How to approach girls at the gym

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I’m 18 and I get no hoes. Not exactly looking for some foid to fuck moreso looking for a gf, I’m in community college and don’t have a single class w a chick above ltb, and the only other place I go is the gym, I’m fairly jacked but I’m also hella high inhib and nd.
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I’m 18 and I get no hoes. Not exactly looking for some foid to fuck moreso looking for a gf, I’m in community college and don’t have a single class w a chick above ltb, and the only other place I go is the gym, I’m fairly jacked but I’m also hella high inhib and nd.
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the gym is like the worst place to approach foids because they immediately get defensive unless your chad. Go to the library (unpatched) and find some smart ass foids
 
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the gym is like the worst place to approach foids because they immediately get defensive unless your chad. Go to the library (unpatched) and find some smart ass foids
Why would they get defensive though? If I say they look good and shit whilst I also look amazing w a pump in the gym, then I should be dialed right? Haven’t tried the library method tho, might test it out
 
I’m 18 and I get no hoes. Not exactly looking for some foid to fuck moreso looking for a gf, I’m in community college and don’t have a single class w a chick above ltb, and the only other place I go is the gym, I’m fairly jacked but I’m also hella high inhib and nd.
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Look at her and say, "Girl!"
 
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Why would they get defensive though? If I say they look good and shit whilst I also look amazing w a pump in the gym, then I should be dialed right? Haven’t tried the library method tho, might test it out
Some foids are self conscious as shit they might feel a little threatened
 
Gym aint the best due to foids bitching about sexual harassment, however you have a insane physique so any gymcel foid would be attracted to that.

I would try to first try smiling at some foids. If one of them smiles back at you then wave at the foid . If the foid waves back you could just introduce yourself to the foid and say that you just moved into the area a few months back and wanted to meet new people and mention that you saw her workout regularly as well.

If the foid tries to dip quickly then thats a sign of low interest. If she tries to maintain the convo that is a very good sign. At that point you can ask if the foid is fine staying in touch or not really.

See in a gym setting you have to be mindful as these whores can run and larp sexual harassment to the gym receptionist and get you banned. So thats why you have to play it more indirect. Once your texting you can ask to grab a coffee and if she drops the " I have a boyfriend " line or " I just wanna be friends" you say" I understand no worries " and leave it at that.

Personally if you want to get some real results quickly without trying to dance around I would go to the mall every weekend and aim to talk to at least 15 random foids in the mall, preferably jb since their hot.

So you go on Friday and Saturday that is 30 foids in a week. Do that x4, that is 120 foids a month. In a year that is 120*20= 2400 foids. I think you could easily get a 1-2% success rate.

I would not try to spam approach in the walking areas of the mall as its highly visible and security might spot you and think what is this guy doing " harassing " foids , yes those cucks might think that. So find instead a foid inside one of those stores inside the mall, and make some comment about talking about their being too many items to select and then introduce yourself. Then come clean and admit that you found her attractive and just wanted an excuse to take to her or just say you thought she was kinda cute. If she drops the I have a boyfriend line instantly or quickly then say " I understand well take it as a complement " and then leave. Don't try the cringe response lines like " Oh I got a math test, and she says" what do you mean " , "oh I thought we were talking about things we were gonna cheat on"... Just move on if she liked you she wouldn't say that.

If you build some rapport talk about wanting to grab coffee or something . Then get the Foid's numbers as well as snapchat. I woudl do both because the number is harder to ignore texts as lot of foids just turns ff snapchat notifications. But with snapchat I like it as if they do use it actively you can send pics of your body ( in your case a elite body ) and that can greatly help in the seduction process and REMIND the foid who she is dealing with as she is probably talking to a ton of guys at this same time.

TL:DR- Don't be a pussy, cold approach jb and hot foids in the mall in the individual stores, aim for 30 every weekend, with doing 15 on Fridays and Saturdays. Take pregabin before your approaches to calm your nerves. Gym approaching can work but is more high risk due to foids larping about harassment and getting you kicked out. I saw a African dude get kicked out for spam approaching foids. Obviously in your case I highlighted a strategic and better way to do it but if you approach too much in the gym you will be known as Mr.Pickup guy and get banned... so approach carefully and less
 
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Gym aint the best due to foids bitching about sexual harassment, however you have a insane physique so any gymcel foid would be attracted to that.

I would try to first try smiling at some foids. If one of them smiles back at you then wave at the foid . If the foid waves back you could just introduce yourself to the foid and say that you just moved into the area a few months back and wanted to meet new people and mention that you saw her workout regularly as well.

If the foid tries to dip quickly then thats a sign of low interest. If she tries to maintain the convo that is a very good sign. At that point you can ask if the foid is fine staying in touch or not really.

See in a gym setting you have to be mindful as these whores can run and larp sexual harassment to the gym receptionist and get you banned. So thats why you have to play it more indirect. Once your texting you can ask to grab a coffee and if she drops the " I have a boyfriend " line or " I just wanna be friends" you say" I understand no worries " and leave it at that.

Personally if you want to get some real results quickly without trying to dance around I would go to the mall every weekend and aim to talk to at least 15 random foids in the mall, preferably jb since their hot.

So you go on Friday and Saturday that is 30 foids in a week. Do that x4, that is 120 foids a month. In a year that is 120*20= 2400 foids. I think you could easily get a 1-2% success rate.

I would not try to spam approach in the walking areas of the mall as its highly visible and security might spot you and think what is this guy doing " harassing " foids , yes those cucks might think that. So find instead a foid inside one of those stores inside the mall, and make some comment about talking about their being too many items to select and then introduce yourself. Then come clean and admit that you found her attractive and just wanted an excuse to take to her or just say you thought she was kinda cute. If she drops the I have a boyfriend line instantly or quickly then say " I understand well take it as a complement " and then leave. Don't try the cringe response lines like " Oh I got a math test, and she says" what do you mean " , "oh I thought we were talking about things we were gonna cheat on"... Just move on if she liked you she wouldn't say that.

If you build some rapport talk about wanting to grab coffee or something . Then get the Foid's numbers as well as snapchat. I woudl do both because the number is harder to ignore texts as lot of foids just turns ff snapchat notifications. But with snapchat I like it as if they do use it actively you can send pics of your body ( in your case a elite body ) and that can greatly help in the seduction process and REMIND the foid who she is dealing with as she is probably talking to a ton of guys at this same time.

TL:DR- Don't be a pussy, cold approach jb and hot foids in the mall in the individual stores, aim for 30 every weekend, with doing 15 on Fridays and Saturdays. Take pregabin before your approaches to calm your nerves. Gym approaching can work but is more high risk due to foids larping about harassment and getting you kicked out. I saw a African dude get kicked out for spam approaching foids. Obviously in your case I highlighted a strategic and better way to do it but if you approach too much in the gym you will be known as Mr.Pickup guy and get banned... so approach carefully and less
Good advice man, will try that this weekend, plan will be friday morning have 50mg hctz (should keep me debloated and chiseled til late saturday) and put on tinted sunscreen so skin is elite, along with height fruading just a tad (can’t height fraud too much cuz then when you take your shoes off to slay you are FUCKED), haven’t really experienced much with low inhib drugs, tried baclofen once and it just made me feel kind of hammered and disoriented, ive heard very good things about pregablin though might order that, anyways do something to lower my inhib, get a day pass at a gym I don’t usually go to (planet fitness seems good as theres a lot of foids there) and approach some if they seem bad enough and are making eye contact with me, that same day go to the mall a bit later with a friend slightly less attractive and shorter than me (not too chopped though because I don’t want them thinking I have loser friends) and approach all the hot foids (maybe a couple lower tier ones just to get the practice in and get better at it), then repeat the same thing saturday and I should hopefully be slaying sooner or later
 
If you send a girl that picture the first thing she will notice is your skin. Take off that filter because it makes your skin look worse.

Don't approach girls at the gym. Look for IOIs from girls. If they smile at you or keep looking at you then you have the go ahead to approach.
 
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If you send a girl that picture the first thing she will notice is your skin. Take off that filter because it makes your skin look worse.

Don't approach girls at the gym. Look for IOIs from girls. If they smile at you or keep looking at you then you have the go ahead to approach.
Like the raised contrast and shit? Also if I see a hot girl at the gyn giving me IOIs then I’m good to approach right?
 
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Like the raised contrast and shit? Also if I see a hot girl at the gyn giving me IOIs then I’m good to approach right?
Yeah the raised contrast makes your body pop out which is great (good job btw you're gymmaxed as fuck) but it also brings out any problems with your skin. Do you do facial routines? Also how old are you? If you're young

Yes only go up to them if you're getting IOIs. This goes the same for IRL too. Cold approaching with no IOIs has such a low return on investment it's not even worth doing unless you're Chad.
 
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Walk to your nearest university go into the library and larp as a student and approach a girl there in the talking area not the quiet sections. If you approach any girl at the gym I don’t think it will be a good outcome, but if needed ask if she’s done with a machine, how many sets etc and feel the vibe would be my best guess
 
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Yeah the raised contrast makes your body pop out which is great (good job btw you're gymmaxed as fuck) but it also brings out any problems with your skin. Do you do facial routines? Also how old are you? If you're young

Yes only go up to them if you're getting IOIs. This goes the same for IRL too. Cold approaching with no IOIs has such a low return on investment it's not even worth doing unless you're Chad.
I keep my skincare very minimal as I’ve noticed adding more shit tends to break me out, on 20mg of accutane and just started vitamin c serum, rinse face with water and put moisturizer on, cleanse it with a hydrating cleanser most nights especially if I sweat, sometimes use tinted spf when going out and then double cleanse that off, what do you recommend?
 
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I’m 18 and I get no hoes. Not exactly looking for some foid to fuck moreso looking for a gf, I’m in community college and don’t have a single class w a chick above ltb, and the only other place I go is the gym, I’m fairly jacked but I’m also hella high inhib and nd.
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Gain some fat you look dead, then foids will come by themself
 
I keep my skincare very minimal as I’ve noticed adding more shit tends to break me out, on 20mg of accutane and just started vitamin c serum, rinse face with water and put moisturizer on, cleanse it with a hydrating cleanser most nights especially if I sweat, sometimes use tinted spf when going out and then double cleanse that off, what do you recommend?
It’s normal for your face to get slightly worse if you start doing a facial routine. It fixes itself as time goes on you just need to stay consistent.

Accutane can be very harsh on your your body. Have you noticed any side effects? I personally just use a ceraVe cleanser, ceraVe moisturizer & tretinoin. I keep my routine as minimal as possible.

I really like serums, though. Vitamin C serums are good stuff. If I’m gonna apply anything else it would be a BB cream to cover up small blemishes or imperfections.
 
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It’s normal for your face to get slightly worse if you start doing a facial routine. It fixes itself as time goes on you just need to stay consistent.

Accutane can be very harsh on your your body. Have you noticed any side effects? I personally just use a ceraVe cleanser, ceraVe moisturizer & tretinoin. I keep my routine as minimal as possible.

I really like serums, though. Vitamin C serums are good stuff. If I’m gonna apply anything else it would be a BB cream to cover up small blemishes or imperfections.
How do you like tret and how long does it take to see results?
 

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