How to change personality

[Abhorrence]

I dont want the high cortisol low t neurotic zoomer personality

I want to become a man of action that gives 0 fucks

But how tf can someone change their personality

 

[WanderingBurro]

Fake it until you make it

 

[gribsufer1]

get strong, become competent, have good looks etc

 

[Respalier]

@Crusile any ideas?

 

[Crusile]

@Crusile any ideas?

believe in urself, believing in yourself. Not much more I can add

 

[normie_joe]

I dont want the high cortisol low t neurotic zoomer personality

I want to become a man of action that gives 0 fucks

But how tf can someone change their personality

You can't.

That's the harsh truth.

It's easier to change looks than personality.

You notice this with extremely young children (I'm talking 2 yrs old), some are loud and prancing about the place, others are meek and quiet.

Your personality is as genetic as your looks.

 

[Abhorrence]

You can't.

That's the harsh truth.

It's easier to change looks than personality.

You notice this with extremely young children (I'm talking 2 yrs old), some are loud and prancing about the place, others are meek and quiet.

Your personality is as genetic as your looks.

might be legit
but limiting urself with these facts is kinda like cucking your progress

you will never change if you dont believe you can change

 

[Deleted member 28904]

Don’t ever get up.

 

[normie_joe]

might be legit
but limiting urself with these facts is kinda like cucking your progress

you will never change if you dont believe you can change

Being a lazy fatass vs being motivated != low inhib vs high inhib

Don't get me wrong, I'm NOT encouraging people just to stay nihilistic and rot all because it's "unchangeable." You absolutely can change that.

I'm talking more on the fundamental structure of your personality. If you are an overthinker, it's very difficult to be low inhib regardless of how "hard you believe."

For an example, take Brad. Brad is naturally low inhib. Brad sees a cute cashier and says "What up cutie, you down to get dinner after your shift?". Cutie says " No" and Brad shrugs his shoulders and moves on. Brad doesn't think about this exchange at all any more.

Now Steve is a high inhib over thinker. He decides today is the day he will be low inhib. He sees a cute cashier and says "What up cutie, you down to get dinner after your shift?" Cutie says "No" and Steve is taken aback. On his way back, he is thinking about the whole exchange, he goes "was it my hair? My teeth? My face? Why did she say no?" Steve cannot stop thinking about this for his entire day. He tries his hardest to be like Brad and forget it, but it continuously lingers in the back of his mind.

That's the difference between Brad and Steve, one genuinely gives no fucks and the other has to continuously spend a great deal of effort to not give a fuck.

 

[Struggler03]

Having a near death experience or doing psychedelics are the most effective way to change personality, but you can't control those

 

[Struggler03]

Being a lazy fatass vs being motivated != low inhib vs high inhib

Don't get me wrong, I'm NOT encouraging people just to stay nihilistic and rot all because it's "unchangeable." You absolutely can change that.

I'm talking more on the fundamental structure of your personality. If you are an overthinker, it's very difficult to be low inhib regardless of how "hard you believe."

For an example, take Brad. Brad is naturally low inhib. Brad sees a cute cashier and says "What up cutie, you down to get dinner after your shift?". Cutie says " No" and Brad shrugs his shoulders and moves on. Brad doesn't think about this exchange at all any more.

Now Steve is a high inhib over thinker. He decides today is the day he will be low inhib. He sees a cute cashier and says "What up cutie, you down to get dinner after your shift?" Cutie says "No" and Steve is taken aback. On his way back, he is thinking about the whole exchange, he goes "was it my hair? My teeth? My face? Why did she say no?" Steve cannot stop thinking about this for his entire day. He tries his hardest to be like Brad and forget it, but it continuously lingers in the back of his mind.

That's the difference between Brad and Steve is one genuinely gives no fucks and the other has to continuously spend a great deal of effort to not give a fuck.

The biggest blackpill is that you cannot directly control your thoughts, they come from random chemical fires in your brain. Freewill pill is brutal

 

[Crusile]

Believing that attributes are malleable or adaptive changes subsequent interpretations of life experiences. For instance, people who view intelligence to be malleable believe that mistakes represent learning opportunities, whereas individuals who view intelligence as immutable believe mistakes are threatening to their identity(Burnette et al., 2013).

Thus, the same life experiences (mistakes) are interpreted in different ways depending on these beliefs. Although originally studied in educational settings, mindset research has increasingly been applied to clinical settings, finding that growth and functional beliefs of emotions are tied to more resilience, more adaptive coping in response to stress, and better psychological outcomes (for reviews, see Burnette et al., 2013, 2020; Kneeland et al., 2016; Schleider et al., 2015; Schroder, 2021).

Step 1 believe in urself

The biggest blackpill is that you cannot directly control your thoughts, they come from random chemical fires in your brain. Freewill pill is brutal

Remember that every belief you have, has real effects your mind, dont believe in random false theories like neurotransmitter reduction theory. Harmful, counterproductive, and isnt even true/makes 0 sense, lol=

 

[forevermirin]

Step 1 believe in urself

Remember that every belief you have, has real effects your mind, dont believe in random false theories like neurotransmitter reduction theory. Harmful, counterproductive, and isnt even true/makes 0 sense, lol=

is it true that you are 42 years old?

 

[Crusile]

is it true that you are 42 years old?

True

 

[Struggler03]

Step 1 believe in urself

Remember that every belief you have, has real effects your mind, dont believe in random false theories like neurotransmitter reduction theory. Harmful, counterproductive, and isnt even true/makes 0 sense, lol=

Just believe in yourself bro !

 

[forevermirin]

True

makes sense, i still have time to catch up to your iq of 165 then.

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

Having a near death experience or doing psychedelics are the most effective way to change personality, but you can't control those

just buy shrooms off a DNM or something

 

[Interested]

is it true that you are 42 years old?

True

makes sense, i still have time to catch up to your iq of 165 then.

@forevermirin Lmao don't trust this guy

 

[forevermirin]

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@forevermirin Lmao don't trust this guy

He appears to be a known larper.

 

[Crusile]

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@forevermirin Lmao don't trust this guy

I don’t know wtf to do, turning 27

So first of all I applied for neetbux since I am a Scandicel and I never had a social life, all I did in 20s is mostly rotting inside with some exceptions now and then. I just dropped out of some shit uni and my grades are dogshit, so I have to consider private uni’s in the future to get into IT...

looksmax.org

 

[Interested]

I don’t know wtf to do, turning 27

So first of all I applied for neetbux since I am a Scandicel and I never had a social life, all I did in 20s is mostly rotting inside with some exceptions now and then. I just dropped out of some shit uni and my grades are dogshit, so I have to consider private uni’s in the future to get into IT...

looksmax.org

46 is a new one. Adding that to my collection