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- Don’t complain about not having one all the time. It doesn’t make you look like a guy a girl would want to date. Seeing guys complain about not having one all the time just puts me off personally. Just accept you don’t have a girlfriend at the moment but understand that you’ll find someone one day.
- Respect girls even if you aren’t attracted to them. Don’t talk about how they’re ugly because they’re flat or they don’t have any curves. Seeing a guy talk about or treat a girl like that is one of the biggest turn offs ever. (i’m talking about a lot the guys in my class here)
- Become friends with a girl first. The closer you are to her, the more likely she is to start to like you. Honestly, asking a girl out you don’t know very well or just asking for her number or something doesn’t really work. In my opinion, I’d never date a guy I wasn’t friends with first. That’s just me though.
- Girls aren’t any different than you. Talk to them like normal people, because thats just what they are. Talking to a girl shouldn’t be scary or nerve-wracking unless you’re talking to some mean bitchy girl (even I get scared doing that). If you’re talking to the right girls you shouldnt be afraid.
- Be funny. Honestly, that’s the biggest reason i’d like a guy. Looks aren’t really that important as long as I can have a good conversation with a guy. If he makes me laugh so hard I snort, then i’m falling in love on the spot. Try to find a girl you have similar humor to. That’ll make everything easier.
- You should have a a general plan for your future no matter how old you are. Know what careers you’d like and what colleges you’d like to go to. Having your future planned out is a really good thing and it’ll make girls see you as a better person. Most guys I know don’t have a plan and it’s really sad.
- Take care of yourself. Taking care of yourself mentally and physically is so important. Use deodorant, study and aim for A’s and B’s. Maybe go on walk once or twice a week. Wash your face and body everyday. A guy that looks like he takes care of himself is so attractive.
