how to fit in with a group and seem cool ?

[Deleted member 340251]

Last night I was at a party and, as usual, I had the same feeling as every time, that I didn't belong and that everyone noticed that I was just a plant pot in the middle of the party. I don't understand why I can't seem interesting and sociable. I asked one of my best friends what he thought of me from an outside perspective, and he told me that I seem withdrawn and jaded. I'm tired of always having to pretend that I like this kind of environment when I feel suffocated every time. Girls never understand why I speak so little and why I never take an interest in conversations. Socializationpill can be so brutal. thanks for reading this, as i reread this text, I feel like a huge cornball, but that's really how I feel.

 

[LukaKhang]

Last night I was at a party and, as usual, I had the same feeling as every time, that I didn't belong and that everyone noticed that I was just a plant pot in the middle of the party. I don't understand why I can't seem interesting and sociable. I asked one of my best friends what he thought of me from an outside perspective, and he told me that I seem withdrawn and jaded. I'm tired of always having to pretend that I like this kind of environment when I feel suffocated every time. Girls never understand why I speak so little and why I never take an interest in conversations. Socializationpill can be so brutal. thanks for reading this, as i reread this text, I feel like a huge cornball, but that's really how I feel.

DANCEPILL

 

[nobodylovesme]

Get really drunk and make connections that way. It'll be easier to talk to them next time when you're more sober.

But yeah, if you lack the social impulse it's quite hard unless you know almost everyone in the party tbh. I have this too and I just talk to the people I know, I really don't care about the others. But yeah, exposing yourself to little uncomfortable things will make it easier the next time, so just asking a couple of questions or striking a conversations with someone there will help you in the long run. It doesn't have to go perfectly, and most likely won't