How to get more friends

[MammothActuary]

I'm in college right now living in my dorm and I'm lonely. How do you make friends in college? I suck at small talk so how do I get better at that?

 

[Deleted member 1813]

idk if an aspie forum is the best place to ask
BUT there is a guy that offers some decent tips on yt IMO

Charisma on Command

Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basi...

www.youtube.com

 

[deathtochad]

Maybe stop masturbating to Sean OPee's photos because I think your roommates noticed your poster of him was covered in sperm

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Join clubs with people who have the same interests as you. Talk to people in class, meet people in the school gym while getting someone to spot you, go to fraternity parties, hang in the lounge, join study groups, be a part of school activities, get a part time job in the library as a student worker, be a part of your schools culture, join a frat, just put yourself out there man

 

[MammothActuary]

Join clubs with people who have the same interests as you. Talk to people in class, meet people in the school gym while getting someone to spot you, go to fraternity parties, hang in the lounge, join study groups, be a part of school activities, get a part time job in the library as a student worker, be a part of your schools culture, join a frat, just put yourself out there man

What do I talk to people about. It always seems like I'm thinking about what next to say to avoid awkard silences.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Act like a low inhib bad boy

 

[Peachy]

Join clubs with people who have the same interests as you. Talk to people in class, meet people in the school gym while getting someone to spot you, go to fraternity parties, hang in the lounge, join study groups, be a part of school activities, get a part time job in the library as a student worker, be a part of your schools culture, join a frat, just put yourself out there man

Bluepilled normie advice

 

[MammothActuary]

Bluepilled normie advice

I'm just talking about male friends. Not girlfriends

 

[Peachy]

I'm just talking about male friends. Not girlfriends

What I noticed about "clicking" with other dudes is that you have to be the same personality type. As much as you may thing that MBTI is bullshit, it actually makes a lot of sense when trying to make male friends.

 

[deathtochad]

I'm just talking about male friends. Not girlfriends

Why would you want to talk to other men unless you a fag boi go lick some titties

 

[MammothActuary]

What I noticed about "clicking" with other dudes is that you have to be the same personality type. As much as you may thing that MBTI is bullshit, it actually makes a lot of sense when trying to make male friends.

How do I talk to them? Like I struggle with small talk.

 

[Peachy]

How do I talk to them? Like I struggle with small talk.

Know your true self. In my case, I know that I'm a shallow narcy cunt who thinks highly of himself, so I just have to act like a shallow narcy cunt who thinks highly of himself and I'll attract the same kind of people.

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Bluepilled normie advice
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How do I talk to them? Like I struggle with small talk.

you need to get out of your bubble and socialize more ignore anything peachy is saying he’s just some black pilled weirdo in his basement I had social Anxiety and overcame it you can to if it’s not chronic

Literally go and just talk to random people daily like a cashier and get a job socializing with as many people as possible like a retail job it’ll make you start to not care about talking to strangers and slowly you’ll get out of your shell

 

[MammothActuary]

What do you usually talk to people about?

 

[Deleted member 2810]

What do you usually talk to people about?

You have no chance at making friends

 

[Deleted member 2581]

What do you usually talk to people about?

Literally anything that’s not wierd? Just find common ground with people that you guys share that’s why I’m saying join a club of your interests or use meetup you’ll meet a ton of people with similar interests who you can talk to

 

[Vitruvian]

did u do frosh? otherwise over

 

[Titbot]

Gym

 

[nattycel]

Just extend your hand and say hi bro

 

[DidntRead]

no friends for your face

 

[WhiskeyCocaine]

Drug and Alcohol Maxx is your only way

If you have money buy a lot of weed and start looking for burnouts in your college

 

[Looksmaxer-van-NL]

I'm in college right now living in my dorm and I'm lonely. How do you make friends in college? I suck at small talk so how do I get better at that?

accept you're an introvert and learn to be alone

 

[x30001]

idk if an aspie forum is the best place to ask
BUT there is a guy that offers some decent tips on yt IMO

Charisma on Command

Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basi...

www.youtube.com

Yeah this is the perfect guy to ask XD XD XD XD XD XD XD XD XD

edit: thought the YT channel was the ginger guy who talks about alphas/betas. my bad

I'm in college right now living in my dorm and I'm lonely. How do you make friends in college? I suck at small talk so how do I get better at that?

1. "Get up in the morning first thing". "No more snooze buttons on your alarms!" Today you're gonna be a boss!
2. Look in the mirror and say "I'm awesome" 10 reps 5 sets. 20 seconds rest time.
3. Initiate a shower and wash your hair until it's sleek and span.
4. Put on your most badass clothes. Leather jacket will make you stand out like a bad boy.
5. Use public transport and talk to everyone. Be low inhib and play music out loud from your phone. Some Nickelback is perfect.
6. Ditch the headphones!!
7. Get to the college.
8. Remember to keep good posture and a smile on your face!
9. Be confident because today you're a boss!
10. Just go up to her and say Hi.

 

[MammothActuary]

Yeah this is the perfect guy to ask XD XD XD XD XD XD XD XD XD

edit: thought the YT channel was the ginger guy who talks about alphas/betas. my bad

1. "Get up in the morning first thing". "No more snooze buttons on your alarms!" Today you're gonna be a boss!
2. Look in the mirror and say "I'm awesome" 10 reps 5 sets. 20 seconds rest time.
3. Initiate a shower and wash your hair until it's sleek and span.
4. Put on your most badass clothes. Leather jacket will make you stand out like a bad boy.
5. Use public transport and talk to everyone. Be low inhib and play music out loud from your phone. Some Nickelback is perfect.
6. Ditch the headphones!!
7. Get to the college.
8. Remember to keep good posture and a smile on your face!
9. Be confident because today you're a boss!
10. Just go up to her and say Hi.

I'm not talking about females. I'm talking about male friends

 

[Lihito]

I'm in college right now living in my dorm and I'm lonely. How do you make friends in college? I suck at small talk so how do I get better at that?

Just join a cucked Reddit MBTI group and make friends there with bluepiller Like me. Oh boy do they love blackpilling AHHAAHHAHAHHHA