How to get girls? (genuinely)

[jallrd]

Outside of the incel viewpoint I know that my looks are a bit above average and I have a lot to offer but don’t have any success with girls. Do I just need to put myself out there more (go in public settings and approach, snap more, post on ig) or what?

 

[playxiing]

if girls dont come to u then youre not attractive sorry but give up

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

Outside of the incel viewpoint I know that my looks are a bit above average and I have a lot to offer but don’t have any success with girls. Do I just need to put myself out there more (go in public settings and approach, snap more, post on ig) or what?

Yeah bro, just put yourself out there.

 

[ineonx]

Outside of the incel viewpoint I know that my looks are a bit above average and I have a lot to offer but don’t have any success with girls. Do I just need to put myself out there more (go in public settings and approach, snap more, post on ig) or what?

Putting out yourself? Jfl simping If a girl is interested in you she will approach, if she doesn't it leave it at that

 

[totallynottrueadam]

Alot of these incels think you have to look like chico for the slightest bit of female attention which just isn't true. Don't overthink things, be confident and know what your worth(don't just give up immediately, and if this doesn't work then try geomaxxing)

 

[coldviking1]

Looks are not everything. Of course they play a big role, but you could be a fucking chad but have 0 social skills and the 5/10 super nice dude will get more poon than you.

Think of it like the movie good will hunting. Instead of reading hella books and having 0 real world experience, you might be 10/10 but know nothing when it comes to being social and being comfortable around girls.

There’s a bunch of self-help books that can teach you ways to be more confident, or claim to atleast. But it all depends on you taking action. Good things i recommend is getting out of the comfort zone, baby steps. Expose yourself to certain situations, and try to act like you would in your head. Also quit watching porn if you do, it seriously messes with your head, and can make you super uneasy around girls. They can smell your sexual degeneracy.

Girls also hate a “yes man”. Don’t be a simp. Actually have genuine conversations, and make sure to listen a lot. Don’t compromise your beliefs or opinions to fit hers, it shows you’re desperate. Also don’t give away every info on your life. People will tell you to “act mysterious”, but bro, you are not some sort of anime protagonist. What they mean is to not tell everything about your life. It keeps them guessing, which keeps you in their mind. Also don’t act like you’re “obsessed” with them, it’s a turnoff for most girls. A lot of girls like “the chase” (again referring to not compromising beliefs or telling them about every aspect of your life). Have hobbies, do things that makes you happy. Don’t be a stale ass motherfucker who does nothing in their freetime except spewing racist shit on a circlejerk forum to try and be cool.

Also, if you don’t like to cold approach, try and get some female friends. They will have other friends you can get to know in social hang-outs or parties or whatever. You can forever expand your social circle and meet people in a more relaxed way.

Hope this helps. Remember everything doesn’t revolve around “getting girls”. What matters is that you strive to become better everyday, that you are satisfied with what you do in life, and that you can be proud of yourself. It’s so much easier to like someone that actually likes themselves.

 

[Leo1]

Outside of the incel viewpoint I know that my looks are a bit above average and I have a lot to offer but don’t have any success with girls. Do I just need to put myself out there more (go in public settings and approach, snap more, post on ig) or what?

You have to look better

 

[Lefor3Laser]

if girls dont come to u then youre not attractive sorry but give up

It's not always that, just see if she gives you sign aka invitation.

 

[playxiing]

It's not always that, just see if she gives you sign aka invitation.

maybe but strong ones