How to increase appeal and actually attract girls?

[ManfraPsycho]

I'm 19 and living alone in a foreign country. I never had a girlfriend or even a girl with whom I had any connection, but I'M NOT GAY! Now living by myself, I feel like having a girlfriend would be cool to fulfill my loneliness; however, I have no experience with that. I wish I could simply attract girls by my looks since thats how it goes for my "avarage" friends, but apparently thats not what works for me even though I'm objectively "attractive." I will live a picture of my face at my current 17% bf, I wonder if I fall into the "uncanny valley" concept. Please, if there is anyone who has had a similar situation and can give me tips for increasing my appeal or any other useful stuff for attracting or getting to approach girls, I would appreciate that!
Im already on a strict plan for losing bodyfat.
I know it sounds a bit like self-victimism, but I really have no idea what to do and nobody who I know to help me on that.

 

[Sanemaxx]

If your 6ft+ HTN go to clubs. works well, but not for LTRs.
Maybe datingapps is also an option.
In which country do you live btw, maybe i can give you a more detailed advice, based on your location.

 

[ascension124]

Gym + shoe lifts + tan + tats + haircut/fashion

 

[NordicLeonhard]

Friends of friends if you want to actually know someone who isnt a slut

 

[Bugmaxxed]

but I'M NOT GAY!

Cope

 

[Deleted member 88030]

Cope

like nobody said anything
he was responding to the demon

 

[ManfraPsycho]

If your 6ft+ HTN go to clubs. works well, but not for LTRs.
Maybe datingapps is also an option.
In which country do you live btw, maybe i can give you a more detailed advice, based on your location.

Austria

 

[Sanemaxx]

Austria

Yeah its pretty hard there. I live in Germany, so its pretty much the same.
I looked up your rating and you got about the same as me. i also lack appeal, but have very good bonestructure and bonemass overall like you.
What im doing is i try to maximize health indicators, this brings appeal up a lot. That’s pretty much all softmaxxwise.

 

[ManfraPsycho]

Yeah its pretty hard there. I live in Germany, so its pretty much the same.
I looked up your rating and you got about the same as me. i also lack appeal, but have very good bonestructure and bonemass overall like you.
What im doing is i try to maximize health indicators, this brings appeal up a lot. That’s pretty much all softmaxxwise.

Yeah thanks, im overall focusing on my physique rn. I think learning social skills and about seduction is also good.

 

[GreekGenes]

ok, so here is my optimised looksmaxxing formula for max appeal (doesnt include hardmaxxing cause that varies from face to face)

1. get down to 12-15% body fat while building a good amount of muscle mass. Focus on shoulders, neck and arms -> 2. take care of any and all hair loss with minox/dermarolling/finasteride/dutasteride -> 3. get rid of any skin conditions like acne or severe rosacea by using tretinoin, accutane or soolantra -> 4. start wearing lifts in your shoes esp. if you're sub 5'10 -> 5. if you have a narrow lower third grow a dense but not too long stubble to cosmetically "enhance" your lower third -> 6. take care of any mental blockades/cuck behaviour. Learn to be lower inhib by constantly pushing your comfort zone in social interactions and conditioning yourself to be act less cucked.

 

[Sean o' Tist]

Go with femboys

 

[ManfraPsycho]

I'm 19 and living alone in a foreign country. I never had a girlfriend or even a girl with whom I had any connection, but I'M NOT GAY! Now living by myself, I feel like having a girlfriend would be cool to fulfill my loneliness; however, I have no experience with that. I wish I could simply attract girls by my looks since thats how it goes for my "avarage" friends, but apparently thats not what works for me even though I'm objectively "attractive." I will live a picture of my face at my current 17% bf, I wonder if I fall into the "uncanny valley" concept. Please, if there is anyone who has had a similar situation and can give me tips for increasing my appeal or any other useful stuff for attracting or getting to approach girls, I would appreciate that!
Im already on a strict plan for losing bodyfat.
I know it sounds a bit like self-victimism, but I really have no idea what to do and nobody who I know to help me on that.

I'm 19 and living alone in a foreign country. I never had a girlfriend or even a girl with whom I had any connection, but I'M NOT GAY! Now living by myself, I feel like having a girlfriend would be cool to fulfill my loneliness; however, I have no experience with that. I wish I could simply attract girls by my looks since thats how it goes for my "avarage" friends, but apparently thats not what works for me even though I'm objectively "attractive." I will live a picture of my face at my current 17% bf, I wonder if I fall into the "uncanny valley" concept. Please, if there is anyone who has had a similar situation and can give me tips for increasing my appeal or any other useful stuff for attracting or getting to approach girls, I would appreciate that!
Im already on a strict plan for losing bodyfat.
I know it sounds a bit like self-victimism, but I really have no idea what to do and nobody who I know to help me on that.