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Just like any form of idea and social media, this site has an immense potential to consume the minds of vulnerable people, their precious time and lifes(the very ones they sought to better once entering here), almost always leading to nothing but regression in almost every aspect of life. For this, it is necessary to take a rational approach, and most of all, have a critical mind about everything you see in the blackpill sphere, since this site and all that is incel related is absolutely flooded with insane people which you obviously should not take the word as truth. Therefore it is absolutely necessary to have some things in mind and a good way of collecting and filtering information:
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Most important of all if you want to better your chances in dating(literally the best advice you can get from this site):
Understand that maintaining a good personality, morals and social circle is the best thing you can do to make YOUR( any people entering looksmaxxing) chances of dating better, especially once you understand that even hardmaxing will barelly change you in most cases. It is no coincidence that normies(bluepill) says that having personality is the best for dating, most people fix this and instantly fix their lifes too, so they say that personality is the most important( whether or not you believe this is up to you)
Most incels who are here have severe personality issues and depression symptoms from experiences they suffered from other people in their lifes, in which they where eventually aliened in believing was exclusively for their looks. Whoever, people for the most part dont even know what blackpill is and developed their whole lifes judging people not only for their looks, but also for their capabilities, morals, maneirisms and most of all their opinions and personalities. This does not exclude the fact that people also judge by looks, but you gotta understand that once someone doesnt like you for your personality or opinions, that is the moment they truly dont like you, but they wont vocalize this directly most of the time, instead they will pick at your insecurities, which the first and obvious one to try is your appearance. This does not mean that everyone dislikes you by your appearance, but it may make it look like it, since most of the times people around you seem to dislike you for no clear reason whatsoever. It is fucking imperative that there are terrible people in the world, and when you are a kid and are forced to live with those people around you in school, they will absolutely take advantage of you and have fun fucking with you, independently of your looks or even if you are or not NT. What we get wrong most of the time when we enter here is letting this get to our heads, then fall for the oldest trap in the world which is thinking the problem is within ourselves, instead of other people.
Super anedoctal but honestly i dont think it is an exception to be normie or even subnormie(like 4/10) and have a normal happy life(that includes being able to get into relationships), i legit cant think about one of my fat or ugly(even very ugly) friends who have'nt had any or multiple chances with women and also live kinda normal lifes. But once you go crazy, full non nt, depressive with severely non normie opinions you will absolutely get red flaged by most of society and easily fuck your life, I CANT THINK OF A FRIEND OF MINE WHO HAS WEIRD PERSONALITY AND MORALS AND ALSO HAS A GIRLFRIEND(muh but super giga chad can commit crimes blablabla-> those are the real exceptions to the rule, and that is why it is so shocking to see them). As a matter of fact, i lost many chances with girls and only really started dating once i finally got rid of my toxic social circle, finally found a normal one, stopped being a stupid narcissistic with obviously no respect for the social environment and now i finally have a girlfriend(looksmaxxing 100% helped, but was not even close to being the most important thing). So it is absolutely important for you to understand that as long as you are not absolutely deformed it is most likely not your appearance the biggest problem you have to take care and that looksmaxxing probably wont even change much about you if you cant lose weight.
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Some important things to do so you know what you are doing and benefit from the blackpill and this site:
-Take notes and research what you see here, most things have insane potential but are barely discussed at even a superficial level. Once you find something that may interest you go research deeply about it(from scientific sources and articles ofc) so you dont lose time with people discussing about something they have no idea about.
-Focus on your problems, don't try to fix something that barely changes you, don't focus on creating halos, don't think that any failo implies that its over for you( you can be short, you can have low ipd, high ipd, shallow set cheekbones, recessed jaw, acne, t50 eyes or whatever, no failo is imperative and harmony is law). obs: In my opinion even if you have fucking bad harmony there is a very good chance you are still the tipe of some random girls with some random specific things going in their lifes.
-Once you think you have gatered a good amount of information for you, only get on the site once in a while to see and learn new things, dont get addicted to the site.
-Dont be a rotter and do the fucking things you learn, SPECIALLY DO THE FUCKING BEST AND WELL KNOWN LOOKSMAX AND GO DOWN TO 6-8% BODY FAT, if you cant do that and are unhappy with your situation you legit deserve to be where you are( not really, but it has some truth to it).
-Dont lose your life here and go keep work on your dreams, life is NOT OVER and you can still work super hard on everything you ever wanted and looksmax at the same time, its even gonna be much better for your looks if your dream involves getting into the sun in the process and getting a tan.
-Use your knowledge about the importance of looks to your favor, be it in work, in a competition or whatever, fraud the fuck of what you can to maxime your chances of success, people literally wont notice and point suspiciously out if your frame randomly gets 5cm wider or if you get even 10 fucking cm taller over a break, just lie that you grew some centimeters and they wont remember correctly your height before. They dont even have a reason to care about this because they consciently believe that looks dont matter and shit like this you using lifts wont even pass through their heads.
-life is good, there is much more to it than dating and if you only think about this you are gonna go crazy and only fuck your chances, go live your life, find friends who truly like you and who YOU truly like also, have similar tastes and just try to not overthink everything. If you cant get the fucking depression and anxiety of you, you are not ugly, you have gone insane because of terrible shit on your life and should seek an psychiatric to help you with medications until you can fix your life.
//////
Most important of all if you want to better your chances in dating(literally the best advice you can get from this site):
Understand that maintaining a good personality, morals and social circle is the best thing you can do to make YOUR( any people entering looksmaxxing) chances of dating better, especially once you understand that even hardmaxing will barelly change you in most cases. It is no coincidence that normies(bluepill) says that having personality is the best for dating, most people fix this and instantly fix their lifes too, so they say that personality is the most important( whether or not you believe this is up to you)
Most incels who are here have severe personality issues and depression symptoms from experiences they suffered from other people in their lifes, in which they where eventually aliened in believing was exclusively for their looks. Whoever, people for the most part dont even know what blackpill is and developed their whole lifes judging people not only for their looks, but also for their capabilities, morals, maneirisms and most of all their opinions and personalities. This does not exclude the fact that people also judge by looks, but you gotta understand that once someone doesnt like you for your personality or opinions, that is the moment they truly dont like you, but they wont vocalize this directly most of the time, instead they will pick at your insecurities, which the first and obvious one to try is your appearance. This does not mean that everyone dislikes you by your appearance, but it may make it look like it, since most of the times people around you seem to dislike you for no clear reason whatsoever. It is fucking imperative that there are terrible people in the world, and when you are a kid and are forced to live with those people around you in school, they will absolutely take advantage of you and have fun fucking with you, independently of your looks or even if you are or not NT. What we get wrong most of the time when we enter here is letting this get to our heads, then fall for the oldest trap in the world which is thinking the problem is within ourselves, instead of other people.
Super anedoctal but honestly i dont think it is an exception to be normie or even subnormie(like 4/10) and have a normal happy life(that includes being able to get into relationships), i legit cant think about one of my fat or ugly(even very ugly) friends who have'nt had any or multiple chances with women and also live kinda normal lifes. But once you go crazy, full non nt, depressive with severely non normie opinions you will absolutely get red flaged by most of society and easily fuck your life, I CANT THINK OF A FRIEND OF MINE WHO HAS WEIRD PERSONALITY AND MORALS AND ALSO HAS A GIRLFRIEND(muh but super giga chad can commit crimes blablabla-> those are the real exceptions to the rule, and that is why it is so shocking to see them). As a matter of fact, i lost many chances with girls and only really started dating once i finally got rid of my toxic social circle, finally found a normal one, stopped being a stupid narcissistic with obviously no respect for the social environment and now i finally have a girlfriend(looksmaxxing 100% helped, but was not even close to being the most important thing). So it is absolutely important for you to understand that as long as you are not absolutely deformed it is most likely not your appearance the biggest problem you have to take care and that looksmaxxing probably wont even change much about you if you cant lose weight.
//////
Some important things to do so you know what you are doing and benefit from the blackpill and this site:
-Take notes and research what you see here, most things have insane potential but are barely discussed at even a superficial level. Once you find something that may interest you go research deeply about it(from scientific sources and articles ofc) so you dont lose time with people discussing about something they have no idea about.
-Focus on your problems, don't try to fix something that barely changes you, don't focus on creating halos, don't think that any failo implies that its over for you( you can be short, you can have low ipd, high ipd, shallow set cheekbones, recessed jaw, acne, t50 eyes or whatever, no failo is imperative and harmony is law). obs: In my opinion even if you have fucking bad harmony there is a very good chance you are still the tipe of some random girls with some random specific things going in their lifes.
-Once you think you have gatered a good amount of information for you, only get on the site once in a while to see and learn new things, dont get addicted to the site.
-Dont be a rotter and do the fucking things you learn, SPECIALLY DO THE FUCKING BEST AND WELL KNOWN LOOKSMAX AND GO DOWN TO 6-8% BODY FAT, if you cant do that and are unhappy with your situation you legit deserve to be where you are( not really, but it has some truth to it).
-Dont lose your life here and go keep work on your dreams, life is NOT OVER and you can still work super hard on everything you ever wanted and looksmax at the same time, its even gonna be much better for your looks if your dream involves getting into the sun in the process and getting a tan.
-Use your knowledge about the importance of looks to your favor, be it in work, in a competition or whatever, fraud the fuck of what you can to maxime your chances of success, people literally wont notice and point suspiciously out if your frame randomly gets 5cm wider or if you get even 10 fucking cm taller over a break, just lie that you grew some centimeters and they wont remember correctly your height before. They dont even have a reason to care about this because they consciently believe that looks dont matter and shit like this you using lifts wont even pass through their heads.
-life is good, there is much more to it than dating and if you only think about this you are gonna go crazy and only fuck your chances, go live your life, find friends who truly like you and who YOU truly like also, have similar tastes and just try to not overthink everything. If you cant get the fucking depression and anxiety of you, you are not ugly, you have gone insane because of terrible shit on your life and should seek an psychiatric to help you with medications until you can fix your life.
