yeah but hows that gonna help in finding friends
WHAT is that avi
Ascend
fuck off
but i dont wanna be alone all the time
Approach people, smile, join sports, quick add girls on snap, go out in public, use any current connections to create new ones, be Htn+
last one is impossible
Who says you will? It's likely but not certain, so what if you're alone? If you were pursuing something fulfilling you wouldn't give two shits about being alone because you would have created something authentically that fulfilled you instead of depending on external values because you lack none.
ive been alone the whole summer break and see all those insta storys from people on partys and i know what you wanna say but i just dont wanna be alone anymore
There's nothing you can do, you wouldn't care if you had a more fulfilling live so go and create, experience, express your raw nature.
what do you mean
so just rope cause it aint gonna get better ?
yeah you probably arent a retard and get made fun of for just existing
not having had a gf at 15 is not that crazy average 15 year old hasn’t had a real gf either
htn trying to relate to the sub human
i'm mtn if he is subhuman i get it but i've seen subhumans have friends so idk bro.htn trying to relate to the sub human
coming from someone who's ND and has a shit ton of friends just learn to fit in. i will say this though - like what you like and explore those interests but don't have it encapsulate your entire life, expand out and be social as possible. obviously dont be bellowing and loud or people will find you annoying but just talk to people, get to know them, it's kind of hard to explain because i've done it every day and really dont know the full process to it because most of the time i dont remember how i made the friends i did, but just work hard at it and youll do great
yeah it'd be possible even as subhuman if you’re nt but being a literal diagnosed autist isn’t ideal
but every time i talk to new people they always shut down and just want me to leave them alone i would do anything for friends earlyer i even gave them money to hang out with me but i realized that was dumb
Same over here
This really hurts to see. Not in a pitying way but the fact you have to give people money sucks. In that case, those are the wrong people to be around, where are you generally looking for your friends? A popular social circle within your school? Are you just kind of going around broadly looking for people within your school?
No, create and outgrow the need for friends because you have found something greater.
brutal world man
i tried everything i joined sport clubs ,changed classes cause i got beaten up by them and even that didnt do anything i got a few people there that i could talk to while in school but after school we never did anything and yeah i got this reputation as the weird stupid retard that everyone just trys to avoid and i always get made fun of no matter what i do or wear. i even got made fun of for wearing a hat cause it was cold or sunglasses in the sun. i feel like everyone just wanna see me leave them alone or they just want me to die last week a group of people said to me i should meet them at a spot and i went there and there they made fun of me and said what i thought that they really wanted to hang out with me and wished me dead i just wanna die rn
yeah but i dont even have the “normal people “ as friends
stop obsessing over friends man, follow whatever passions you have and they'll most likely just accompany you naturally
yeah but i know that wont happen cause noone new will come in my life
in your school probably not no since you've already got a reputation as an autist jfl
i know no normal guy has problems like that
yeah i also thought about moving to another land if i have money and are 21 but rn im 15 so i cant work cant move cant do anything
yeah you'll just have to focus on other shit and trying to look better ig (cope)
Find friends online first and get used to conversations with other people. Try and make a schedule to talk to an online friend for like a hour a day. After doing that for like a month try and make a real one. You could always use a small bit of alcohol to boost your confidence.
yeah my iq is around 125-130 but i cant use it cause my autism fucks it all up and i cant concentrate cause my adhd so its mostly useless unless you want me to name ever fucking block in minecraft and how to craft every item my brain uses it just for thoses thing where it doesnt matter but when it comes to school i cant even remember the teachers name
i can talk to people they just don’t want me near them
have you been prescribed any meds? surely you'd still be good at maths even with your adhd lmao
Dawg there will always be someone who wants to be friends w u.
i try since years but it just doesn’t work and im losing hope and strength in trying
yeah i got meds but if i take them they just make me act like young sheldon or good doctor without beeing smart
