how to go from LDAR to actually getting shit done for once in your life?

[DNRDniggerking]

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[hypernormie]

This is so interesting to me. I’ve never had a problem with motivation and it’s sounds so incredibly strange to me when people say they have no drive to accomplish things.

I have so much desire to accomplish things it’s insane, it’s like an obsessive focus bordering on manic.

If you lack that inherent drive best I can do is tell you what motivates me the most externally is the idea that I will miss out on certain pleasures in life or experience the pain of getting mogged by someone superior.

There’s too many things I want to experience to be lazy, and too many moggers walking around who will rub their superiority in your face. I can’t stand getting mogged and the only buffer against the pain of getting mogged is the knowledge that you tried your best.

If I’m ever feeling lazy, those two thoughts will automatically nip that in the bud.

Maybe read “The Six Pillars of Self Esteem” by Nathaniel Branden. A big part of of motivation is high self esteeem. When you have high self esteem you feel deserving of a lot and when you get less than you feel you deserve, high self esteem motivates you to correct that discrepancy.

 

[DNRDniggerking]

This is so interesting to me. I’ve never had a problem with motivation and it’s sounds so incredibly strange to me when people say they have no drive to accomplish things.

I have so much desire to accomplish things it’s insane, it’s like an obsessive focus bordering on manic.

If you lack that inherent drive best I can do is tell you what motivates me the most externally is the idea that I will miss out on certain pleasures in life or experience the pain of getting mogged by someone superior.

There’s too many things I want to experience to be lazy, and too many moggers walking around who will rub their superiority in your face. I can’t stand getting mogged and the only buffer against the pain of getting mogged is the knowledge that you tried your best.

If I’m ever feeling lazy, those two thoughts will automatically nip that in the bud.

Maybe read “The Six Pillars of Self Esteem” by Nathaniel Branden. A big part of of motivation is high self esteeem. When you have high self esteem you feel deserving of a lot and when you get less than you feel you deserve, high self esteem motivates you to correct that discrepancy.

jfl man. the reasons you mentioned make me wanna rot even harder, my self esteem is raped. brutal. thanks tho and will check the book out

 

[hypernormie]

jfl man. the reasons you mentioned make me wanna rot even harder, my self esteem is raped. brutal. thanks tho and will check the book out

I mean yeah, that’s the tough part. Life can really grind you down. Unless you are gonna rope though i don’t see the point in giving up. If you insist on staying on this planet and rotting you’re going to suffer regardless, so at the very least you can do your best to reduce the amount of it you have to endure. Yes this will entail suffering but like I said, you’re going to suffer regardless.

 

[nofap]

This is so interesting to me. I’ve never had a problem with motivation and it’s sounds so incredibly strange to me when people say they have no drive to accomplish things.

I have so much desire to accomplish things it’s insane, it’s like an obsessive focus bordering on manic.

If you lack that inherent drive best I can do is tell you what motivates me the most externally is the idea that I will miss out on certain pleasures in life or experience the pain of getting mogged by someone superior.

There’s too many things I want to experience to be lazy, and too many moggers walking around who will rub their superiority in your face. I can’t stand getting mogged and the only buffer against the pain of getting mogged is the knowledge that you tried your best.

If I’m ever feeling lazy, those two thoughts will automatically nip that in the bud.

Maybe read “The Six Pillars of Self Esteem” by Nathaniel Branden. A big part of of motivation is high self esteeem. When you have high self esteem you feel deserving of a lot and when you get less than you feel you deserve, high self esteem motivates you to correct that discrepancy.

Have you never felt unmotivated or being without discipline?

To me it’s almost normal to be never motivated have 0 discipline. My ambition is handicapped by my laziness since 10 and I don’t know how to change it

 

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[esoterik]

This is so interesting to me. I’ve never had a problem with motivation and it’s sounds so incredibly strange to me when people say they have no drive to accomplish things.

I have so much desire to accomplish things it’s insane, it’s like an obsessive focus bordering on manic.

If you lack that inherent drive best I can do is tell you what motivates me the most externally is the idea that I will miss out on certain pleasures in life or experience the pain of getting mogged by someone superior.

There’s too many things I want to experience to be lazy, and too many moggers walking around who will rub their superiority in your face. I can’t stand getting mogged and the only buffer against the pain of getting mogged is the knowledge that you tried your best.

If I’m ever feeling lazy, those two thoughts will automatically nip that in the bud.

Maybe read “The Six Pillars of Self Esteem” by Nathaniel Branden. A big part of of motivation is high self esteeem. When you have high self esteem you feel deserving of a lot and when you get less than you feel you deserve, high self esteem motivates you to correct that discrepancy.

you sound more bluepilled than redditors on r/amiugly

 

[forevergymcelling]

This is so interesting to me. I’ve never had a problem with motivation and it’s sounds so incredibly strange to me when people say they have no drive to accomplish things.

I have so much desire to accomplish things it’s insane, it’s like an obsessive focus bordering on manic.

If you lack that inherent drive best I can do is tell you what motivates me the most externally is the idea that I will miss out on certain pleasures in life or experience the pain of getting mogged by someone superior.

There’s too many things I want to experience to be lazy, and too many moggers walking around who will rub their superiority in your face. I can’t stand getting mogged and the only buffer against the pain of getting mogged is the knowledge that you tried your best.

If I’m ever feeling lazy, those two thoughts will automatically nip that in the bud.

Maybe read “The Six Pillars of Self Esteem” by Nathaniel Branden. A big part of of motivation is high self esteeem. When you have high self esteem you feel deserving of a lot and when you get less than you feel you deserve, high self esteem motivates you to correct that discrepancy.

What are you working on now?

 

[hypernormie]

Have you never felt unmotivated or being without discipline?

To me it’s almost normal to be never motivated have 0 discipline. My ambition is handicapped by my laziness since 10 and I don’t know how to change it

No literally never. Even as a kid I was filled with energy and always had hobbies and projects I was working on.

The feeling of wanting to do something but succumbing to laziness feels very cucked to me and that feeling of being cucked by my own laziness or bitching out because something is tough is very aversive and generally speaking causes me more psychological pain than whatever pain I would endure forcing myself to do what I know I need to do.

I don’t know what it’s like to be lazy really, obviously I know what it’s like to lack willpower like not want to go to the gym or something but I can always make myself go, in fact I can make myself do pretty much anything regardless of how I feel. I don’t know what it’s like to want to do something but procrastinate for a significant amount of time but obviously I’ve procrastinated before but I would say I do it far less than the average person.

The things I want pull me so strongly that I wake up energized and excited to tackle life and bring them to fruition.

The thing is I have burnt out on multiple occasions, Which I would say is the flip side problem you run into with this kind of temperament. I run the risk of pushing myself way too hard and have in the past.

 

[hypernormie]

you sound more bluepilled than redditors on r/amiugly

What’s bluepilled about anything I’ve said?

I’ve accomplished a lot of the things I wanted to accomplish in my youth, unfortunately I’m suffering from a significant health impairment right now which interferes with my ability to pursue my goals, which is why i’m spending any time on this ungodly site but the second I am healthy again I plan on going on to accomplish much more

if not being a lazy incompetent loser is “bluepilled” then so be it

 

[hypernormie]

What are you working on now?

Nothing. I’m disabled now, I had a bad health situation happen three years ago and have been rotting ever since.

It’s why I use the site. I got cucked.

Yet even with my life going to complete shit for something outside of my control, I still feel highly motivated and optimistic. The biggest issue I face now is simply being unable to do all the things I want to do. I can’t lift weights, I can’t read really, I can’t socialize the way I used to, etc.

However my disability isn’t a spinal fracture or anything, so I’m not completely down for the count. I have some nuanced musculoskeletal issue localized in my neck that doctors are having a hard time figuring out but it seems to be gradually getting better with physical therapy and time so I remain hopeful.

If anything this situation has shown me the importance of genetics and temperament because even though my life has been turned upside down I more or less feel unaffected by it emotionally. I’m mostly just pissed at being forced to waste time.

 

[esoterik]

What’s bluepilled about anything I’ve said?

I’ve accomplished a lot of the things I wanted to accomplish in my youth, unfortunately I’m suffering from a significant health impairment right now which interferes with my ability to pursue my goals, which is why i’m spending any time on this ungodly site but the second I am healthy again I plan on going on to accomplish much more

if not being a lazy incompetent loser is “bluepilled” then so be it

its the same motto as

"rich people get ozempic, poor people get body positivity"

in your case

"rich people get adderall, poor people dopamine detox"

most people cant do that because 80% of the time its a serotonin floor issue rather than "getting up and going!"

 

[hypernormie]

its the same motto as

"rich people get ozempic, poor people get body positivity"

in your case

"rich people get adderall, poor people dopamine detox"

most people cant do that because 80% of the time its a serotonin floor issue rather than "getting up and going!"

Well yeah I assume it’s genetic. I don’t think I’m highly motivated because of some personal quality of mine. I’m probably very dopaminergic compared to the average person, and have tons of willpower for reasons beyond my control, but you also never know for sure what your limits are so before you assume them it’s best to test them.

OP may never be as motivated as me but if he is asking for advice on how to change and he obviously isn’t content with how he is, he can probably make some progress somewhere.

 

[esoterik]

Well yeah I assume it’s genetic. I don’t think I’m highly motivated because of some personal quality of mine. I’m probably very dopaminergic compared to the average person, and have tons of willpower for reasons beyond my control, but you also never know for sure what your limits are so before you assume them it’s best to test them.

OP may never be as motivated as me but if he is asking for advice on how to change and he obviously isn’t content with how he is, he can probably make some progress somewhere.

most of the time if the person has tried to atleast attempt to fix their situation and it failed then there needs to be medical intervention, as soon as you show a lack of propametic then there is no point in spending your life doing dumb productivity changes

address the fundamental principle, dont play pretend and act like doing x productivity tip is going to fix anything

 

[DNRDniggerking]

most of the time if the person has tried to atleast attempt to fix their situation and it failed then there needs to be medical intervention, as soon as you show a lack of propametic then there is no point in spending your life doing dumb productivity changes

address the fundamental principle, dont play pretend and act like doing x productivity tip is going to fix anything

why is earth so shitty? why do I have to start taking all sorts of shit just to be a normal human

 

[esoterik]

why is earth so shitty? why do I have to start taking all sorts of shit just to be a normal human

because you were born weaker than people