How to cope with having zero life skills

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Fixing myself will take like 5-10 years just to learn things a normal 14 year old male can do

Too long and I’ll realistically give up 3 months in LDAR for another year then start from scratch

@Banned User @Foreverbrad @LTNUser @kisslessvirgin @Jason Voorhees
 
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Adonis school will get you up to speed
 
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It’s over. I accept to rot at my parents for the rest of my life.

There is no point in trying to force myself to comply with societal norms, I’m just incapable. The compounding damage from my past is insurmountable socially and financially.

Chasing desperately at trying to achieve the expected “milestones” now will only lead to further ruin.
 
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It’s over. I accept to rot at my parents for the rest of my life.

There is no point in trying to force myself to comply with societal norms, I’m just incapable. The compounding damage from my past is insurmountable socially and financially.

Chasing desperately at trying to achieve the expected “milestones” now will only lead to further ruin.
Wise tbh and you’re already 30 something

I’m 23 and still procrastinating on milestones I should’ve passed a decade ago can’t say my life trajectory looks particularly good
 
Fixing myself will take like 5-10 years just to learn things a normal 14 year old male can do

Too long and I’ll realistically give up 3 months in LDAR for another year then start from scratch

@Banned User @Foreverbrad @LTNUser @kisslessvirgin @Jason Voorhees
get a fucking job bro holy shit you sound like a loser
 
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im sure you get used to it. personally im like mid inhib I struggle with social shit too
 
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maybe try some medication; in my personal experience it has not helped me, but plenty of people have felt better. also at 23 i think you should still try to make an effort, if you don't you will regret it even more in your 30s. worst case you fail and you are back to square one. at least attempt at trying to getting yourself out of this ditch.

ik its red pilled advice but there is nothing else I can think of that will help you in this scenario.
 
It’s over. I accept to rot at my parents for the rest of my life.

There is no point in trying to force myself to comply with societal norms, I’m just incapable. The compounding damage from my past is insurmountable socially and financially.

Chasing desperately at trying to achieve the expected “milestones” now will only lead to further ruin.
You can try to go at your own pace, I also have a really traumatic past and that's what I'm trying

Not to be some big shot politician, but just so I'm not NEETing for decades, the NEET life gets super depressing after a while
 

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