How to cope with NPD (Narcissism) attraction to BPD

[White_Bwoi]

I can't be fascinated by freaking NORMAL gUrl!
On the other hand I see it clearly, that I LOVE BPD (Borderline) batshit crazy women
And they love me back from the first sight...

Im pretty sure my longest relationship (for 8+ years JFL) was with hidden BPD,
Cycle of me pulling away, then she = desperate for love/validation. Kinda destructive for BPD & fuel for me tbh.

*Not "diagnosed", but to some degree it's true I guesss with this NPD shieeet

 

[White_Bwoi]

Bump narcissistic niggers tell your tales

 

[Vantablack]

I can't be fascinated by freaking NORMAL gUrl!
On the other hand I see it clearly, that I LOVE BPD (Borderline) batshit crazy women
And they love me back from the first sight...

Im pretty sure my longest relationship (for 8+ years JFL) was with hidden BPD,
Cycle of me pulling away, then she = desperate for love/validation. Kinda destructive for BPD & fuel for me tbh.

*Not "diagnosed", but to some degree it's true I guesss with this NPD shieeet

Bump narcissistic niggers tell your tales

jfl i love bpd women too, but they ruin your mental health. my first ever girlfriend was a diagnosed bpd and we were on/off for more than 5 years. so much drama, cheating (mostly from me), jealousy. i got slapped a couple of times but never hit her. god the sex was good though. we used to fuck like rabbits anywhere and everywhere

im not diagnosed but i suspect i have npd. defintely have several narcisstic traits. i love the control i have over bpd women. they basically let me do anything. its toxic as hell and im trying to improve, but the 2 women that made me feel anything have both been bpd

 

[White_Bwoi]

jfl i love bpd women too, but they ruin your mental health. my first ever girlfriend was a diagnosed bpd and we were on/off for more than 5 years. so much drama, cheating (mostly from me), jealousy. i got slapped a couple of times but never hit her. god the sex was good though. we used to fuck like rabbits anywhere and everywhere

im not diagnosed but i suspect i have npd. defintely have several narcisstic traits. i love the control i have over bpd women. they basically let me do anything. its toxic as hell and im trying to improve, but the 2 women that made me feel anything have both been bpd

Cool story bro!
Seriously "The 2 women that made me feel anything have both been bpd" hits hard...

I don't know if they are always actual BPD, but they have to be ND to some point, bipolar & stuff
Normal/plain is almost disgusting to me (not if it's a NT htb that want's me, not gonna happen that often...)

Need to watch "Piano teacher" by M.Haneke, there is supposedly some real BPD shit going on:

 

[White_Bwoi]

They giving you admiration you crave as a narc
you don't give a shit about them like a normie & you're not easily destroyed in the process
they're so afraid of being dumped (childhood trauma & lack of love) that the cycle is near perfect
I wonder if the couple like this undergo serious treatment / therapy, their relationship would dissolve due to lack of drama