FailedNormieManlet
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My method of making friends in the gym is firstly I keep shit natural. I don't go out of my way to find people to talk to, I came to workout and workout is what I'll do.
Secondly when it comes to befriending/trying to social circlemaxx it's a war of attrition, don't expect much from your first interaction, don't even aim to get her number lmao.
Now with those background details taken care of. I use these magic words "can I jump in a set with you?" I've made a stupid amount of friends like this - dead serious. Most people will be happy to let you jump in the set. So say you're doing squats and it's their turn. Start taking your weights off and helping them, when you take the weights off ask them "how much?" it'll force them to take their headphones/earphones out. From there on you need to make your move and start asking stuff like how long they've been working out and other general fitness stuff like their goals and whatnot. Make sure to introduce yourself too.
That's day 1. Don't bother pushing anything further like asking their number unless they are super into you and having long af convos.
Day 2/2nd meeting, say hi to them and start talking again. By now you will be sort of familiar and they'll be less wary of you.
As the interaction goes on you can catch a vibe from them, they'll eventually like you and from there ask for their snapchat (if u wanna be friends) or their number if ur tryna fuck. But I don't think I have to state the obvious, but if you're trying to fuck keep your interactions flirty and light hearted - if you don't have autism you'll be able to tell if they
like you or not.
Now why this method works is pretty simple really.
1. Exposure effect
2. status halo (if you are ripped in the gym, there is legit status halo)
3. Women actually enjoy this shit, they think this shit is "fate" and all this other bullshit.
Now only flirt at the gym if you're ripped, if you aren't ripped and a DYEL. Don't even bother.
I've made plenty of friends at the gym through this "war of attrition" method, heck when I was 19, I made friends with one of the big guys at the gym and I saw him on a night out and we were both sniffing lines of coke in the bathroom together jfl.
The war of attrition method is a method you will have to use if you seriously want to make friends. Normies won't hang out with someone they met once, nor will normies like people that are try hard and speak too much upon first meeting - you'll be seen as needy.
Secondly when it comes to befriending/trying to social circlemaxx it's a war of attrition, don't expect much from your first interaction, don't even aim to get her number lmao.
Now with those background details taken care of. I use these magic words "can I jump in a set with you?" I've made a stupid amount of friends like this - dead serious. Most people will be happy to let you jump in the set. So say you're doing squats and it's their turn. Start taking your weights off and helping them, when you take the weights off ask them "how much?" it'll force them to take their headphones/earphones out. From there on you need to make your move and start asking stuff like how long they've been working out and other general fitness stuff like their goals and whatnot. Make sure to introduce yourself too.
That's day 1. Don't bother pushing anything further like asking their number unless they are super into you and having long af convos.
Day 2/2nd meeting, say hi to them and start talking again. By now you will be sort of familiar and they'll be less wary of you.
As the interaction goes on you can catch a vibe from them, they'll eventually like you and from there ask for their snapchat (if u wanna be friends) or their number if ur tryna fuck. But I don't think I have to state the obvious, but if you're trying to fuck keep your interactions flirty and light hearted - if you don't have autism you'll be able to tell if they
like you or not.
Now why this method works is pretty simple really.
1. Exposure effect
2. status halo (if you are ripped in the gym, there is legit status halo)
3. Women actually enjoy this shit, they think this shit is "fate" and all this other bullshit.
Now only flirt at the gym if you're ripped, if you aren't ripped and a DYEL. Don't even bother.
I've made plenty of friends at the gym through this "war of attrition" method, heck when I was 19, I made friends with one of the big guys at the gym and I saw him on a night out and we were both sniffing lines of coke in the bathroom together jfl.
The war of attrition method is a method you will have to use if you seriously want to make friends. Normies won't hang out with someone they met once, nor will normies like people that are try hard and speak too much upon first meeting - you'll be seen as needy.
