How to not be boring around girls?

[shrek]

Yeah I know that if she’s attracted to you then you can be a loser/boring and get away with it. But even then it wouldn’t hurt to have a better personality etc.

So aside from improving your looks, how can you have a better personality and not be boring to girls? Personally I don’t do anything all day and never get invited to anything

 

[Deleted member 10524]

don't rot, it's that simple tbh unless you're just autistic and simply can't communicate

 

[Deleted member 8576]

study entertaining ppl and replicate them

 

[OOGABOOGA]

study entertaining ppl and replicate them

Be original

 

[Deleted member 6403]

study entertaining ppl and replicate them

Be original

XD

 

[shrek]

don't rot, it's that simple tbh unless you're just autistic and simply can't communicate

Yeah but none of my friends are NT, Idk anyone popular and there’s a lockdown. What can I do bro?

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Yeah but none of my friends are NT, Idk anyone popular and there’s a lockdown. What can I do bro?

start a few neurotypical hobbies

 

[shrek]

start a few neurotypical hobbies

Yeah but what? I’m age 20 btw

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Yeah but what? I’m age 20 btw

music, combat or regular sports, board riding (surfing/skateboarding/snowboarding)

all social and neurotypical

 

[TITUS]

If you are not NT, it's hard. Get into social situations, the trending topics, what normies do, the sports, jokes, practice talking with other people, etc.
The problem is that often times awkward people will signal their awkwardness even if they don't want to.

 

[zikzog]

Usually you're boring cause you don't have much to talk about. Have multiple hobbies, I found even though I had one big hobby it was kinda boring that's all I did so maybe have one main hobby but then have other hobbies on the side, works well if it's a sport for athletic maxing e.g. gym, football, etc.

 

[shrek]

Usually you're boring cause you don't have much to talk about. Have multiple hobbies, I found even though I had one big hobby it was kinda boring that's all I did so maybe have one main hobby but then have other hobbies on the side, works well if it's a sport for athletic maxing e.g. gym, football, etc.

I work out, I watch sports/netflix. Those are my hobbies. That’s not interesting to any girls

 

[zikzog]

I work out, I watch sports/netflix. Those are my hobbies. That’s not interesting to any girls

Then find more hobbies, working out can lead to some conversations like casually, netflix is great tbh cause if you talk about the big things that come out girls will be like "omg I saw that" n stuff. Sports is niche but works too. Maybe you just don't know how to keep casual light hearted conversations. I would also suggest maybe a creative hobby but if you aren't creative then maybe play a sport.

 

[shrek]

Then find more hobbies, working out can lead to some conversations like casually, netflix is great tbh cause if you talk about the big things that come out girls will be like "omg I saw that" n stuff. Sports is niche but works too. Maybe you just don't know how to keep casual light hearted conversations. I would also suggest maybe a creative hobby but if you aren't creative then maybe play a sport.

Yeah man that’s my issue. I don’t know how to keep casual light hearted conversations

 

[R@m@]

Tell jokes without laughing

 

[shrek]

Tell jokes without laughing

I don’t know any non racist or non dark humour jokes

 

[Deleted member 10524]

I work out, I watch sports/netflix. Those are my hobbies. That’s not interesting to any girls

Any hobby where you are just consuming is no hobby at all and doesn’t make you a more interesting person

I don’t know any non racist or non dark humour jokes

Tbh just download tiktok and make sure the algorithm doesn’t realize you’re autistic and you’ll quickly find what normies think is funny. Of course trying to replicate this won’t be easy but at least you won’t be clueless, if you are giga autistic there just isn’t a whole lot you can do about fitting in. But it sounds like you might just be a rotter

 

[R@m@]

I don’t know any non racist or non dark humour jokes

 

[shrek]

Any hobby where you are just consuming is no hobby at all and doesn’t make you a more interesting person

Tbh just download tiktok and make sure the algorithm doesn’t realize you’re autistic and you’ll quickly find what normies think is funny. Of course trying to replicate this won’t be easy but at least you won’t be clueless, if you are giga autistic there just isn’t a whole lot you can do about fitting in. But it sounds like you might just be a rotter

Is rotter just someone who sits at home all day?

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Dont rot and actually live like a normal human.

 

[zikzog]

Yeah man that’s my issue. I don’t know how to keep casual light hearted conversations

It's something that can come with practice, also the more attractive you are the easier it is so being presentable also helps.

 

[Matthias8272]

have a gl friend who mentioned he makes moves on girls so i asked him what moves, and he says he just puts his hands on her hips and doesn't talk

 

[Amexmaxx]

Jestermaxx bro

 

[shrek]

Dont rot and actually live like a normal human.

How do I do that?

 

[shrek]

have a gl friend who mentioned he makes moves on girls so i asked him what moves, and he says he just puts his hands on her hips and doesn't talk

Lol does that work?

 

[antiantifa]

Yeah man that’s my issue. I don’t know how to keep casual light hearted conversations

Then don't? There's no reason for you to actually chat to women.

 

[Growth Plate]

unzip your pants

 

[Growth Plate]

show them your dick

 

[Growth Plate]

spin your dick

 

[Growth Plate]

helicopter

 

[eyelidcel]

only beta males have casual conversations with women, If she's not coming to you, it's over.

 

[shrek]

Then don't? There's no reason for you to actually chat to women.

Well in the past when I socialized ppl have said shit to me like “wHy ArE yOu So QuIeT?” So I want to avoid that.

Plus if I go to a bar or a hang out at someone’s house and there are girls there I want to know how to talk to them

 

[shrek]

spin your dick

Low inhib dark triad chad

 

[antiantifa]

Well in the past when I socialized ppl have said shit to me like “wHy ArE yOu So QuIeT?” So I want to avoid that.

Plus if I go to a bar or a hang out at someone’s house and there are girls there I want to know how to talk to them

Talk to guys. As for girls, just do short talk, don't talk too long anyways.