How to fix social anxiety?

[tall0ner]

Feel like that’s been holding me back in terms of women/career/friends. Give me some good suggestions/solutions (other than a rope). Been looking into phenibut

 

[BotchedByTaban]

Can't be done with drugs because 1. You can't be on drugs all the time and 2. You'll seem off to everyone who knows you

You have to accept the possibility of Ls coming your way if/when you stop acting like an abused dog

 

[swt]

Realize that nothing you do matters, the world will keep spinning no matter what’s done in it

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Be good looking

 

[tall0ner]

Be good looking

I used to think this way, but it’s pure cope. I’m 6ft5 and decently GL enough for this not to be a problem. I get being ugly is a social hinderance, but being above average wont cure social anxiety (speaking from experience)

 

[tall0ner]

Can't be done with drugs because 1. You can't be on drugs all the time and 2. You'll seem off to everyone who knows you

You have to accept the possibility of Ls coming your way if/when you stop acting like an abused dog

Bru ur saying it like you can just “stop acting” like an abused dog it’s a culmination of years of negative conditioning and reinforcement. Make it make sense.

 

[Frame is Law]

newslfash you cant,i tried and failed,im 6;1 mtn and bone mog near every1 but im too off in person i cant get a secound date i gave up lol,non nt is insta detected by normies

 

[BotchedByTaban]

Realize that nothing you do matters, the world will keep spinning no matter what’s done in it

Jump off the building then

 

[swt]

Jump off the building then

Why would I do such? How would that benifit me

 

[tall0ner]

newslfash you cant,i tried and failed,im 6;1 mtn and bone mog near every1 but im too off in person i cant get a secound date i gave up lol,non nt is insta detected by normies

This has happened to me like 3 times. Are u gl?

 

[Frame is Law]

This has happened to me like 3 times. Are u gl?

yes objectivle htn irl including my height and frame/12 percent body fat but with mtn face and non nt i cant do anything worth it

 

[BotchedByTaban]

Why would I do such? How would that benifit me

Jesus christ

I m saying what you said is garbage and you dont even believe it yourself

Everything you do matters because it affects your well being/quality of life. Assuming op meant it as in how to approach girls without fear, what's even the point of approaching them if you think love/sex dont matter in the first place

> iq
> parrotting platitudes

Pick one

 

[swt]

Jesus christ

I m saying what you said is garbage and you dont even believe it yourself

Everything you do matters because it affects your well being/quality of life. Assuming op meant it as in how to approach girls without fear, what's even the point of approaching them if you think love/sex dont matter in the first place

> iq
> parrotting platitudes

Pick one

why are you overthinking such simple statement? What I said was directed towards what he said in caption ‘women/career/friends’. I didn’t tell him to go around not caring about a thing and doing whatever the fuck

I was just basically telling him to grow some balls, not overthink because the world will keep going and people don’t care as much as he thinks, and get past his social fears

You wanna mention IQ and fail to take such a simple statement into the obvious context it was put in, jfl.

 

[Crusile]

I used to think this way, but it’s pure cope. I’m 6ft5 and decently GL enough for this not to be a problem. I get being ugly is a social hinderance, but being above average wont cure social anxiety (speaking from experience)

SSRIs are very effective for social anxiety. that is your answer

 

[tall0ner]

SSRIs are very effective for social anxiety. that is your answer

Will look into it, thank u bro

 

[Suns9999]

yes objectivle htn irl including my height and frame/12 percent body fat but with mtn face and non nt i cant do anything worth it

skill issue with those stats, waste of potential. go jump off the golden state bridge

 

[fr0st]

Feel like that’s been holding me back in terms of women/career/friends. Give me some good suggestions/solutions (other than a rope). Been looking into phenibut

just watch a bunch of standup and try to mimic what they do works for me. unless you're autistic or sub5 all you need to be is a little funny. another method is just pretending you're better than everyone around you it sounds stupid but it works.

 

[Crusile]

skill issue with those stats, waste of potential. go jump off the golden state bridge

you are retarded, being tall increases social anxiety because its awkward looking down on people all the time and you feel intimidating. Also you dont know what its like to be good looking and to get objectified 24/7. People stare at you and act weird its actually uncomfortable.

 

[tall0ner]

skill issue with those stats, waste of potential. go jump off the golden state bridge

I understand @Frame is Law to a large extent, I'm 6 5 htn and in the same boat. U dont understand how much childhood affects behaviors. muh wasted talent. Formative experiences determine success MORE than looks

 

[Crusile]

OP 6'5 is not an NT height lol most tall guys are high inhibition "gentle giants". If i could choose to be taller than my perfectly NT height (5'10) I would not

 

[iblameallofthem]

Feel like that’s been holding me back in terms of women/career/friends. Give me some good suggestions/solutions (other than a rope). Been looking into phenibut

I genuinely believe foids can detect nd in a matter of seconds when talking to someone most if not all the foids I’ve gotten close with have at one point told me they could kind of tell I was neurodivergent, I have an unofficial diagnosis from a professional and was told I’m not too high on the spectrum, even that is almost instantly recognisable by foids. I don’t think there’s anything neurodivergents can do to cover up that, the only way for a foid to overlook that is if you absolutely mog them

 

[tall0ner]

OP 6'5 is not an NT height lol most tall guys are high inhibition "gentle giants". If i could choose to be taller than my perfectly NT height (5'10) I would not

There is no shot you're rationalizing 5'10" compared to 6 5 as the perfect height JFL

 

[tall0ner]

I genuinely believe foids can detect nd in a matter of seconds when talking to someone most if not all the foids I’ve gotten close with have at one point told me they could kind of tell I was neurodivergent, I have an unofficial diagnosis from a professional and was told I’m not too high on the spectrum, even that is almost instantly recognisable by foids. I don’t think there’s anything neurodivergents can do to cover up that, the only way for a foid to overlook that is if you absolutely mog them

I've never been diagnosed as ND, I don't think I'm autistic js abused dog due to earlier childhood years. If I am ND it's mild

 

[Crusile]

There is no shot you're rationalizing 5'10" compared to 6 5 as the perfect height JFL

I would personally feel so uncomfortable being 6'5. thats just how i feel.

 

[Frame is Law]

I would personally feel so uncomfortable being 6'5. thats just how i feel.

is this rage bait? so you feel safe when 4/5 guys in the west are your height if not way taller

 

[Suns9999]

you are retarded, being tall increases social anxiety because its awkward looking down on people all the time and you feel intimidating. Also you dont know what its like to be good looking and to get objectified 24/7. People stare at you and act weird its actually uncomfortable.

I understand @Frame is Law to a large extent, I'm 6 5 htn and in the same boat. U dont understand how much childhood affects behaviors. muh wasted talent. Formative experiences determine success MORE than looks

the fact that you guys genuinely feel handicapped with your face and height is making me cage lmao both of y’all niggas need your femurs busted with deadly assault weapons and acid poured on your faces

 

[tall0ner]

the fact that you guys genuinely feel handicapped with your face and height is making me cage lmao both of y’all niggas need your femurs busted with deadly assault weapons and acid poured on your faces

Nigga I don't feel handicapped with my face nor height are u stupid, that's not the point.

 

[Frame is Law]

the fact that you guys genuinely feel handicapped with your face and height is making me cage lmao both of y’all niggas need your femurs busted with deadly assault weapons and acid poured on your faces

6'1 in europe is nothing nigga and i said that combined with barely above average face+bad social anxiety means my life is over,nt is needed irl,any manerisms that look off are decected in secounds and it will make you look mentally ill if ppl say it to you or not

 

[Crusile]

is this rage bait? so you feel safe when 4/5 guys in the west are your height if not way taller

No i just feel more comfortable being a more NT human height. I am afraid of social situations not physical confrontations

 

[User28823]

beta blocker + gaba + dopamine + testosterone + stable estrogen

 

[Crusile]

the fact that you guys genuinely feel handicapped with your face and height is making me cage lmao both of y’all niggas need your femurs busted with deadly assault weapons and acid poured on your faces

Im just saying that looks is power at a cost. I would not rather be ugly but there are indeed upsides and downsides. Good looking women are notoriously mentally ill from being sexually harassed all their life

 

[Frame is Law]

No i just feel more comfortable being a more NT human height. I am afraid of social situations not physical confrontations

yeah 5-10-6-1 is nt and probs ideal. i feel like at 6'5 you will be somewhat of a target to physical altercation despite looking like more of a threat,i aggre tho i am way more scared of social interaction then fighting

 

[HighLtn]

Feel like that’s been holding me back in terms of women/career/friends. Give me some good suggestions/solutions (other than a rope). Been looking into phenibut

Man up or pop a xan pussyboy

 

[Suns9999]

6'1 in europe is nothing nigga and i said that combined with barely above average face+bad social anxiety means my life is over,nt is needed irl,any manerisms that look off are decected in secounds and it will make you look mentally ill if ppl say it to you or not

Im just saying that looks is power at a cost. I would not rather be ugly but there are indeed upsides and downsides. Good looking women are notoriously mentally ill from being sexually harassed all their life

Nigga I don't feel handicapped with my face nor height are u stupid, that's not the point.

yeah yeah yeah whatever go fuck yourself volcel

 

[tall0ner]

yeah yeah yeah whatever go fuck yourself volcel

Try to empathize with the fact that I want to blow my brains out sometimes. I am HHV 20 years old b/c of sociability. I hate talking to others because I feel as if I'm being scrutinized.

 

[Suns9999]

Try to empathize with the fact that I want to blow my brains out sometimes. I am HHV 20 years old b/c of sociability. I hate talking to others because I feel as if I'm being scrutinized.

you need to empathize with a shotgun to your mouth already you fucking schizo ass nigga

 

[tall0ner]

you need to empathize with a shotgun to your mouth already you fucking schizo ass nigga

True tbh