Control her mind: make her obsessed with you

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The degeneration of our society has pushed men to passively accept, even normalizing, dynamics that shouldn't be normalized, like letting your girlfriend like other guys' photos, letting your girlfriend go clubbing with her friends while 10 other betas try to approach her and stick their disgusting 4-inch dicks in her, letting your girlfriend post half-naked photos, and more. And guess what? You're not okay with all of this? "You're insecure." I'm sorry, but I think insecurity lies precisely in accepting these kinds of dynamics because you're afraid of being alone and think you'll never find anything better than a slut who keeps you on a leash while she seeks validation.

That said, the purpose of this guide is precisely to help you avoid these kinds of dynamics. I've had 3 liters, one of which lasted four and a half years, so I've gained quite a bit of experience.
First of all, you mustn't make the mistake of looking for a woman without values and completely submissive to you. Even if she gives you dopamine, ego, and temporary control, you still won't be able to truly respect and love her, because you know that everything she does for you doesn't come from her moral compass and values, but solely from the fear of losing you. At the same time, you can't even look for a degenerate whore and hope to change her, because she'll always be a degenerate whore, and even if you were to change her, you know deep down that change is merely a matter of convenience, always tied to the fear of losing the only cuckold who has decided to accept her degeneration.
What you need to do is find a woman who seems to share your same values, who isn't a slut and who isn't a total submissive with no standards. From here on, we'll divide the escalation into two phases:

1. Idealization:
This is the initial phase, where you've just gotten to know each other. Here, you need to be very good at projecting her desires. You don't have to be a spineless idiot who goes along with everything she says, mind you. It simply means she needs to idealize you. At this stage, you should start sowing the seeds of control that you'll need later, but you have to be subtle: if you talk about other couples, for example, you point out cuckold dynamics that you don't like, but you have to do it subtly, trying to build a logical framework around it, so that she begins to question what society has always led her to believe is right and begins to see you as someone who knows better. Don't do it too much, or too often, or she'll perceive it as a red flag. You need to do it every now and then, only at the right time, keeping in mind that at this stage, the primary goal is idealization. "I've always wanted a man like him." This should be the phrase she says when talking to her friends.
At this point, you shouldn't be too territorial with her; on the contrary, show that you have options, but not in a direct way. I'm not saying you have to show her you're talking to four other sluts. Women can sense when they're dealing with a pre-selected man, so you have to do just enough, like telling her about a hypothetical friend of yours who hit on you and you rejected her, but without seeming bragging, otherwise you'll start her playing similar psychological games with you. If she does, you'll obviously react with indifference.

2. Obsession.
After you get together, she has to be literally obsessed with you. For this to happen, if you've played your cards right in the first phase, she's already obsessed with you. Here comes the hardest part: you have to keep this obsession going. You have to start alternating hot and cold, creating drama out of nothing if necessary, and then put her back on a pedestal. Believe me, she'll become literally obsessed with you, and if you think she'll still think about other guys, you're wrong. Women are emotional, and when you completely mess up their emotional brains, they won't be able to help but think about you. After a while, in every one of my relationships, I started to show my territoriality in an increasingly dominant way: I asked for their social media passwords, I deleted every single man they followed on Instagram, I asked to look through their phones from top to bottom without them batting an eyelid, etc. To achieve this, you have two ways to do it: the first is based on complicity, which is the one I prefer. You have to make her believe that giving you the passwords is a gesture of complicity, a game. Do I like other guys? You have to make her understand how sleazy it is, because you are a unique couple, above these superficial dynamics, and that she shouldn't feel the slightest attraction to any man other than you. And finally, you’ll eliminate them one by one. None of my girlfriends has ever stopped me or resisted giving me their password, and if they had, the second option would have been fear. You have to make her understand that she risks losing you. This is something I don't like, because I prefer them to think that the degenerate behaviors 90% of sluts exhibit are actually wrong. In fact, I think I'd actually walk away if she objected to something like this, but if you really want to try to compromise, you can do so through fear. Do you really think she wants to lose a high-value man who seems above superficial social dynamics, is good-looking, and also fucks her well? I don't think so, so she'll compromise.

I advise you to be careful, though, because you could end up making the relationship feel like being trapped in a cage. So if she's actually a good girl and wants to go for coffee with a friend one afternoon, there's nothing wrong with that. You simply have to avoid all the other submissive cuckold dynamics that people label as freedom of choice
 
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easy dnr

step 1: be attractive
 
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The degeneration of our society has pushed men to passively accept, even normalizing, dynamics that shouldn't be normalized, like letting your girlfriend like other guys' photos, letting your girlfriend go clubbing with her friends while 10 other betas try to approach her and stick their disgusting 4-inch dicks in her, letting your girlfriend post half-naked photos, and more. And guess what? You're not okay with all of this? "You're insecure." I'm sorry, but I think my insecurity lies precisely in accepting these kinds of dynamics because you're afraid of being alone and think you'll never find anything better than a slut who keeps you on a leash while she seeks validation.

That said, the purpose of this guide is precisely to help you avoid these kinds of dynamics. I've had 3 liters, one of which lasted four and a half years, so I've gained quite a bit of experience.
First of all, you mustn't make the mistake of looking for a woman without values and completely submissive to you. Even if she gives you dopamine, ego, and temporary control, you still won't be able to truly respect and love her, because you know that everything she does for you doesn't come from her moral compass and values, but solely from the fear of losing you. At the same time, you can't even look for a degenerate whore and hope to change her, because she'll always be a degenerate whore, and even if you were to change her, you know deep down that change is merely a matter of convenience, always tied to the fear of losing the only cuckold who has decided to accept her degeneration.
What you need to do is find a woman who seems to share your same values, who isn't a slut and who isn't a total submissive with no standards. From here on, we'll divide the escalation into two phases:

1. Idealization:
This is the initial phase, where you've just gotten to know each other. Here, you need to be very good at projecting her desires. You don't have to be a spineless idiot who goes along with everything she says, mind you. It simply means she needs to idealize you. At this stage, you should start sowing the seeds of control that you'll need later, but you have to be subtle: if you talk about other couples, for example, you point out cuckold dynamics that you don't like, but you have to do it subtly, trying to build a logical framework around it, so that she begins to question what society has always led her to believe is right and begins to see you as someone who knows better. Don't do it too much, or too often, or she'll perceive it as a red flag. You need to do it every now and then, only at the right time, keeping in mind that at this stage, the primary goal is idealization. "I've always wanted a man like him." This should be the phrase she says when talking to her friends.
At this point, you shouldn't be too territorial with her; on the contrary, show that you have options, but not in a direct way. I'm not saying you have to show her you're talking to four other sluts. Women can sense when they're dealing with a pre-selected man, so you have to do just enough, like telling her about a hypothetical friend of yours who hit on you and you rejected her, but without seeming bragging, otherwise you'll start her playing similar psychological games with you. If she does, you'll obviously react with indifference.

2. Obsession.
After you get together, she has to be literally obsessed with you. For this to happen, if you've played your cards right in the first phase, she's already obsessed with you. Here comes the hardest part: you have to keep this obsession going. You have to start alternating hot and cold, creating drama out of nothing if necessary, and then put her back on a pedestal. Believe me, she'll become literally obsessed with you, and if you think she'll still think about other guys, you're wrong. Women are emotional, and when you completely mess up their emotional brains, they won't be able to help but think about you. After a while, in every one of my relationships, I started to show my territoriality in an increasingly dominant way: I asked for their social media passwords, I deleted every single man they followed on Instagram, I asked to look through their phones from top to bottom without them batting an eyelid, etc. To achieve this, you have two ways to do it: the first is based on complicity, which is the one I prefer. You have to make her believe that giving you the passwords is a gesture of complicity, a game. Do I like other guys? You have to make her understand how sleazy it is, because you are a unique couple, above these superficial dynamics, and that she shouldn't feel the slightest attraction to any man other than you. And finally, you’ll eliminate them one by one. None of my girlfriends has ever stopped me or resisted giving me their password, and if they had, the second option would have been fear. You have to make her understand that she risks losing you. This is something I don't like, because I prefer them to think that the degenerate behaviors 90% of sluts exhibit are actually wrong. In fact, I think I'd actually walk away if she objected to something like this, but if you really want to try to compromise, you can do so through fear. Do you really think she wants to lose a high-value man who seems above superficial social dynamics, is good-looking, and also fucks her well? I don't think so, so she'll compromise.

I advise you to be careful, though, because you could end up making the relationship feel like being trapped in a cage. So if she's actually a good girl and wants to go for coffee with a friend one afternoon, there's nothing wrong with that. You simply have to avoid all the other submissive cuckold dynamics that people label as freedom of choice
Just be mtn+
 
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Be her type, be her best option, have options-women simping for you, ghost, block, cheat, insult her, but give her affection too, basically giver her highs and lows.
 
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The degeneration of our society has pushed men to passively accept, even normalizing, dynamics that shouldn't be normalized, like letting your girlfriend like other guys' photos, letting your girlfriend go clubbing with her friends while 10 other betas try to approach her and stick their disgusting 4-inch dicks in her, letting your girlfriend post half-naked photos, and more. And guess what? You're not okay with all of this? "You're insecure." I'm sorry, but I think my insecurity lies precisely in accepting these kinds of dynamics because you're afraid of being alone and think you'll never find anything better than a slut who keeps you on a leash while she seeks validation.

That said, the purpose of this guide is precisely to help you avoid these kinds of dynamics. I've had 3 liters, one of which lasted four and a half years, so I've gained quite a bit of experience.
First of all, you mustn't make the mistake of looking for a woman without values and completely submissive to you. Even if she gives you dopamine, ego, and temporary control, you still won't be able to truly respect and love her, because you know that everything she does for you doesn't come from her moral compass and values, but solely from the fear of losing you. At the same time, you can't even look for a degenerate whore and hope to change her, because she'll always be a degenerate whore, and even if you were to change her, you know deep down that change is merely a matter of convenience, always tied to the fear of losing the only cuckold who has decided to accept her degeneration.
What you need to do is find a woman who seems to share your same values, who isn't a slut and who isn't a total submissive with no standards. From here on, we'll divide the escalation into two phases:

1. Idealization:
This is the initial phase, where you've just gotten to know each other. Here, you need to be very good at projecting her desires. You don't have to be a spineless idiot who goes along with everything she says, mind you. It simply means she needs to idealize you. At this stage, you should start sowing the seeds of control that you'll need later, but you have to be subtle: if you talk about other couples, for example, you point out cuckold dynamics that you don't like, but you have to do it subtly, trying to build a logical framework around it, so that she begins to question what society has always led her to believe is right and begins to see you as someone who knows better. Don't do it too much, or too often, or she'll perceive it as a red flag. You need to do it every now and then, only at the right time, keeping in mind that at this stage, the primary goal is idealization. "I've always wanted a man like him." This should be the phrase she says when talking to her friends.
At this point, you shouldn't be too territorial with her; on the contrary, show that you have options, but not in a direct way. I'm not saying you have to show her you're talking to four other sluts. Women can sense when they're dealing with a pre-selected man, so you have to do just enough, like telling her about a hypothetical friend of yours who hit on you and you rejected her, but without seeming bragging, otherwise you'll start her playing similar psychological games with you. If she does, you'll obviously react with indifference.

2. Obsession.
After you get together, she has to be literally obsessed with you. For this to happen, if you've played your cards right in the first phase, she's already obsessed with you. Here comes the hardest part: you have to keep this obsession going. You have to start alternating hot and cold, creating drama out of nothing if necessary, and then put her back on a pedestal. Believe me, she'll become literally obsessed with you, and if you think she'll still think about other guys, you're wrong. Women are emotional, and when you completely mess up their emotional brains, they won't be able to help but think about you. After a while, in every one of my relationships, I started to show my territoriality in an increasingly dominant way: I asked for their social media passwords, I deleted every single man they followed on Instagram, I asked to look through their phones from top to bottom without them batting an eyelid, etc. To achieve this, you have two ways to do it: the first is based on complicity, which is the one I prefer. You have to make her believe that giving you the passwords is a gesture of complicity, a game. Do I like other guys? You have to make her understand how sleazy it is, because you are a unique couple, above these superficial dynamics, and that she shouldn't feel the slightest attraction to any man other than you. And finally, you’ll eliminate them one by one. None of my girlfriends has ever stopped me or resisted giving me their password, and if they had, the second option would have been fear. You have to make her understand that she risks losing you. This is something I don't like, because I prefer them to think that the degenerate behaviors 90% of sluts exhibit are actually wrong. In fact, I think I'd actually walk away if she objected to something like this, but if you really want to try to compromise, you can do so through fear. Do you really think she wants to lose a high-value man who seems above superficial social dynamics, is good-looking, and also fucks her well? I don't think so, so she'll compromise.

I advise you to be careful, though, because you could end up making the relationship feel like being trapped in a cage. So if she's actually a good girl and wants to go for coffee with a friend one afternoon, there's nothing wrong with that. You simply have to avoid all the other submissive cuckold dynamics that people label as freedom of choice
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The degeneration of our society has pushed men to passively accept, even normalizing, dynamics that shouldn't be normalized, like letting your girlfriend like other guys' photos, letting your girlfriend go clubbing with her friends while 10 other betas try to approach her and stick their disgusting 4-inch dicks in her, letting your girlfriend post half-naked photos, and more. And guess what? You're not okay with all of this? "You're insecure." I'm sorry, but I think insecurity lies precisely in accepting these kinds of dynamics because you're afraid of being alone and think you'll never find anything better than a slut who keeps you on a leash while she seeks validation.

That said, the purpose of this guide is precisely to help you avoid these kinds of dynamics. I've had 3 liters, one of which lasted four and a half years, so I've gained quite a bit of experience.
First of all, you mustn't make the mistake of looking for a woman without values and completely submissive to you. Even if she gives you dopamine, ego, and temporary control, you still won't be able to truly respect and love her, because you know that everything she does for you doesn't come from her moral compass and values, but solely from the fear of losing you. At the same time, you can't even look for a degenerate whore and hope to change her, because she'll always be a degenerate whore, and even if you were to change her, you know deep down that change is merely a matter of convenience, always tied to the fear of losing the only cuckold who has decided to accept her degeneration.
What you need to do is find a woman who seems to share your same values, who isn't a slut and who isn't a total submissive with no standards. From here on, we'll divide the escalation into two phases:

1. Idealization:
This is the initial phase, where you've just gotten to know each other. Here, you need to be very good at projecting her desires. You don't have to be a spineless idiot who goes along with everything she says, mind you. It simply means she needs to idealize you. At this stage, you should start sowing the seeds of control that you'll need later, but you have to be subtle: if you talk about other couples, for example, you point out cuckold dynamics that you don't like, but you have to do it subtly, trying to build a logical framework around it, so that she begins to question what society has always led her to believe is right and begins to see you as someone who knows better. Don't do it too much, or too often, or she'll perceive it as a red flag. You need to do it every now and then, only at the right time, keeping in mind that at this stage, the primary goal is idealization. "I've always wanted a man like him." This should be the phrase she says when talking to her friends.
At this point, you shouldn't be too territorial with her; on the contrary, show that you have options, but not in a direct way. I'm not saying you have to show her you're talking to four other sluts. Women can sense when they're dealing with a pre-selected man, so you have to do just enough, like telling her about a hypothetical friend of yours who hit on you and you rejected her, but without seeming bragging, otherwise you'll start her playing similar psychological games with you. If she does, you'll obviously react with indifference.

2. Obsession.
After you get together, she has to be literally obsessed with you. For this to happen, if you've played your cards right in the first phase, she's already obsessed with you. Here comes the hardest part: you have to keep this obsession going. You have to start alternating hot and cold, creating drama out of nothing if necessary, and then put her back on a pedestal. Believe me, she'll become literally obsessed with you, and if you think she'll still think about other guys, you're wrong. Women are emotional, and when you completely mess up their emotional brains, they won't be able to help but think about you. After a while, in every one of my relationships, I started to show my territoriality in an increasingly dominant way: I asked for their social media passwords, I deleted every single man they followed on Instagram, I asked to look through their phones from top to bottom without them batting an eyelid, etc. To achieve this, you have two ways to do it: the first is based on complicity, which is the one I prefer. You have to make her believe that giving you the passwords is a gesture of complicity, a game. Do I like other guys? You have to make her understand how sleazy it is, because you are a unique couple, above these superficial dynamics, and that she shouldn't feel the slightest attraction to any man other than you. And finally, you’ll eliminate them one by one. None of my girlfriends has ever stopped me or resisted giving me their password, and if they had, the second option would have been fear. You have to make her understand that she risks losing you. This is something I don't like, because I prefer them to think that the degenerate behaviors 90% of sluts exhibit are actually wrong. In fact, I think I'd actually walk away if she objected to something like this, but if you really want to try to compromise, you can do so through fear. Do you really think she wants to lose a high-value man who seems above superficial social dynamics, is good-looking, and also fucks her well? I don't think so, so she'll compromise.

I advise you to be careful, though, because you could end up making the relationship feel like being trapped in a cage. So if she's actually a good girl and wants to go for coffee with a friend one afternoon, there's nothing wrong with that. You simply have to avoid all the other submissive cuckold dynamics that people label as freedom of choice
Not reading allat. "How to control her mind"-🧌
 
U don't know about percentile of the psl scale lol
No. Im not autistic enough to go and see the actual percentile. Can you name them BY HEART if you are that smart then
 
No. Im not autistic enough to go and see the actual percentile. Can you name them BY HEART
Hltn /mltn is average
Mtn is like 25% of the population
Htn2/5%
Cl is 0.2%
And chad is like 0.01
 
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Hltn /mltn is average
Mtn is like 25% of the population
Htn2/5%
Cl is 0.2%
And chad is like 0.01
Alright thanks. Useful information (I have no idea but I'll trust you on that :forcedsmile:)
 
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Hltn /mltn is average
Mtn is like 25% of the population
Htn2/5%
Cl is 0.2%
And chad is like 0.01
One thing tho, I see many guys here get rated mtn and htn, how is that so rare then?
 
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Do u know that mtn is a good looking guy right
@ESR
Tbh yeah being mtn with a physique halo and a masculine personality make her obsessed
Cuz u are not meeting CL everyday and not every girl gonna marry a htn :fuk:
 
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Tbh yeah being mtn with a physique halo and a masculine personality make her obsessed
Cuz u are not meeting CL everyday and not every girl gonna marry a htn :fuk:
Look at @Valkyrjaj looks :Comfy:
 
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Nahhhhh mtn is too low. I woulsnt even say htn is enough. Chadlite minimum
Look at @Valkyrjaj looks :Comfy:
TO SAY CL ITS A DELUSION
CUZ BY EXPERIENCE I MET ONLY ONE SOLIDE CL IN MY HOLE LIFE
AND THE FK BOYS I KNOW
WHO MAKE GIRLS OBSESSED ARE JST MTNS WITH SOME CRAZY PERSONALITY AND LOW INHIB AF
 
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TO SAY CL ITS A DELUSION
CUZ BY EXPERIENCE I MET ONLY ONE SOLIDE CL IN MY HOLE LIFE
AND THE FK BOYS I KNOW
WHO MAKE GIRLS OBSESSED ARE JST MTNS WITH SOME CRAZY PERSONALITY AND LOW INHIB AF
No i mean look at how he looks in his rate me thread
 
What a shit thread, you basically said nothing that's actually usable and applicable, just "do this".
Some actual methods:

Mirroring: In the beginning, try to mirror her interests and traits. If she likes tennis, then you do too, or you're going to. If she prefers mcdonalds, then you do too, even if you fucking hate it. The most powerful method of mirroring, is trauma mirroring. If you can get her to speak about childhood stuff, or trauma-based stuff early on, whenever she tells some super emotional story, you react with a surprised face. Then of course you've experienced the same. If she specifically remembers her mother throwing her out of the house, then how convenient, becasue so do you. This will reinforce the idea, that you are special and selected for her. It will convince her that your life experience is so intertwined and similar, that it was chosen.

Anti-social traits: It can be helpful for some foids, to display antisocial behavior or traits. Such as impulsivity, low empathy, low regard for rules and similar. But not against her, specifically against everyone else, and make it clear to her, that she is your exception. So make fun of other people, and show low regard for their safety, but when it comes to her, display a facade of empathy and high care, be very calm and caring suddenly. This will make her feel protected and convince her that you're a safe person, who's trustworthy and special for her.

Love-bombing: This one's pretty self-explanatory. But it can easily backfire, so it needs to be done cautiously. It is best to do this, after you've mirrored her and gotten closer. Now, you're gonna give her gifts. They don't need to be expensive, but give her flowers, at least once a week. This will make you stand out, and her friends are gonna reinforce that you're "one of the good ones". Then, you're gonna act like you want a long-term relationship, that you love family dynamics, that you care greatly about finding "the one". Get that idea instilled into her brain. And keep her engaged, constantly. If you live away from eachother, keep texting her, calling her, snapping her, all the fucking time. The more time she spends thinking about you and engaged with you, the better.

Sex: You need to be a sexgod. This can be very difficult for some retards. But sex can be very manipulative, if you know what you're doing. A good strategy, is fucking her very intensely, until she gives up. This requires practice and extreme self-control, so be prepared. But this will convince her, that she's not "good enough" for you, because you didn't cum despite fucking for ages. This will make her self-worth lower, and she'll feel a need to prove herself to you. Also, communication is extremely important for this, and she needs to know that you're a good communicator. Constantly ask her "Is this good" blah blah blah. And you also need to eat her out, as annoying as that can be. If you can eat her out and make her cum several times, and not reveal your annoyance with this, it will again convince her that you're special, as will her friends.

Isolation: You need to isolate her from her social circle. The easiest way to do this, is through guilt-tripping. If she wants to go out, hang out with friends, whatever it is, you're gonna act really fucking sad and depressed. Don't force it, like don't become aggressive or demanding, as that risks losing sympathy. But act paranoid, afraid and sad, while continuing to tell her "It's ok, you can go hangout with them, i'll manage". And she won't be able to emotionally handle that, so eventually, she's gonna stop going out.
And it goes without saying, that you need to be in her life as much as possible, and constantly have her engaged.
You also need to start convincing her, that her friends are bad and influencing her in a bad way. There are several ways to go about this. Obviously, you can make up stories. If it's a mutual friend, you're gonna make up a story in which the mutual friend talked shit about her or similar. If it's one of her female friends, you're gonna claim to have a mutual friend who knows of her, and make up some story about the aforementioned friend doing something that contradicts your girlfriends values. Over time, she'll become completely isolated and all for you.

Soulmates: Eventually, once you've got her in your grasp and have control, you're gonna make her think you're soulmates. This is gonna be pretty easy at this point, since you've got her isolated and also lovebombed. She might even have convinced herself that you're soulmates at this point. Whatever the case, you're also gonna begin to talk about marriage and kids, if that's something she wants. You need to keep bringing that up regularly. Look at online shops for rings, talk about kids names, talk about guests for the wedding. Get her mind occupied on this. The more the better, because she will be completely euphoric from love and think you're made for her.

Discard: The final move, is by completely discarding her. This should be done after a minor argument, in which she's apologized for something. So let's say, she went out with a friend without your knowledge or permission. You acted like you got super sad and started guilt-tripping her, and saying "i thought we were soulmates, how could you do this?". You wanna make her extremely emotional, and get her to apologize. Get her desperate and make her beg for you to forgive her. You're gonna forgive her, and you're gonna embrace her and lovebomb her again.
The next day, you're gonna leave her, without warning. You don't need to block her, just don't answer calls or texts at all. She's gonna freak out and be absolutely obsessed with you. Likely even try to stalk you. Whatever the case, at this point you've pretty much won and have her under complete control. You can choose to rekindle the relationship, use her for sex, or whatever you want now.
 
TO SAY CL ITS A DELUSION
CUZ BY EXPERIENCE I MET ONLY ONE SOLIDE CL IN MY HOLE LIFE
AND THE FK BOYS I KNOW
WHO MAKE GIRLS OBSESSED ARE JST MTNS WITH SOME CRAZY PERSONALITY AND LOW INHIB AF
Alright dude, either way people irl just go by are you attractive enough and then the rest follows
 
What a shit thread, you basically said nothing that's actually usable and applicable, just "do this".
Some actual methods:

Mirroring: In the beginning, try to mirror her interests and traits. If she likes tennis, then you do too, or you're going to. If she prefers mcdonalds, then you do too, even if you fucking hate it. The most powerful method of mirroring, is trauma mirroring. If you can get her to speak about childhood stuff, or trauma-based stuff early on, whenever she tells some super emotional story, you react with a surprised face. Then of course you've experienced the same. If she specifically remembers her mother throwing her out of the house, then how convenient, becasue so do you. This will reinforce the idea, that you are special and selected for her. It will convince her that your life experience is so intertwined and similar, that it was chosen.

Anti-social traits: It can be helpful for some foids, to display antisocial behavior or traits. Such as impulsivity, low empathy, low regard for rules and similar. But not against her, specifically against everyone else, and make it clear to her, that she is your exception. So make fun of other people, and show low regard for their safety, but when it comes to her, display a facade of empathy and high care, be very calm and caring suddenly. This will make her feel protected and convince her that you're a safe person, who's trustworthy and special for her.

Love-bombing: This one's pretty self-explanatory. But it can easily backfire, so it needs to be done cautiously. It is best to do this, after you've mirrored her and gotten closer. Now, you're gonna give her gifts. They don't need to be expensive, but give her flowers, at least once a week. This will make you stand out, and her friends are gonna reinforce that you're "one of the good ones". Then, you're gonna act like you want a long-term relationship, that you love family dynamics, that you care greatly about finding "the one". Get that idea instilled into her brain. And keep her engaged, constantly. If you live away from eachother, keep texting her, calling her, snapping her, all the fucking time. The more time she spends thinking about you and engaged with you, the better.

Sex: You need to be a sexgod. This can be very difficult for some retards. But sex can be very manipulative, if you know what you're doing. A good strategy, is fucking her very intensely, until she gives up. This requires practice and extreme self-control, so be prepared. But this will convince her, that she's not "good enough" for you, because you didn't cum despite fucking for ages. This will make her self-worth lower, and she'll feel a need to prove herself to you. Also, communication is extremely important for this, and she needs to know that you're a good communicator. Constantly ask her "Is this good" blah blah blah. And you also need to eat her out, as annoying as that can be. If you can eat her out and make her cum several times, and not reveal your annoyance with this, it will again convince her that you're special, as will her friends.

Isolation: You need to isolate her from her social circle. The easiest way to do this, is through guilt-tripping. If she wants to go out, hang out with friends, whatever it is, you're gonna act really fucking sad and depressed. Don't force it, like don't become aggressive or demanding, as that risks losing sympathy. But act paranoid, afraid and sad, while continuing to tell her "It's ok, you can go hangout with them, i'll manage". And she won't be able to emotionally handle that, so eventually, she's gonna stop going out.
And it goes without saying, that you need to be in her life as much as possible, and constantly have her engaged.
You also need to start convincing her, that her friends are bad and influencing her in a bad way. There are several ways to go about this. Obviously, you can make up stories. If it's a mutual friend, you're gonna make up a story in which the mutual friend talked shit about her or similar. If it's one of her female friends, you're gonna claim to have a mutual friend who knows of her, and make up some story about the aforementioned friend doing something that contradicts your girlfriends values. Over time, she'll become completely isolated and all for you.

Soulmates: Eventually, once you've got her in your grasp and have control, you're gonna make her think you're soulmates. This is gonna be pretty easy at this point, since you've got her isolated and also lovebombed. She might even have convinced herself that you're soulmates at this point. Whatever the case, you're also gonna begin to talk about marriage and kids, if that's something she wants. You need to keep bringing that up regularly. Look at online shops for rings, talk about kids names, talk about guests for the wedding. Get her mind occupied on this. The more the better, because she will be completely euphoric from love and think you're made for her.

Discard: The final move, is by completely discarding her. This should be done after a minor argument, in which she's apologized for something. So let's say, she went out with a friend without your knowledge or permission. You acted like you got super sad and started guilt-tripping her, and saying "i thought we were soulmates, how could you do this?". You wanna make her extremely emotional, and get her to apologize. Get her desperate and make her beg for you to forgive her. You're gonna forgive her, and you're gonna embrace her and lovebomb her again.
The next day, you're gonna leave her, without warning. You don't need to block her, just don't answer calls or texts at all. She's gonna freak out and be absolutely obsessed with you. Likely even try to stalk you. Whatever the case, at this point you've pretty much won and have her under complete control. You can choose to rekindle the relationship, use her for sex, or whatever you want now.
Do you think I should list manipulation techniques taken from the 40 laws of power?ahahahaha. If you can't understand how to behave through what I've said, you have a low IQ
 
No i mean look at how he looks in his rate me thread
Alright dude, either way people irl just go by are you attractive enough and then the rest follows
Ngga u look like those certified slayers in 2016 (Toni mahfud and Bateman) btw u got any filler cuz u look like
And u look 25 + :chad:
 
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Ngga u look like those certified slayers in 2016 (Toni mahfud and Bateman) btw u got any filler cuz u look like
And u look 25 + :chad:
Im mid 20's yeah. No i havent had any filler. I just do the basic stuff like gym, shaving, hairstyle, shit like that
 
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Do you think I should list manipulation techniques taken from the 40 laws of power?ahahahaha. If you can't understand how to behave through what I've said, you have a low IQ
Read my post before saying retarded shit jfl. You can literally just replace my post with yours, i actually describe the methods concretely. What the fuck is the point of your post if it's just "yeah make her obsessed with you by making her obsessed with you" kill yourself nigga also i iq mog you to death
 
Im mid 20's yeah. No i havent had any filler. I just the basic stuff like gym, shaving, hairstyle, shit like that
Mirin if I’m with a girl don’t come next me :Comfy:
 
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Read my post before saying retarded shit jfl. You can literally just replace my post with yours, i actually describe the methods concretely. What the fuck is the point of your post if it's just "yeah make her obsessed with you by making her obsessed with you" kill yourself nigga also i iq mog you to death
What you've explained are manipulation techniques. I've never talked about actual manipulation, much less isolating it. What you've explained can be perfectly applied if you want a woman who is completely submissive and who molds her entire personality to you, which I don't recommend
 
The degeneration of our society has pushed men to passively accept, even normalizing, dynamics that shouldn't be normalized, like letting your girlfriend like other guys' photos, letting your girlfriend go clubbing with her friends while 10 other betas try to approach her and stick their disgusting 4-inch dicks in her, letting your girlfriend post half-naked photos, and more. And guess what? You're not okay with all of this? "You're insecure." I'm sorry, but I think insecurity lies precisely in accepting these kinds of dynamics because you're afraid of being alone and think you'll never find anything better than a slut who keeps you on a leash while she seeks validation.

That said, the purpose of this guide is precisely to help you avoid these kinds of dynamics. I've had 3 liters, one of which lasted four and a half years, so I've gained quite a bit of experience.
First of all, you mustn't make the mistake of looking for a woman without values and completely submissive to you. Even if she gives you dopamine, ego, and temporary control, you still won't be able to truly respect and love her, because you know that everything she does for you doesn't come from her moral compass and values, but solely from the fear of losing you. At the same time, you can't even look for a degenerate whore and hope to change her, because she'll always be a degenerate whore, and even if you were to change her, you know deep down that change is merely a matter of convenience, always tied to the fear of losing the only cuckold who has decided to accept her degeneration.
What you need to do is find a woman who seems to share your same values, who isn't a slut and who isn't a total submissive with no standards. From here on, we'll divide the escalation into two phases:

1. Idealization:
This is the initial phase, where you've just gotten to know each other. Here, you need to be very good at projecting her desires. You don't have to be a spineless idiot who goes along with everything she says, mind you. It simply means she needs to idealize you. At this stage, you should start sowing the seeds of control that you'll need later, but you have to be subtle: if you talk about other couples, for example, you point out cuckold dynamics that you don't like, but you have to do it subtly, trying to build a logical framework around it, so that she begins to question what society has always led her to believe is right and begins to see you as someone who knows better. Don't do it too much, or too often, or she'll perceive it as a red flag. You need to do it every now and then, only at the right time, keeping in mind that at this stage, the primary goal is idealization. "I've always wanted a man like him." This should be the phrase she says when talking to her friends.
At this point, you shouldn't be too territorial with her; on the contrary, show that you have options, but not in a direct way. I'm not saying you have to show her you're talking to four other sluts. Women can sense when they're dealing with a pre-selected man, so you have to do just enough, like telling her about a hypothetical friend of yours who hit on you and you rejected her, but without seeming bragging, otherwise you'll start her playing similar psychological games with you. If she does, you'll obviously react with indifference.

2. Obsession.
After you get together, she has to be literally obsessed with you. For this to happen, if you've played your cards right in the first phase, she's already obsessed with you. Here comes the hardest part: you have to keep this obsession going. You have to start alternating hot and cold, creating drama out of nothing if necessary, and then put her back on a pedestal. Believe me, she'll become literally obsessed with you, and if you think she'll still think about other guys, you're wrong. Women are emotional, and when you completely mess up their emotional brains, they won't be able to help but think about you. After a while, in every one of my relationships, I started to show my territoriality in an increasingly dominant way: I asked for their social media passwords, I deleted every single man they followed on Instagram, I asked to look through their phones from top to bottom without them batting an eyelid, etc. To achieve this, you have two ways to do it: the first is based on complicity, which is the one I prefer. You have to make her believe that giving you the passwords is a gesture of complicity, a game. Do I like other guys? You have to make her understand how sleazy it is, because you are a unique couple, above these superficial dynamics, and that she shouldn't feel the slightest attraction to any man other than you. And finally, you’ll eliminate them one by one. None of my girlfriends has ever stopped me or resisted giving me their password, and if they had, the second option would have been fear. You have to make her understand that she risks losing you. This is something I don't like, because I prefer them to think that the degenerate behaviors 90% of sluts exhibit are actually wrong. In fact, I think I'd actually walk away if she objected to something like this, but if you really want to try to compromise, you can do so through fear. Do you really think she wants to lose a high-value man who seems above superficial social dynamics, is good-looking, and also fucks her well? I don't think so, so she'll compromise.

I advise you to be careful, though, because you could end up making the relationship feel like being trapped in a cage. So if she's actually a good girl and wants to go for coffee with a friend one afternoon, there's nothing wrong with that. You simply have to avoid all the other submissive cuckold dynamics that people label as freedom of choice
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