How to cope with being ND or socially awkward.

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step A. Find a passion that normies don’t find weird or alarming, sports, martial arts, some types of music etc.

step b. Dress like a regular guy , the uglier you are the simpler you should dress. Don’t wear clothes that people can pick apart, keep it simple.

Step c. Have multiple groups of “friends” then if they won’t become suspicious when you don’t show up around them as often. This also gives you the appearance of being social, even if one group just sees you say hi to another it is enough to give this image of NTness. These “friends” can just be people you get along with in class.

Step D. If you know that you are Likely to say something cringey just don’t reference anything, even if the content isn’t necessarily cringey you likely will make it seem so.

Step E. Engage in action instead of conversation. When you hangout the worst spot to be in as a ND is at a table or couch sitting doing nothing and just talking. This is why so many ND kids get bullied in class, there is nothing to do so people talk and NDs expose themselves through their awkward and cringey conversations. Instead hangout with people while doing something, playing football,
Frisbee, weightlifting, playing monopoly. Whatever that can give you a crutch while you try to learn to be semi normal.

I understand this guide will not work for sub5s or people who are extremely ND
 
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Act nt
 
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step A. Find a passion that normies don’t find weird or alarming, sports, martial arts, some types of music etc.

step b. Dress like a regular guy , the uglier you are the simpler you should dress. Don’t wear clothes that people can pick apart, keep it simple.

Step c. Have multiple groups of “friends” then if they won’t become suspicious when you don’t show up around them as often. This also gives you the appearance of being social, even if one group just sees you say hi to another it is enough to give this image of NTness. These “friends” can just be people you get along with in class.

Step D. If you know that you are Likely to say something cringey just don’t reference anything, even if the content isn’t necessarily cringey you likely will make it seem so.

Step E. Engage in action instead of conversation. When you hangout the worst spot to be in as a ND is at a table or couch sitting doing nothing and just talking. This is why so many ND kids get bullied in class, there is nothing to do so people talk and NDs expose themselves through their awkward and cringey conversations. Instead hangout with people while doing something, playing football,
Frisbee, weightlifting, playing monopoly. Whatever that can give you a crutch while you try to learn to be semi normal.

I understand this guide will not work for sub5s or people who are extremely ND
Watch tykwondoe on YouTube he can guide you through the way
 
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Mmamaxxing is legit
 
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step A. Find a passion that normies don’t find weird or alarming, sports, martial arts, some types of music etc.

step b. Dress like a regular guy , the uglier you are the simpler you should dress. Don’t wear clothes that people can pick apart, keep it simple.

Step c. Have multiple groups of “friends” then if they won’t become suspicious when you don’t show up around them as often. This also gives you the appearance of being social, even if one group just sees you say hi to another it is enough to give this image of NTness. These “friends” can just be people you get along with in class.

Step D. If you know that you are Likely to say something cringey just don’t reference anything, even if the content isn’t necessarily cringey you likely will make it seem so.

Step E. Engage in action instead of conversation. When you hangout the worst spot to be in as a ND is at a table or couch sitting doing nothing and just talking. This is why so many ND kids get bullied in class, there is nothing to do so people talk and NDs expose themselves through their awkward and cringey conversations. Instead hangout with people while doing something, playing football,
Frisbee, weightlifting, playing monopoly. Whatever that can give you a crutch while you try to learn to be semi normal.

I understand this guide will not work for sub5s or people who are extremely ND
its not that deep
 
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@snowbunnypolice Im being serious I was neurodivergent as hell physically couldn't talk to the opposite gender turns out being NT is kinda just like working out. Like sure some people are born with it like mesomorph=gift of gab but you can work on it try it listen to the guy
 
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@snowbunnypolice Im being serious I was neurodivergent as hell physically couldn't talk to the opposite gender turns out being NT is kinda just like working out. Like sure some people are born with it like mesomorph=gift of gab but you can work on it try it listen to the guy
I’m actually nt af I just shitpost on here because I can’t talk to most my normie friends irl about any of this.
 
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@snowbunnypolice Im being serious I was neurodivergent as hell physically couldn't talk to the opposite gender turns out being NT is kinda just like working out. Like sure some people are born with it like mesomorph=gift of gab but you can work on it try it listen to the guy
I agree though with both you guys.
 
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I’m actually nt af I just shitpost on here because I can’t talk to most my normie friends irl about any of this.
Nah but here's the thing also about him he gives amazing flirting advice not sure what your rating is but it can help you get to the objective quicker
 
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Nah but here's the thing also about him he gives amazing flirting advice not sure what your rating is but it can help you get to the objective quicker
imma disagree on that on bro with him lmao. Tbh I just switch up how I act based on the girl I’m dealing with.

Irl I do the same things usually and it works just be spontaneous and take the lead on dates and escalate over time.
 
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imma disagree on that on bro with him lmao. Tbh I just switch up how I act based on the girl I’m dealing with.

Irl I do the same things usually and it works just be spontaneous and take the lead on dates and escalate over time.
Yeah but his methods at least for me kiss 2nd date and a few days later asked me to come over to get a blowie.
 
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actually good advice. That's what i did initially
 
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Yeah but his methods at least for me kiss 2nd date and a few days later asked me to come over to get a blowie.
Playing with fire and red beard rants have better advice

Tawkwondoe is alright but he’s going at through the lense of a wannabe hood guy who thinks he’s cooler than he is not to mention he’s cookie cutter af and treats each girl the same he’s dealing no matter how different they are like a moron.

I will say this nothing beats experience irl and being low inhibition.

I usually do this in order and works majority of the time

just get the girl off the dating app iG or Snapchat

Talk on FaceTime. Then after a while get her number continue from there

Relate to her the whole time etc 2-3 hours usually just talking etc

Go on the date chat her up talk flirt continue as usual in person get food together at a cafe etc. escalate get her comfortable with physical contact through stuff like taking her hand and leading her through crowds.

Go in the movie theater after 2 hours and start escalating more after getting her comfy with you. Grab her hand, arm over shoulder etc kiss grab her tits.

Boom your in.
 
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Step D. If you know that you are Likely to say something cringey just don’t reference anything, even if the content isn’t necessarily cringey you likely will make it seem so.
yeah never force it. Only speak when you actually have something to contribute. If you're quiet but everything you say is on point, people will respect you a lot more.
 
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yeah never force it. Only speak when you actually have something to contribute. If you're quiet but everything you say is on point, people will respect you a lot more.
yeah just let them talk about themselves and find stuff to relate to. All you have to do is ask questions. And this also lets you probe the girl to see if there are red flags or not indirectly.
 
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I cant do Step C
 
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