How to cope with fake people?

[dryy]

It seems like everyone who talks to me except close friends will be nice and talk to me and then shit talk behind my back.

I’m sick of it happening and don’t know who to trust as I don’t know who’s genuine, especially girls.

I don’t want to show feelings and get sad

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Leave wherever you are at.

 

[dryy]

Leave wherever you are at.

Dude I can’t leave school and it seems everyone hates each other like someone will ask to hang with me and be an ass behind my back

 

[naturalselector420]

Ghost them.
I did that in high school and I no longer talk to people who were fake to me.

 

[dryy]

Ghost them.
I did that in high school and I no longer talk to people who were fake to me.

I already accept how most people are so that’s why I got a few friends but when people invite me I don’t wanna be antisocial and not go or not take advances yk

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Dude I can’t leave school and it seems everyone hates each other like someone will ask to hang with me and be an ass behind my back

Then set your sights for graduation and leave immediately afterwards. Get a head start on everyone and leave the day after you graduate.

 

[dryy]

Then set your sights for graduation and leave immediately afterwards. Get a head start on everyone and leave the day after you graduate.

Yeah at least when I graduate, I can pick who I be around, but it sucks life is like this especially because everyone says looks matter while people are assholes either way

 

[unon]

It seems like everyone who talks to me except close friends will be nice and talk to me and then shit talk behind my back.

I’m sick of it happening and don’t know who to trust as I don’t know who’s genuine, especially girls.

I don’t want to show feelings and get sad

Best way is to life mog them, looks,money,status, height, intelligents

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Yeah at least when I graduate, I can pick who I be around, but it sucks life is like this especially because everyone says looks matter while people are assholes either way

Looks matter but aren't the most important thing if you aren't too ugly. How many years of high school do you have left to go?

 

[dryy]

Looks matter but aren't the most important thing if you aren't too ugly. How many years of high school do you have left to go?

I got 2 years left but what I hate is that this year the girls were treating me different maybe because I looked better, but it seems that I am just trying to be trolled like last year and it sucks how no matter how much you change some bullshit happens

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I got 2 years left but what I hate is that this year the girls were treating me different maybe because I looked better, but it seems that I am just trying to be trolled like last year and it sucks how no matter how much you change some bullshit happens

Hard to escape certain things in the brain the way people remember you before. A lot of them will change for the worse.

Trust me, I'll be 38 in November and I went to a very affluent type school with a lot of very good looking people. A lot of the hottest girls got fat or just ugly pretty quick in the few years that followed graduation. Many never moved on and started local business with their simp husbands and their daddy's money.

 

[dryy]

Hard to escape certain things in the brain the way people remember you before. A lot of them will change for the worse.

Trust me, I'll be 38 in November and I went to a very affluent type school with a lot of very good looking people. A lot of the hottest girls got fat or just ugly pretty quick in the few years that followed graduation. Many never moved on and started local business with their simp husbands and their daddy's money.

Yeah I guess I will not peak in high school seems kind of fun though

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Yeah I guess I will not peak in high school seems kind of fun though

Highschool should be child's play when looking at your life. It really sucks for those who peaked in highschool.

Highschool was great for me. I was cool enough to hang out with anyone but I never really persued any girls or dated. However, as good as highschool was for me every year since has been more fun and joyful than the last.

I left it all behind for good in the fall of 2006. After my senior year of highschool left my hometown and lived in Tennessee, Texas, Wyoming, Mississippi and Florida by the end of 2007. Then between 2011 -2021 I lived in 15 different major cities in four different countries.

 

[dryy]

Highschool should be child's play when looking at your life. It really sucks for those who peaked in highschool.

Highschool was great for me. I was cool enough to hang out with anyone but I never really persued any girls or dated. However, as good as highschool was for me every year since has been more fun and joyful than the last.

I left it all behind for good in the fall of 2006. After my senior year of highschool left my hometown and lived in Tennessee, Texas, Wyoming, Mississippi and Florida by the end of 2007. Then between 2011 -2021 I lived in 15 different major cities in four different countries.

Should I ask a girl to hoco or will I regret it

 

[RealNinja]

I don’t deal with this because I’m authentic to a fault and can’t be fucked to fraud NT and play the social climbing game. My social circle is small but the people I hang out with genuinely like me as I am, they support me & I do the same in return. That’s the upside of being yourself.

The downside is that a lot of normies at my college dislike me and think I’m a weirdo. Facially I mog probably 95% of guys, or at least have a very striking face, so NTs feel a lot of cognitive dissonance when they interact with me. Which breeds discomfort and resentment.

So make your choice, you can either try to statusmaxx and gain a lot of fake/fragile friendships or you can be authentic and have a small circle.

 

[dryy]

I don’t deal with this because I’m authentic to a fault and can’t be fucked to fraud NT and play the social climbing game. My social circle is small but the people I hang out with genuinely like me as I am, they support me & I do the same in return. That’s the upside of being yourself.

The downside is that a lot of normies at my college dislike me and think I’m a weirdo. Facially I mog probably 95% of guys, or at least have a very striking face, so NTs feel a lot of cognitive dissonance when they interact with me. Which breeds discomfort and resentment.

So make your choice, you can either try to statusmaxx and gain a lot of fake/fragile friendships or you can be authentic and have a small circle.

I’m authentic and have a small circle but also mingle with other groups sometimes. But in these small groups there is no girls. Honestly in the big groups the only dudes there are are gay or the one group leader type glazed dude who has a gf. Pretty bad situation at my school

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Should I ask a girl to hoco or will I regret it

I don't know.