How to care less about your looks?

[Deleted member 10699]

I've reached a point in which I'm obsessing too much about my looks in an unhealthy way. I need a surgery to fix my midface, and I'll get it to feel more happy about my looks. I, first, want to get to 12 bodyfat to feel good about myself. But I want to cope. How can I stop thinking so much about my looks? I feel like I should focus on some other things, but I've been called ugly a lot. Is there any way to cope? To enjoy life without caring about the negative feedback?

 

[Deleted member 110]

Copemaxx while staying inside only go out when its dark

 

[Deleted member 7651]

moneymaxx and get your surgeries nigga

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I want to just forget about the negative feedback I've been receiving for years.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Log on reddit and buy a switch

 

[Deleted member 10699]

moneymaxx and get your surgeries nigga

I'll never do that. I don't want to get many surgeries to get looks. I want to be good-looking, but with 12 bf, and if that won't make me to be good looking (as many people have stated), then I'll try to stop caring.

 

[Deleted member 2403]

Stay inside for the rest of your life

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Stay inside for the rest of your life

Already want to do that.

 

[gymislife]

You can't. Once you swallow the blackpill there is no turning back.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

You can't. Once you swallow the blackpill there is no turning back.

I want ti be able to, I don't wanna live like this anymore

 

[Bewusst]

I know it's hard not to. But make sure to not hurt yourself in the process of improving your looks. Remind yourself of your fortunes, being healthy, family and friends (if you have), financial freedom, whatever you got going for yourself.

Also remember that you aren't as important to others/strangers as you think. Most people don't even care. Almost everyone cares about themselves mostly. As long as you don't harass others, you shouldn't get into trouble.

 

[XXX.king]

Seek the Lord and His strength.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I know it's hard not to. But make sure to not hurt yourself in the process of improving your looks. Remind yourself of your fortunes, being healthy, family and friends (if you have), financial freedom, whatever you got going for yourself.

Also remember that you aren't as important to others/strangers as you think. Most people don't even care. Almost everyone cares about themselves mostly. As long as you don't harass others, you shouldn't get into trouble.

I just don't want to kill myself.

 

[Gengar]

youre not ugly though

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I just don't want to kill myself.

And everyone is calling me ugly in this site, which correlates with how girls have been treatening me.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

youre not ugly though

Everyone called me ugly in my thread. I was rated as 3/3.5 PSL. My goal is 4.5 PSL. I want that to feel better and to make girls to stop calling me ugly.

 

[Bewusst]

I just don't want to kill myself.

Of course you don't

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Of course you don't

I want, but my parents are alive.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I want, but my parents are alive.

If I can't become a HTN in 4 years, then I'll kill myself. I don't give a shit. I'll cut to 12 bodyfat and then get a surgery.

 

[Deleted member 5048]

You'll get over it, looks are not everything, just find a hobby or do anything else to get yourself busy, try to spend less time on this site

 

[Deleted member 10699]

You'll get over it, looks are not everything, just find a hobby or do anything else to get yourself busy, try to spend less time on this site

I always think about my looks because of the negative feedback I get from girls. I just want to stop socialising, but then, I'll always be alone if I do this. If working out won't ascend me, why should I? No one will find my face attractive.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I always think about my looks because of the negative feedback I get from girls. I just want to stop socialising, but then, I'll always be alone if I do this. If working out won't ascend me, why should I? No one will find my face attractive.

I just want to stop living with normal people, they should be killed. They are pieces of shit that have always treated me like crap.

 

[metagross]

You have an unhealthy mindset.
If you want to improve your looks, you need motivation first. - Start working out, read the skinmaxxing guides, etc. Buy the products, do the things that are needed (everything that doesn't involve surgery yet) and then play a cool game. Hang out with your friends or something.

Many of us can do it.

 

[lepo2317]

Once you go black (pill) you never go back. If you know that game called life is all about looks, there is no turning back. It's over bro.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

You have an unhealthy mindset.
If you want to improve your looks, you need motivation first. - Start working out, read the skinmaxxing guides, etc. Buy the products, do the things that are needed (everything that doesn't involve surgery yet) and then play a cool game. Hang out with your friends or something.

Many of us can do it.

Everyone have told me that I need surgery to get to 4.5 PSL. So if 12 bodyfat won't make good-looking, why should I care?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Everyone have told me that I need surgery to get to 4.5 PSL. So if 12 bodyfat won't make good-looking, why should I care?

I'm autistic, so I'm starting to think that I'll never find love.