How to approach a girl I like at school if I don’t have classes with her?

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"hello i saw u in hlalway think ur cute whwatsur ig"
 
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You claimed to be an Italian HTN so there's no need for our help
 
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blacksheep said:
does she ever post stories or photos? u could reply to those. especially stories are really good for that. it's the secret door to her dms
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TesticularTorsion said:
larper probably

then dm her or reply to her story you fucking retard, you can meet up in school later
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Alr maybe u guys r right and I should wait for her to post herself and then slide in
 
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blacksheep said:
glad we agree
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Dude the only thing is, I may have alr reolied to one of her stories and then ghosted her after we chatted a little, is it fine to just reply to another one?
 
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Dude the only thing is, I may have alr reolied to one of her stories and then ghosted her after we chatted a little, is it fine to just reply to another one?
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yeah ofc, or maybe just get the convo started again about something u talked about last time. apologize for not replying anymore
 
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blacksheep said:
yeah ofc, or maybe just get the convo started again about something u talked about last time. apologize for not replying anymore
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No ur good, I think I might just say fuck it and compliment her again lmao. Its fine u gotta have balls
 
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Dude the only thing is, I may have alr reolied to one of her stories and then ghosted her after we chatted a little, is it fine to just reply to another one?
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do u think shes interested in u? like at all. this a method i use if i feel like a girl is even slightly interested

find her in school, works best if shes alone and be like i got a question blah blah

spark up a quick convo js hey hello. n then tell her u need help deciding what to post. js show her 2 photos that are pretty similar and be like what do u think i should post. unless she doesnt know u exist this is a pretty good way of breaking the ice.

alot of the times the girl will swipe up too. if not talk to her the next day and bring up the story and say how her advice was good just some stupid shit and compliment her. compliment something not too baisic but nothing too neiche so u dont look like a retard

what i usualyl do is just compliment their nails. something along the lines of "ur nails look so good what color are they" if u wanna ease some tension crack a joke like "might have to get that color for myself (dont say it in a gay way make sure its obv ur joking lol). then proceed to ask her if she gets them done professionally. if she says yeah js be like thats cool blah blah. if she says she does them herself ur so green, say something along the lines of "damn u should do mine sometime"; this is good because ur indirectly inviting her/showing interest without seeming needy or doing to much.

another trick i use is compliment her eyebrows, esp if i notice her nails arent painted/groomed. this usualy works better as girls love eyebrow compliments. again, ask her if she does them herself; most girls ive found usually do, then proceed to say something like "mine are so fucked up might need u to fix them up sometime".

myb for the long retard reply, im bored and have nothing better to do rn

i have proof thiis works ill post it after this
 
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ScienceCel said:
do u think shes interested in u? like at all. this a method i use if i feel like a girl is even slightly interested

find her in school, works best if shes alone and be like i got a question blah blah

spark up a quick convo js hey hello. n then tell her u need help deciding what to post. js show her 2 photos that are pretty similar and be like what do u think i should post. unless she doesnt know u exist this is a pretty good way of breaking the ice.

alot of the times the girl will swipe up too. if not talk to her the next day and bring up the story and say how her advice was good just some stupid shit and compliment her. compliment something not too baisic but nothing too neiche so u dont look like a retard

what i usualyl do is just compliment their nails. something along the lines of "ur nails look so good what color are they" if u wanna ease some tension crack a joke like "might have to get that color for myself (dont say it in a gay way make sure its obv ur joking lol). then proceed to ask her if she gets them done professionally. if she says yeah js be like thats cool blah blah. if she says she does them herself ur so green, say something along the lines of "damn u should do mine sometime"; this is good because ur indirectly inviting her/showing interest without seeming needy or doing to much.

another trick i use is compliment her eyebrows, esp if i notice her nails arent painted/groomed. this usualy works better as girls love eyebrow compliments. again, ask her if she does them herself; most girls ive found usually do, then proceed to say something like "mine are so fucked up might need u to fix them up sometime".

myb for the long retard reply, im bored and have nothing better to do rn

i have proof thiis works ill post it after this
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This is high iq asf bro thanks for the effort. Unfortunately I dont know if shes interested in me, I only talked to her a bit at the start of last year, and then havent talked to her for over a year. Its sort of like when u just wakeup and randomly have a crush on a chick, thats what happened to me this summer lmao. So idk if I can rlly approach her in person bc I dont rlly know her that much yet. Shes also super shy. Also another thing in which I fucked up - I replied to one of her stories complimenting her outfit and then we had a short convo but I left her on read and we never picked it back up, so idk if starting an insta convo with her out of no where again would be weird.
 
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hej1377 said:
Drugs will fix your issues, pregabalin+buprupione
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Dude im not gonna take beta blockers or whatever every day just so I can talk to women, id rather a permanent solution.
 
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NudeSelfiesTilliDie said:
This is high iq asf bro thanks for the effort. Unfortunately I dont know if shes interested in me, I only talked to her a bit at the start of last year, and then havent talked to her for over a year. Its sort of like when u just wakeup and randomly have a crush on a chick, thats what happened to me this summer lmao. So idk if I can rlly approach her in person bc I dont rlly know her that much yet. Shes also super shy. Also another thing in which I fucked up - I replied to one of her stories complimenting her outfit and then we had a short convo but I left her on read and we never picked it back up, so idk if starting an insta convo with her out of no where again would be weird.
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bro, honestly this works for almost any girl even if they barely show interest in u, ive ascended quite a bit since ive used it since im currently in a relationship, last time i used it i had shitskin and a buzzcut, think it was in the middle of freshman year and this girl who was 100% out of my leauge. i just approached her randomly, never spoken to her before btw we js had math class together, i noticed she got her eyebrows waxed and used the eyebrow method that i told u lol. long story short it worked and we hooked up multiple times.

also, if u left her on read on instagram thats actually a good thing, u dont seem too needy, if she left u on read thats a differnt story. i would 100% reccomend trying it, imo the eyebrow one works much better since every dude compliemnts a girls nails etc

if her eyebrows are fucked i might also try complimenting her makeup a make a joke like "u should do my makeup sometime i wanna be pretty too" just some stupid shit. lmk how it goes tho lol
 
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i gotta pull of the same shit, the girl i wanna pull tho was in my class and that gives me a failo perception i feel like. You gotta meet her at a function somehow. Approaching in school is a no-go imo!
 
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NudeSelfiesTilliDie said:
Dude im not gonna take beta blockers or whatever every day just so I can talk to women, id rather a permanent solution.
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There kind of isnt

How high or low inhib you have is pretty much just genetics and you cant really significantly improve upon it,things like how you gaba system works,low seratonin or dopamine,strong pfc activity, sensitive amygdala etc etc is mostly what influnces hob good socially you are

Only other effective solution really is build a time machine and make your parent meet someone else
 
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ScienceCel said:
bro, honestly this works for almost any girl even if they barely show interest in u, ive ascended quite a bit since ive used it since im currently in a relationship, last time i used it i had shitskin and a buzzcut, think it was in the middle of freshman year and this girl who was 100% out of my leauge. i just approached her randomly, never spoken to her before btw we js had math class together, i noticed she got her eyebrows waxed and used the eyebrow method that i told u lol. long story short it worked and we hooked up multiple times.

also, if u left her on read on instagram thats actually a good thing, u dont seem too needy, if she left u on read thats a differnt story. i would 100% reccomend trying it, imo the eyebrow one works much better since every dude compliemnts a girls nails etc

if her eyebrows are fucked i might also try complimenting her makeup a make a joke like "u should do my makeup sometime i wanna be pretty too" just some stupid shit. lmk how it goes tho lol
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Your right bro I just need to be super low inhib and just when I run into her talk to her and compliment her/flirt. I guess I just worry to much abt like being seen by others or like her telling her friends or whatever idk. I gotta lock tf in. The other thing is I feel like girls are never like alone there always moving around the halls with friends or sitting at big tables at lunch. Idk I just gotta wait till smth comes up ig.
 
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hej1377 said:
There kind of isnt

How high or low inhib you have is pretty much just genetics and you cant really significantly improve upon it,things like how you gaba system works,low seratonin or dopamine,strong pfc activity, sensitive amygdala etc etc is mostly what influnces hob good socially you are

Only other effective solution really is build a time machine and make your parent meet someone else
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The thing is I am not an introvert, I am quite the opposite. I just have a hard time talking to girls I have interest in lmao.
 
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Linus1888 said:
i gotta pull of the same shit, the girl i wanna pull tho was in my class and that gives me a failo perception i feel like. You gotta meet her at a function somehow. Approaching in school is a no-go imo!
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Yeah I feel like approaching in school is kinda weird but the thing is the typa smart chicks I dont like dont go to a lot of functions. I might just have to say fuck it and go up to her in person or just through a lob on insta jfl
 
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NudeSelfiesTilliDie said:
Yeah I feel like approaching in school is kinda weird but the thing is the typa smart chicks I dont like dont go to a lot of functions. I might just have to say fuck it and go up to her in person or just through a lob on insta jfl
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certified side nigga secret: Never send anything confidental trough social media. either call them or talk to them irl.

rep my shit nigga my rep ratio got so bad today
 
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NudeSelfiesTilliDie said:
Your right bro I just need to be super low inhib and just when I run into her talk to her and compliment her/flirt. I guess I just worry to much abt like being seen by others or like her telling her friends or whatever idk. I gotta lock tf in. The other thing is I feel like girls are never like alone there always moving around the halls with friends or sitting at big tables at lunch. Idk I just gotta wait till smth comes up ig.
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i would reccomend just dont think abt it and go up to her. u dont even rly need any methods or tricks, most guys nowadays are too pussy to even approach a girl so by just talking to her in person you already making ur mark
 
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certified side nigga secret: Never send anything confidental trough social media. either call them or talk to them irl.

rep my shit nigga my rep ratio got so bad today
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how about u rep my shit too nigga
 
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most people here arent actually genrticlaly high inhib or truly high inhib. id argue they dont even know what it really is to be high inhib. most ngas here have just rotted their brain and developed confidence issues lol
hej1377 said:
There kind of isnt

How high or low inhib you have is pretty much just genetics and you cant really significantly improve upon it,things like how you gaba system works,low seratonin or dopamine,strong pfc activity, sensitive amygdala etc etc is mostly what influnces hob good socially you are

Only other effective solution really is build a time machine and make your parent meet someone else
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