jeff22]

genuinely tired of how this ruins my interaction with people:
not being able to communicate properly cause of some kind of stutters and blockages.
sometimes the conversation just doesn't progress cause i don't know how to keep it going.
i feel like an outcast for not even being able to hold eye contact during a conversation. (it's looks even funnier when i actually try to make myself do it but i just end up holding it for a few seconds and break it off)

and it's not like it's to the point that i'm a retard because there are people who actually want to talk to me and hang out but these little thinks i feel ruin everything and make them think of me less.

really interested in what y'all ND's do that helps atleast a little.
should i cope my way into acting normal (like i've been doing) or is just more worth it to get a proper diagnosis and treatment.

there no fixing

 

[000fifi]

how do people treat you (foids especially)
do u feel as if ur treated differently and condescendingly?
if u dont see any difference ur most likely not nd and most likely just anxious

okay tell me besides social situations do you struggle mentally in any way or does any of your behavior seem odd compared to others?

yeah the thing with girls is that some even approach me on their own and seem interested (even as something more than friends) but after some time into a conversation they don't have the same interest as before and slowly pull away.
maybe it's because of compatibility, not having the same interests or hobbies but what i've noticed is that some just have it easier than me.

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

yeah the thing with girls is that some even approach me on their own and seem interested (even as something more than friends) but after some time into a conversation they don't have the same interest as before and slowly pull away.
maybe it's because of compatibility, not having the same interests or hobbies but what i've noticed is that some just have it easier than me.

foids are attention vampires once u give them the same energy they'll fade away since they always want something they can't have (chad) but u genuenly seem like u could have social anxiety experiment with exposure therapy so just force urself to be social, take pregabalin with phenbuterol to help the process

 

[000fifi]

did this nigga just self diagnose himself with a neurological disorder ? many such cases

i mean it may look like it, especially since there's tons of people on socialmedia claiming to be (for example) autistic but in reality they're just liking a niche topic and rot in room all day
it but it's more like i'm noticing shit about my behaviour and want to have a solution why it happens.

 

[PrettyLights]

i mean it may look like it, especially since there's tons of people on socialmedia claiming to be (for example) autistic but in reality they're just liking a niche topic and rot in room all day
it but it's more like i'm noticing shit about my behaviour and want to have a solution why it happens.

you prolly real scary looking and it alerts the hoes and everyone around you

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

i mean it may look like it, especially since there's tons of people on socialmedia claiming to be (for example) autistic but in reality they're just liking a niche topic and rot in room all day
it but it's more like i'm noticing shit about my behaviour and want to have a solution why it happens.

1st of all rep.my shit will be grateful second of all it's probably social anxiety caused by long periods of isolation from ppl

 

[000fifi]

you prolly real scary looking and it alerts the hoes and everyone around you

i mean i don't doubt it
wouldn't be on .org if it weren't for that lol