How to keep a girl interested?

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2 days ago I asked a girl for her number, and she gave it to me. She seemed really interested, and we’ve been texting a lot the last few days.

We have some things in common, and things are going pretty good (I think), I just don’t know what to do. I’ve run out of generic small talk questions (fav movie, hobbies, school, etc.) and idk what to do. She doesn’t really start any conversations

Any ideas on what’s the next step? I’ve never made it this far
 
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Idk I've never talked to a girl
 
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2 days ago I asked a girl for her number, and she gave it to me. She seemed really interested, and we’ve been texting a lot the last few days.

We have some things in common, and things are going pretty good (I think), I just don’t know what to do. I’ve run out of generic small talk questions (fav movie, hobbies, school, etc.) and idk what to do. She doesn’t really start any conversations

Any ideas on what’s the next step? I’ve never made it this far
you need to hangout with her asap based on her response or the way she acts if yall do you can tell from there
 
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bro go out with her
 
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be chad
 
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Do you think it needs to be like food n stuff or can we js hangout?
it really depends on what she likes you've spoke to her so what she likes do with her
 
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Be good looking
 
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2 days ago I asked a girl for her number, and she gave it to me. She seemed really interested, and we’ve been texting a lot the last few days.

We have some things in common, and things are going pretty good (I think), I just don’t know what to do. I’ve run out of generic small talk questions (fav movie, hobbies, school, etc.) and idk what to do. She doesn’t really start any conversations

Any ideas on what’s the next step? I’ve never made it this far
Speaking to women is mind numbing, tbh the key is to stretch a topic out over a span of several hours or days depending on the depth of the context or else you risk running into this problem.

Women aren't intellectual beings so having any real meaningful conversations outside of surface tier normie shit is all they're capable of.
 
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I am just telling random bullshit what happened to me today/recently
 
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Look good thats it retard
 
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Sex
 
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take her on a date or sum and js talk about anything, if u're hot enough as long as u dont talk bout incel shit u should be fine
 
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Beg her for sex
 
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2 days ago I asked a girl for her number, and she gave it to me. She seemed really interested, and we’ve been texting a lot the last few days.

We have some things in common, and things are going pretty good (I think), I just don’t know what to do. I’ve run out of generic small talk questions (fav movie, hobbies, school, etc.) and idk what to do. She doesn’t really start any conversations

Any ideas on what’s the next step? I’ve never made it this far

you can try to keep the convo personalize

like human and especially girls really love to talk about personal things (like her nails, her hair,...) things that shows her dedication, characteristic and revolves around her

so you should question her about those things but dont be a creep then you can likely to lengthen the convo while improving its qualityy

like don't say "ohh you smell like a good hot cheetos i just wanna eat you😍😍"

you can paraphrase it like "you smell so nicee..! you must've taken good care of yourself right?"
-like an follow up question is always necessary when you wanna lengthen the convo (or prevent things like "oh thanks a lot" then dead silence).
after it she'd talk ab herself and you can go w the flow or smth

if she said:"its my bc of my mom laundry skill" or smth that's not relate to her then you should bring the topic back to her ( example:eek:h..then you should have a caring mom arent you?-then she's prob talk ab her mom then you can bring the topic from smell to family to smth smth) that way you wont be out of ideas to chat

remember to add your opinion too so it doesnt looks like you are trying to get her personal info like a weird fbi stalker. (like talking ab your experience of that topic, u can make it up but dont let it sound too ridiculous.) it is the best to ask ppl their opinion so they can express themself so you know more ab her

dont listen to anyone tells you to be toxic alpha male andrew tate shit or it'd probably ruin your rela if she's a normal person XD XD

if you already got her contact then you r 80% good looking enough for her sooo yeah, if you thinking about hanging out then don't textt her ab those things, texting must be a tool for planning and scheduling what time you guys meet (if you guys can hang out regularly ofc)

hope this could help and wish you have a good relationship xd
 
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2 days ago I asked a girl for her number, and she gave it to me. She seemed really interested, and we’ve been texting a lot the last few days.

We have some things in common, and things are going pretty good (I think), I just don’t know what to do. I’ve run out of generic small talk questions (fav movie, hobbies, school, etc.) and idk what to do. She doesn’t really start any conversations

Any ideas on what’s the next step? I’ve never made it this far
You're doing good so far,I wish I had the confidence to ask someone out.i know it's kind of cringe but all I can say is be yourself.
 
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just dick her down, not that hard.
 
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You're doing good so far,I wish I had the confidence to ask someone out.i know it's kind of cringe but all I can say is be yourself.
I was super nervous asking her, definitely wasn’t easy, you can do it too, I believe in you gng

you can try to keep the convo personalize

like human and especially girls really love to talk about personal things (like her nails, her hair,...) things that shows her dedication, characteristic and revolves around her

so you should question her about those things but dont be a creep then you can likely to lengthen the convo while improving its qualityy

like don't say "ohh you smell like a good hot cheetos i just wanna eat you😍😍"

you can paraphrase it like "you smell so nicee..! you must've taken good care of yourself right?"
-like an follow up question is always necessary when you wanna lengthen the convo (or prevent things like "oh thanks a lot" then dead silence).
after it she'd talk ab herself and you can go w the flow or smth

if she said:"its my bc of my mom laundry skill" or smth that's not relate to her then you should bring the topic back to her ( example:eek:h..then you should have a caring mom arent you?-then she's prob talk ab her mom then you can bring the topic from smell to family to smth smth) that way you wont be out of ideas to chat

remember to add your opinion too so it doesnt looks like you are trying to get her personal info like a weird fbi stalker. (like talking ab your experience of that topic, u can make it up but dont let it sound too ridiculous.) it is the best to ask ppl their opinion so they can express themself so you know more ab her

dont listen to anyone tells you to be toxic alpha male andrew tate shit or it'd probably ruin your rela if she's a normal person XD XD

if you already got her contact then you r 80% good looking enough for her sooo yeah, if you thinking about hanging out then don't textt her ab those things, texting must be a tool for planning and scheduling what time you guys meet (if you guys can hang out regularly ofc)

hope this could help and wish you have a good relationship xd
Yeah this really helps tysm bhai

I’m not joking btw
Idk how to get sex gng, we’ve only talked face to face 1 time
 
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Speaking to women is mind numbing, tbh the key is to stretch a topic out over a span of several hours or days depending on the depth of the context or else you risk running into this problem.

Women aren't intellectual beings so having any real meaningful conversations outside of surface tier normie shit is all they're capable of.
it makes sense now
 
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at the mall might talk to some foids
 
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You're asking the right group of people
 
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nigga really said hobbies tell her come at your place have sex
 
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Trust your instincts, compliment her and don't think about her too much
 
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She seems boring :Awkward:
When we do talk she’s very engaging though, not like I need to carry conversations. Also idrc if she really is boring bc she’s bad asf I’m trying to smash :aheago::aheago:
 
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