How to detect a cope

[Lonenely sigma]

As a general rule, you have to understand that people never make fun of their actual insecurities.

By extension, if people willingly describe themselves as something, its usually just a coping mechanism trying to prevent them from seeing the actual situation.

To give you an example, people will describe themselves as fat, they will describe themselves as "not being muh NT", as "being lazy" (as opposed to being stupid) etc.

You will never see someone IRL make fun of his height or sub5 looks. You will never see someone make fun of his deformed facial bones, recessed cheekbones or whatever.

For the MOST part (not 100% but I'd say 97%), people here who say "I am just autistic around women" are facially sub5. They are perfectly normal mentally, they simply act weird bc they know they'd get rejected based on their looks

 

[The Grinch]

Bro: "I‘m autistic around women, i‘m non NT, that’s why i can’t get pussy“

Also bro:

 

[fuxkdakikez]

let us cope in peace man

 

[Vermilioncore]

I always tell others the ugly truth about me. I let girls know I have a small dick and I’m short and ugly and have no talent and ugly rotting teeth. oopsie daisy

 

[Lonenely sigma]

let us cope in peace man

I wish I could ruin 100% of my copes, like Rehab did.

He is the messiah of blacpill, leaving nothing but pure nihilism behind

 

[Dominicoon]

Judgement is on a subconscious level

 

[fluoride1337]

As a general rule, you have to understand that people never make fun of their actual insecurities.

By extension, if people willingly describe themselves as something, its usually just a coping mechanism trying to prevent them from seeing the actual situation.

To give you an example, people will describe themselves as fat, they will describe themselves as "not being muh NT", as "being lazy" (as opposed to being stupid) etc.

You will never see someone IRL make fun of his height or sub5 looks. You will never see someone make fun of his deformed facial bones, recessed cheekbones or whatever.

For the MOST part (not 100% but I'd say 97%), people here who say "I am just autistic around women" are facially sub5. They are perfectly normal mentally, they simply act weird bc they know they'd get rejected based on their looks

I think this applies to normies for sure. As for as users here though, a lot of people think that having a subpar interpupilary distance is the reason why stacies aren't cold approaching them at the grocery store

 

[Lonenely sigma]

I think this applies to normies for sure. As for as users here though, a lot of people think that having a subpar interpupilary distance is the reason why stacies aren't cold approaching them at the grocery store

Sorry but I don't buy the idea that a person of an average iq can fall for smt like that, despite getting positive signs from women he interacts with.


Most of those people get NOTHING. If you have a minor flaw but get hit on by women you won't think you are an incel lmfao

 

[fluoride1337]

Sorry but I don't buy the idea that a person of an average iq can fall for smt like that, despite getting positive signs from women he interacts with.


Most of those people get NOTHING. If you have a minor flaw but get hit on by women you won't think you are an incel lmfao

I think you are misunderstanding my point here. From what I've noticed, a lot of people here say it's an obscure failo that makes them unsuccessful with women, rather than something more obvious like their behavior. MTNs that could easily get laid get rated LTN/sub5 by dahlits on here and it reinforces their belief even further.

Some of these guys even do decent with women but still consider themselves fakecels or unattractive because of irrational ideas they have about HTN/chad's life.

Some people here genuinely believe that if they ascended to cl+, stacies would start cold approaching them in public. That must be what happens to chad, right? Because they project their personality onto chad even though he is NT 90% of the time and approaches the women he wants

 

[Lonenely sigma]

I think you are misunderstanding my point here. From what I've noticed, a lot of people here say it's an obscure failo that makes them unsuccessful with women, rather than something more obvious like their behavior. MTNs that could easily get laid get rated LTN/sub5 by dahlits on here and it reinforces their belief even further.

Some of these guys even do decent with women but still consider themselves fakecels or unattractive because of irrational ideas they have about HTN/chad's life.

Some people here genuinely believe that if they ascended to cl+, stacies would start cold approaching them in public. That must be what happens to chad, right? Because they project their personality onto chad even though he is NT 90% of the time and approaches the women he wants

Just being able to fuck a woman once every 4 year doesn't make you a slayer. You are still bordeline an incel.


Being NT doesn't matter as much as people pretend. Just like looks matter because they signal either healthy (aka. superior) or unhealthy (aka. inferior) genes, so does being "neurotypical" only matter to the point where it signals a genetic trait.


A person with schizophrenia or extreme autism is going to lose some (limited) chances with women bc those illnesess are genetic.


But being "awkward around women" is not a genetic trait; its a RESULT of being ugly and rejected by women your whole life. The fact chads aren't introverted is bc they get sucked off whenever they do anything.


All those users who say "I am soo scared of women, thats why I have no gf" ARE COPING. They are just too ugly to have one, and because of that they subconsciously learned that talking to women = getting emotionally hurt

 

[fluoride1337]

Just being able to fuck a woman once every 4 year doesn't make you a slayer. You are still bordeline an incel.


Being NT doesn't matter as much as people pretend. Just like looks matter because they signal either healthy (aka. superior) or unhealthy (aka. inferior) genes, so does being "neurotypical" only matter to the point where it signals a genetic trait.


A person with schizophrenia or extreme autism is going to lose some (limited) chances with women bc those illnesess are genetic.


But being "awkward around women" is not a genetic trait; its a RESULT of being ugly and rejected by women your whole life. The fact chads aren't introverted is bc they get sucked off whenever they do anything.


All those users who say "I am soo scared of women, thats why I have no gf" ARE COPING. They are just too ugly to have one, and because of that they subconsciously learned that talking to women = getting emotionally hurt

Once again, I'm not disagreeing with you, but what you said mostly applies to normies.

After all, they are the ones who say "looks don't matter broo, I know a 5'2" balding indian janitor who has threesomes with stacies every night because he's funny"

Meanwhile, the people here are blackpilled and much more likely to analyze their looks and identify failos, to the extent where it starts hurting them and the 10% of attraction that is determined by personality gets ruined. If you don't believe me just look at when someone posts screenshots of their texts to a foid, it's almost always dripping with insecurity or some kind of subtle blackpill references that turn off foids.