How to become popular in highschool

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I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
 
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1. look good
 
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be chad and good social skills
 
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I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
your right but i would say try to bond with people over similar interests, the best way is to join a sports team or make friends in classes and then during lunch just talk to them
 
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run naked inside the school everyone gon be mirin and ur gonna be the most known nigga
 
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I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
if you look good, you won’t have to worry but continue being outgoing and social.
 
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pull your cock ouut in the midddle of thee cllasss and pee on the foids
 
pull your cock ouut in the midddle of thee cllasss and pee on the foids
If I do that other guys are gonna look which will indirectly make me gay so fuck no, but if it was alll girl classroom then this advice would probably work.
 
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just be nt mtn+ with good social skills and idk transfer to another school nigga ;)
 
just be nt mtn+ with good social skills and idk transfer to another school nigga ;)
Also I forgot to mention my school is full of illegal border hoppers so theres a language barrier between me and half of the entire school
(Upside is all the bad latinas ngl)
golden eagles baseball GIF by Southern Miss Athletics
 
Also I forgot to mention my school is full of illegal border hoppers so theres a language barrier between me and half of the entire school
(Upside is all the bad latinas ngl)
golden eagles baseball GIF by Southern Miss Athletics
where do u live brah also js try to learn the language
 
I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
just dont become popular its soul crushing for littile autistic kids like us (if you on the forum i suppose you are on the spectrum) try to start some kind of hobby you know the people you want to hang with do, lets say they run or play golf or fight or go to the gym sum shi, integrate the same club and make them appreciate you outside of school its gonna be easier then to befriend with them. ofc use the halo effect for your advantage and everything is going to be fine twin
 
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I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
Get really good at a sport, whatever is popular depending on your area and what you're capable of being good at like is youre a manlet, there's no point in playing basketball
 
where do u live brah also js try to learn the language
South Florida, in my entire school theres like less than 10 gringos me being one of them, Ima try to learn the language by eating a spanish dictionary wish me luck
 
I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
Leave school during lunch or some bro don’t sit alone😭to get in a friend group u just gotta make good friends w one person who’s in one and hope he inv u to hangout w everyone else too
 
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nah but deadass if you look good you wouldnt need social skills all the huzz would just be looking at you and you can go from there
 
Fk the guys, js become friends with the huzz in ur class, esp the period b4 lunch. Talk to them during this period, then walk w them to the lunch hall and js talk to them until the end of lunch n ur good.
 
nah but deadass if you look good you wouldnt need social skills all the huzz would just be looking at you and you can go from there
Having a girlfriend with no friends is weird, she'll see that I have no status and dump me or some shi. But there are some HTB's that be staring at me in class I never ask them out though cuz I don't feel ready.
 
South Florida, in my entire school theres like less than 10 gringos me being one of them, Ima try to learn the language by eating a spanish dictionary wish me luck
just practice the accent and learn the slang (but dont use it incorrectly) lmao google is free, also assuming you probably have spanish class you should have a decent base for that
 
Having a girlfriend with no friends is weird, she'll see that I have no status and dump me or some shi. But there are some HTB's that be staring at me in class I never ask them out though cuz I don't feel ready.
Don’t ask them out js talk to them. If u want guy friends then js go up to ppl yk from b4 at lunch and js make small talk n si, ask them about they middle skl and how that was, some stories they know n shi, crack a few jokes n do the same thing the next day and u chilling bruh
 
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Having a girlfriend with no friends is weird, she'll see that I have no status and dump me or some shi. But there are some HTB's that be staring at me in class I never ask them out though cuz I don't feel ready.
 
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I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
lmao idk what ur excuse is bro, i moved schools grade 9 to grade 10, took me 2-3 weeks, found a friendgroup, then found like 10 or so more ppl to go out with at lunch, another friendgroup and i can hold conversations with randoms too, ur doing smt wrong
 
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lmao idk what ur excuse is bro, i moved schools grade 9 to grade 10, took me 2-3 weeks, found a friendgroup, then found like 10 or so more ppl to go out with at lunch, another friendgroup and i can hold conversations with randoms too, ur doing smt wrong
what im saying 😭 i transfered mid year and found a high status nt friend group in a week or so
 
what im saying 😭 i transfered mid year and found a high status nt friend group in a week or so
same shit happened with me, only thing holding me back is talking to these fucking low status weirdos ive known since start of the year, time to leave them behind
 
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what im saying 😭 i transfered mid year and found a high status nt friend group in a week or so
No cuz like I fk with people in my classes but they have a friend group thats not in the class its with randoms that I don't know.
 
same shit happened with me, only thing holding me back is talking to these fucking low status weirdos ive known since start of the year, time to leave them behind
just stop talking to them eventually they will leave you behind unless theyre constantly approaching you or something
 
just stop talking to them eventually they will leave you behind unless theyre constantly approaching you or something
its just one, awkward asf too because some of the high status ppl know him, im pretty close to him its just he acts weird as fuck smoetimes
 
No cuz like I fk with people in my classes but they have a friend group thats not in the class its with randoms that I don't know.
start talking to the ones in your class and later on they will introduce you to the ones outside of class
 
Don’t ask them out js talk to them. If u want guy friends then js go up to ppl yk from b4 at lunch and js make small talk n si, ask them about they middle skl and how that was, some stories they know n shi, crack a few jokes n do the same thing the next day and u chilling bruh
Appreciate the advice gng, I guess Ima just try to go outside of my comfort zone, talk to the people I know more and try to infiltrate their friend group. (I realized I was lwk being a pussy cause I am afraid of rejection but I'm only 16 once and I gotta make the most of it.)
 
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Appreciate the advice gng, I guess Ima just try to go outside of my comfort zone, talk to the people I know more and try to infiltrate their friend group. (I realized I was lwk being a pussy cause I am afraid of rejection but I'm only 16 once and I gotta make the most of it.)
update in 1 week bhai :owo:
 
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I was a socially awkward weirdo in 9th grade and I didn't talk to anyone plus all my friends from middle school went to a different high school, now in that I'm in 10th grade I am NT, very social and outgoing.

I even have people that I talk to regularly and we have great conversations and I make them laugh, but as soon as lunch hits I'm sitting all by myself, which is ruining my image cause I look like a loser with no status and all the Stacy's are probably revolted by it.

The main problem is that everyone has their own friends, their own circle why would they hang out with me when they can hang out with people they've known since middle school. And its not like I can force myself to talk to the people I know while they are around their true friends cause then it will be super awkward cause I only know them and not the people they know.

Its so fucking hard making friends, I don't have any problems with looks or social skills but I just can't make friends I need a way to become popular so I can bang hot chicks.
Just get food at a sport and you'll be fine, but you at least have to be mtn+
 

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