How to become low inhib if you are scared of talking to women

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It's totally normal to feel nervous or unsure about talking to girls—many people experience that! Overcoming that fear is something that takes time, patience, and self-compassion. Here are some ways to work on being less inhibited:


1. Shift the Focus from Yourself


  • Don't overthink how you're coming across. When you're scared, it can feel like you're constantly worried about how you're being perceived. Try to shift your focus onto the person you're talking to. Ask questions about them, listen attentively, and show genuine curiosity. When you're interested in someone else, it takes the pressure off yourself.

2. Practice Self-Compassion


  • Don't beat yourself up. Everyone has awkward moments, and it's normal to feel nervous. The more you are kind to yourself and accept that some discomfort is part of growth, the easier it will become to push through that fear.

3. Start with Low-Pressure Conversations


  • Take baby steps. Start talking to people in low-stakes situations—maybe a cashier, a classmate, or a random person at a coffee shop. The more comfortable you get with casual conversations, the less intimidating it will feel to talk to girls.

4. Shift the Mindset About "Talking to Girls"


  • Treat them like people, not "girls." This might sound a bit weird, but sometimes we put people on pedestals because we're nervous. Try to treat conversations like you would with any other person. The more casual and comfortable you make yourself, the more natural it'll feel.

5. Prepare Your Mindset


  • Visualize success. Imagine yourself confidently having a conversation, maybe even having fun with it. Positive visualization can trick your mind into believing you’ve already succeeded, which can reduce anxiety.

6. Focus on Small Interactions First


  • Start with compliments or simple observations. You don’t need to dive straight into deep conversations. Compliments on something specific—like a shirt or a book they're reading—can be an easy way to break the ice. It’s an introduction that feels less intimidating.

7. Don't Take It Too Seriously


  • It’s okay to mess up. If you stutter or feel awkward, don’t worry! Just keep going. People appreciate someone who is confident enough to laugh off a mistake or just move past it. Everyone has those moments, and no one’s perfect.

8. Challenge Negative Thoughts


  • Change your inner narrative. If you think, “I’m going to mess this up,” or “She won’t like me,” it creates pressure. Challenge these thoughts with more balanced perspectives, like: “It’s okay if this conversation is imperfect,” or “I’m just getting to know someone, and that’s the point.”

9. Practice with Close Friends


  • Roleplay with friends. You don’t have to practice with the girl you're nervous about right away. Try practicing in a safe space with a friend. It can be fun, and it’ll help you feel more confident in those real situations.

10. Accept Rejection as Part of Life


  • Don’t fear rejection. Rejection is not a reflection of your worth. It's just part of life, and it happens to everyone. The key is learning from it, adjusting, and moving forward with no hard feelings.
 
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5. Prepare Your Mindset


  • Visualize success. Imagine yourself confidently having a conversation, maybe even having fun with it. Positive visualization can trick your mind into believing you’ve already succeeded, which can reduce anxiety.
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stupid ugly lowIQ retard
 
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KILL YOURSELF
The more you practice these things, the easier it gets to naturally interact with people—whether it’s a girl or anyone else. It’s really about building comfort with yourself and embracing the learning process. Would you like to dive deeper into any specific area?
 
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It's totally normal to feel nervous or unsure about talking to girls—many people experience that! Overcoming that fear is something that takes time, patience, and self-compassion. Here are some ways to work on being less inhibited:


1. Shift the Focus from Yourself


  • Don't overthink how you're coming across. When you're scared, it can feel like you're constantly worried about how you're being perceived. Try to shift your focus onto the person you're talking to. Ask questions about them, listen attentively, and show genuine curiosity. When you're interested in someone else, it takes the pressure off yourself.

2. Practice Self-Compassion


  • Don't beat yourself up. Everyone has awkward moments, and it's normal to feel nervous. The more you are kind to yourself and accept that some discomfort is part of growth, the easier it will become to push through that fear.

3. Start with Low-Pressure Conversations


  • Take baby steps. Start talking to people in low-stakes situations—maybe a cashier, a classmate, or a random person at a coffee shop. The more comfortable you get with casual conversations, the less intimidating it will feel to talk to girls.

4. Shift the Mindset About "Talking to Girls"


  • Treat them like people, not "girls." This might sound a bit weird, but sometimes we put people on pedestals because we're nervous. Try to treat conversations like you would with any other person. The more casual and comfortable you make yourself, the more natural it'll feel.

5. Prepare Your Mindset


  • Visualize success. Imagine yourself confidently having a conversation, maybe even having fun with it. Positive visualization can trick your mind into believing you’ve already succeeded, which can reduce anxiety.

6. Focus on Small Interactions First


  • Start with compliments or simple observations. You don’t need to dive straight into deep conversations. Compliments on something specific—like a shirt or a book they're reading—can be an easy way to break the ice. It’s an introduction that feels less intimidating.

7. Don't Take It Too Seriously


  • It’s okay to mess up. If you stutter or feel awkward, don’t worry! Just keep going. People appreciate someone who is confident enough to laugh off a mistake or just move past it. Everyone has those moments, and no one’s perfect.

8. Challenge Negative Thoughts


  • Change your inner narrative. If you think, “I’m going to mess this up,” or “She won’t like me,” it creates pressure. Challenge these thoughts with more balanced perspectives, like: “It’s okay if this conversation is imperfect,” or “I’m just getting to know someone, and that’s the point.”

9. Practice with Close Friends


  • Roleplay with friends. You don’t have to practice with the girl you're nervous about right away. Try practicing in a safe space with a friend. It can be fun, and it’ll help you feel more confident in those real situations.

10. Accept Rejection as Part of Life


  • Don’t fear rejection. Rejection is not a reflection of your worth. It's just part of life, and it happens to everyone. The key is learning from it, adjusting, and moving forward with no hard feelings.
Or just take propranolol. Why bother ?
 
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The more you practice these things, the easier it gets to naturally interact with people—whether it’s a girl or anyone else. It’s really about building comfort with yourself and embracing the learning process. Would you like to dive deeper into any specific area?
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Its for physical symptoms of anxiety not the mental block
Less anxiety = low inhib. Why bother when you can just take propranolol?
 
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Less anxiety = low inhib. Why bother when you can just take propranolol?
You wont actually mentally feel less anxious. It can only stop things like sweating, or faster heartbeat.
An actual drug (combo) that helps with inhibition is benzos + alcohol, but it is too unpredictable and dangerous.
 
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Nardil, Propranolol, and Alcohol all at once your inhib will evaporate immediately physically impossible to feel inhib on this stack
 

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