How to get over negative feedbacke in real life.

[Deleted member 10699]

I'm sick of all. I'm a 3.5 PSL man and I'm already kind of almost fullt softmaxxed (skincare, clothes, posture, etc.). My last softmaxx is going to cut to 12% bodyfat.

I get called ugly by girls (behind my back) and in my face a lot. I even got called ugly by friends indirectly, and I feel like shit always. I refuse to get a bimax (even though that I need it) because of its price (but if the insurance covers it, I'll get it).

My goal is not to get girls to like me, but to ignore me.
Is looksmaxxing worth for that, or should I try to practice some copes that could make me feel better about myself?

I feel that, since I'm autistic and ugly, no one cares about me and want to talk to me, and preffer to judge me and call me ugly for my looks and autistic behaviour. Will my life be better after I hit 4 PSL?

My main goal, now, is to not be ugly anymore. Then develop a confidence with the lack of negative and positive feedback. I don't care about looks, I just want this to stop.

At the end, I'll try to get a lip lift if getting to 4 PSL doesn't stop people from calling me ugly. Either that, or accepting my uglyness and stop caring, which seems impossible to me.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Are there any kind of way to cope?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Is looksmaxxing worth if my goal is looking average?

 

[Deleted member 9699]

You're not ugly tbh
I don't believe people actually call you ugly behind your back that often. You look like an average guy I'd see on the street IRL, and the average guy is not worth calling ugly. You're just on here a lot and it's getting to your head.

To girls, ugly = anything that isn't a Chadlite at least tbh

 

[Deleted member 10699]

You're not ugly tbh
I don't believe people actually call you ugly behind your back that often. You look like an average guy I'd see on the street IRL, and the average guy is not worth calling ugly. You're just on here a lot and it's getting to your head.

To girls, ugly = anything that isn't a Chadlite at least tbh

I'm autistic, too, so I act insecure and scared in real life. I've called ugly since I was 17. I have a genetical double chin and some back issues. I'll try to get to 12% bodyfat, and if that doesn't make me to be attractive, I'll get a lip lift.

 

[Deleted member 6723]

bro get help jfl at similar threads

 

[Deleted member 10699]

bro get help jfl at similar threads

I'm going to therapy but I'm obsessed over my looks. I can't stop thinking about the negative feedback I've been receiving through years, and if I can ascend with work and stop it, I'll do It.

If I was given the option of stop caring about negative feedback and looks, but I have to give my arm to get It (like an exchange), I'd do it.

 

[( ( ( d[-_-]b ) ) )]

how to get over negative feedback on eBay’s me

 

[Deleted member 10699]

how to get over negative feedback on eBay’s me

I'm a piece of shit right now. I'm wallowing in self pity.

 

[( ( ( d[-_-]b ) ) )]

I'm a piece of shit right now. I'm wallowing in self pity.

Just let it out bro it’s ok to cry. You’ll be ok man

 

[Deleted member 4612]

op you can always rope to be honest.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I'm a piece of shit right now. I'm wallowing in self pity.

damn this place attracts mentalcels like hooker moths to a flame

 

[Deleted member 9699]

damn this place attracts mentalcels like hooker moths to a flame

you're kinda throwing stones from a glass house bro

 

[Deleted member 4612]

you're kinda throwing stones from a glass house bro

elab

 

[BrettyBoy]

Then women wonder why misogyny exists.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

op you can always rope to be honest.

I want to wait for my parents to die first.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Then women wonder why misogyny exists.

I'm not a misogynyst. I dislike people, in general. I just wish that we'll all face an acid rain, so we can go blind.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Just let it out bro it’s ok to cry. You’ll be ok man

I won't.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I want to wait for my parents to die first.

this one always cracks me up

the shitheads who brought you into this world and didnt raise you properly to be happy, you want to not rope because of them?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

this one always cracks me up

the shitheads who brought you into this world and didnt raise you properly to be happy, you want to not rope because of them?

If I kill myself they'd die. They have told me that. I don't want to kill them. They raised my properly. I'm like this because of the negative feedback and bullying.

 

[( ( ( d[-_-]b ) ) )]

I won't.

You will bro I promise

 

[Deleted member 4612]

If I kill myself they'd die. They have told me that. I don't want to kill them. They raised my properly. I'm like this because of the negative feedback and bullying.

they raised you "properly"?

lmao cope

 

[Deleted member 10699]

You will bro I promise

When I stop caring about this. Then, I'll be happy.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

they raised you "properly"?

lmao cope

They did. I'm autistic. I have had a lot of therapies since I was a kid.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

They did. I'm autistic. I have had a lot of therapies since I was a kid.

therapy lol

and yet you're still on this forum of mentally ill losers

i guess that therapy did you good right?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

therapy lol

and yet you're still on this forum of mentally ill losers

i guess that therapy did you good right?

Well, YOU have the post here: https://looksmax.org/threads/for-those-who-say-that-therapy-is-cope.273022/. I'm here because of that therapy. Almost 10 years to be here. I'm 20 but I should've got 5 more years.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Well, YOU have the post here: https://looksmax.org/threads/for-those-who-say-that-therapy-is-cope.273022/. I'm here because of that therapy. Almost 10 years to be here.

"you"

i didnt post in that thread i just checked

 

[Deleted member 10699]

"you"

i didnt post in that thread i just checked

I wasn't trying to say that. YOU have that thread to see that therapy did right.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I wasn't trying to say that. YOU have that thread to see that therapy did right.

i see

who knows what is right. living miserably or being dead.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Therapy is cope

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Meditate

 

[Deleted member 9699]

Try injecting T maybe it'll make you feel better srs

 

[BrettyBoy]

I'm not a misogynyst. I dislike people, in general. I just wish that we'll all face an acid rain, so we can go blind.

Society can fuck off.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Lefort is the best cute for this

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Lefort is the best cute for this

Lefort?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Meditate

I'm planning to do that everyday.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

i see

who knows what is right. living miserably or being dead.

I don't know.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I don't know.

me neither. some questions are very complex.

 

[Deleted member 10042]

What country are u in the girls are harsh you are not ugly bro

Ur not 3.5psl either your at least 4-4.5psl bro

 

[Deleted member 10699]

What country are u in the girls are harsh you are not ugly bro

Ur not 3.5psl either your at least 4-4.5psl bro

Spain.

 

[Deleted member 10042]

Spain.

Makes sense theres plenty chadlites/chads there im half spainsh
My uncle is an andulsian chad
And the jbs there are so horny and slutty

 

[Deleted member 275]

I used to feel bad over negative feedback like you OP.

Now I am dead inside and don't care/feel about anything anymore.

Idk if that's an improvement though but I guess that's an option.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Makes sense theres plenty chadlites/chads there im half spainsh
My uncle is an andulsian chad
And the jbs there are so horny and slutty

Nah, most people are normie/HTN. I'm andalusian, too.

 

[Deleted member 10042]

Nah, most people are normie/HTN. I'm andalusian, too.

When i go to algeciras i see many chads
And stacies so idk

 

[Deleted member 10042]

Nah, most people are normie/HTN. I'm andalusian, too.

Thats y u look a bit north african and Sicilian

 

[Deleted member 10699]

When i go to algeciras i see many chads
And stacies so idk

Idk, I don't give a fuck about looks. I started to care when I was first called ugly.

 

[Deleted member 10042]

Idk, I don't give a fuck about looks. I started to care when I was first called ugly.

Are u a khhv?
Was it a becky that called u ugly they tend to be insecure themselve
I use to not give a fuck as well but being called ugly was a motivator to finding put why

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Are u a khhv?
Was it a becky that called u ugly they tend to be insecure themselve
I use to not give a fuck as well but being called ugly was a motivator to finding put why

It was an average girl. But I've been called ugly behind my back a lot. Even some friends have called me ugly by mistake.

 

[Deleted member 10042]

It was an average girl. But I've been called ugly behind my back a lot. Even some friends have called me ugly by mistake.

Surgerymaxx or forget about foids and delude urself at least u arent deformed

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Are u a khhv?
Was it a becky that called u ugly they tend to be insecure themselve
I use to not give a fuck as well but being called ugly was a motivator to finding put why

Yes, I'm a KHHV. I've had many opportunities to be not a kissless virgin, but I'm insecure, so even if a girl gives me hints, I don't know what to do. Even my mother told me that I'll need to be approached by a girl to have a girlfriend because of my shyness. I can't even speak to her about the negative feedback/anxiety attacks/suicidal thoughts.