How to approach?

[UltraExtremeIntense]

I keep seeing this one girl at school. I want to approach but I've never spoken to her before. Im not sure if ill come off as weird. She's shy and English isn't her first language, no idea how to start a conversation other than being direct about my intentions. What should I do lads?

 

[Deleted member 283]

Chinese?

 

[UltraExtremeIntense]

Chinese?

Nah Brazillian
White though
Not that matters to me particularly

 

[Immanuel]

If you see her with someone you know or something just go say hi. JL at straight up telling her that you’re interested

 

[UltraExtremeIntense]

If you see her with someone you know or something just go say hi. JL at straight up telling her that you’re interested

It could possibly work but I only know one of her friends so its a bit impractical.

 

[Hebbe wem]

Give her a note like blackoutwhitesin did

 

[androidcel]

Send her dick pic

 

[blackoutwhitein]

You grab her ass.

 

[Time Travel]

Message her on social media

 

[blackoutwhitein]

@HorseFace

 

[Deleted member 281]

Just keep looking at her, if she doesn't approach you or stare back at the very least, it's over.

 

[Insomniac]

Step 1: don't be autistic
Step 2: ???
Step 3: success

 

[HorseFace]

@HorseFace

You askin' me?

I dont know, maybe if you have any subjects together you could start a conversation around that? Or you could just say hi, worst thing you could do is doing nothing and then regreting it.

 

[blackoutwhitein]

You askin' me?

I dont know, maybe if you have any subjects together you could start a conversation around that? Or you could just say hi, worst thing you could do is doing nothing and then regreting it.

I just wanted to get your attention. But i can’t even say hi to girls I found attractive.

Step 1: don't be autistic
Step 2: ???
Step 3: success

Lol.

 

[spark]

be good looking

 

[Deleted member 176]

If she isn’t already giving you IOI's, then don’t bother approaching.

 

[Claire Violet]

I just wanted to get your attention. But i can’t even say hi to girls I found attractive.

Lol.

U need to limit ur fapping and I promise u'll start to unconsciously flirt with girls.

 

[HorseFace]

If she isn’t already giving you IOI's, then don’t bother approaching.

That seems kinda stupid

 

[Deleted member 176]

That seems kinda stupid

Trust me, it’s not. Women always make the first move by sending IOI’s to the men they’re attracted to. You can’t just approach a girl who doesn’t acknowledge your existence.

 

[Sizzurp]

Something like this should be natural, i tried this once you cannot setup a scenario in life it will always go different than how you anticipate it.

I tried to approach a girl once in a small store with a line in my head, it didnt work because i was nervous, you always get something said to you that you are not prepared for, Stick with the 5 second rule. you see something you like just go do it right then and there, i had multple girls interested in me and i knew they where but i didnt apporach and they left... thats the worst feeling trust me. just go do it right then and there dont be dicking. if she dont like you she dont, keep it movin.

Trust me, it’s not. Women always make the first move by sending IOI’s to the men they’re attracted to. You can’t just approach a girl who doesn’t acknowledge your existence.

and yeah thats right, girls do that, only in guys they like ofcourse they send interest with subtle IOI's, if you havent gotten these then you dont know how it feels or what they are.

 

[HorseFace]

Trust me, it’s not. Women always make the first move by sending IOI’s to the men they’re attracted to. You can’t just approach a girl who doesn’t acknowledge your existence.

I disagree. She might not be that into you but its definelty worth trying. The thing that distinguishes average guys who slay, and average guys who are incels is that those who slay put in a little effort, and dont mind being rejected.

 

[VST]

Don't approach, approaching is a meme.
It is completely unnatural and I can guarantee that it will be extremely awkward.

 

[blackoutwhitein]

U need to limit ur fapping and I promise u'll start to unconsciously flirt with girls.

Did u just assume I masturbate a lot?

 

[spark]

Trust me, it’s not. Women always make the first move by sending IOI’s to the men they’re attracted to. You can’t just approach a girl who doesn’t acknowledge your existence.

If she doesn't know him at all it is stupid. Sure if they knew each other for a long time and she never gave him a single IOI I'd agree with you.

 

[Claire Violet]

Did u just assume I masturbate a lot?

Don't u? u seem very high inhib

 

[UltraExtremeIntense]

If she doesn't know him at all it is stupid. Sure if they knew each other for a long time and she never gave him a single IOI I'd agree with you.

We've caught eyes before, not sure if relevant.

 

[spark]

We've caught eyes before, not sure if relevant.

if you think you are gl enough to approach her go for it

 

[Deleted member 470]

Step 1: don't be autistic
Step 2: ???
Step 3: success

very important step 2

 

[Swagwaffle]

Just whip it out

 

[Deleted member 470]

Just whip it out

just have a huge dong-theory