How to NT-maxx?

[Deleted member 16262]

What even is NT? Does that mean to talk to women like a simp and laugh at normie jokes even though you don't find them funny?

Can someone explain how to act NT?

My logic is always that if a woman doesn't talk to me she doesn't want me, is NT-maxxing that I have to talk to a woman if I find her attractive?

 

[Deleted member 15698]

What even is NT? Does that mean to talk to women like a simp and laugh at normie jokes even though you don't find them funny?

Can someone explain how to act NT?

My logic is always that if a woman doesn't talk to me she doesn't want me, is NT-maxxing that I have to talk to a woman if I find her attractive?

Your logic is correct, if woman doesn't talk to you she doesn't like you

As for how to NT max, get off the internet except normie apps like IG. Stop talking to weird people. Make normal friends, do normal things

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Your logic is correct, if woman doesn't talk to you she doesn't like you

As for how to NT max, get off the internet except normie apps like IG. Stop talking to weird people. Make normal friends, do normal things

i dont IGmaxx because of statesurveillance; look at my pff I cant do normal things

 

[hebbewem]

Nt=neurotypical so not autistic

 

[Deleted member 15698]

i dont IGmaxx because of statesurveillance; look at my pff I cant do normal things

"How do I be normal"

"Sorry I can't be normal, also feds watching"

LOL

You guys crack me up fr

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Nt=neurotypical so not autistic

I know what neurotypical means how do I act neurotypical for women. Do I approach or do they approach me

 

[hebbewem]

I know what neurotypical means how do I act neurotypical for women. Do I approach or do they approach me

If women like you they will approach

 

[Deleted member 16262]

If women like you they will approach

Brutal I have never been approached. Any tips for me? I always get looks but never approached.

I just went out and two girls got nervous but didn't talk to me.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Brutal I have never been approached. Any tips for me? I always get looks but never approached.

I just went out and two girls got nervous but didn't talk to me.

Hard to say if it's because you're ugly or give weird vibes, since no pics

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Also could be that you can't read social cues so you don't know what a female "approach" is

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Hard to say if it's because you're ugly or give weird vibes, since no pics

No I'm good looking, I don't post my pics because of privacy reasons. I dress really well and look high class.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

No I'm good looking, I don't post my pics because of privacy reasons. I dress really well and look high class.

Well, if you are good looking, you either give weird vibes or don't realize when girls are giving you obvious cues

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Also could be that you can't read social cues so you don't know what a female "approach" is

True this most likely is it, they got nervous and started making stupid mistakes. Is that a sign or what? I thu=ought they were beign retarded.

 

[OnlyCameHereToSay]

If women like you they will approach

Legit. Approaching a woman in public especially is cringe AF. Work on looking good to the point where you'll catch one's interest.

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Well, if you are good looking, you either give weird vibes or don't realize when girls are giving you obvious cues

What is a "female approach" bro? How do they approach?

Whenever I see Chad getting approach they act like apes and throw themselves at them, how did you get approached by your girl.

 

[Deleted member 16262]

I'm non nt and I got approached by my oneitis but Im so non nt she thought I was pissing in a trash can in class and this medium ugly boy stole her from me

You're still in highschool bro it doesn't count

 

[vtribal]

getting off this site helps

 

[Deleted member 15698]

True this most likely is it, they got nervous and started making stupid mistakes. Is that a sign or what? I thu=ought they were beign retarded.

Nervous in what context? They were already talking to you? If so, yes likely that's a cue

If a girl talks to you in a situation where she doesn't have to, and doesn't have an obvious reason to do so, it's because she is attracted to you

For instance. I was at the gym and this girl came up to me, asked if she could ask me some questions for a college survey. I said sure and answered her questions. She said thank you, I said "let's grab a drink." I smashed a week or two later. Because I correctly understood that her making an excuse to talk to me=approach

It's usually not going to be as obvious as "wow you're cute can I get your number?"

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Nervous in what context? They were already talking to you? If so, yes likely that's a cue

If a girl talks to you in a situation where she doesn't have to, and doesn't have an obvious reason to do so, it's because she is attracted to you

For instance. I was at the gym and this girl came up to me, asked if she could ask me some questions for a college survey. I said sure and answered her questions. She said thank you, I said "let's grab a drink." I smashed a week or two later. Because I correctly understood that her making an excuse to talk to me=approach

It's usually not going to be as obvious as "wow you're cute can I get your number?"

Damn they wanted me. Next time I see them I'll ask for their numbers and have a threesome.

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Nervous in what context? They were already talking to you? If so, yes likely that's a cue

If a girl talks to you in a situation where she doesn't have to, and doesn't have an obvious reason to do so, it's because she is attracted to you

For instance. I was at the gym and this girl came up to me, asked if she could ask me some questions for a college survey. I said sure and answered her questions. She said thank you, I said "let's grab a drink." I smashed a week or two later. Because I correctly understood that her making an excuse to talk to me=approach

It's usually not going to be as obvious as "wow you're cute can I get your number?"

What if they start talking to each other to signal high status? Is that an approach too?

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Cope, my oneitis said that she wants to marry me and started holding my hand but I'm so non nt she thought I was pissing in a trash can in class and a medium ugly faggot stole her

Bro we've seen your face. Whatever you say doesn't count. @FloridaDude is white so he is the professor of this shit

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Cope, my oneitis said that she wants to marry me and started holding my hand but I'm so non nt she thought I was pissing in a trash can in class and a medium ugly faggot stole her

So she said something

But you didn't smash LOL so what does it matter?

 

[Deleted member 15698]

What if they start talking to each other to signal high status? Is that an approach too?

What do you mean by this

 

[Deleted member 16262]

What do you mean by this

They got nervous and started talking to each other to signal they were best friends and giggling. Does this count too? Keep in mine I'm mascmaxxed. So Maybe I intimidate some women.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

They got nervous and started talking to each other to signal they were best friends and giggling. Does this count too? Keep in mine I'm mascmaxxed. So Maybe I intimidate some women.

I think I'm not understanding the full story because you're not explaining it well lol. You're just telling me you saw two girls talking to each other. I don't even know where you fit in to that story

 

[Deleted member 16262]

It's over I'm non nt

You can work on it bro you're still in highschool it's not over yet. What is your ethnicity?

 

[Deleted member 16262]

I think I'm not understanding the full story because you're not explaining it well lol. You're just telling me you saw two girls talking to each other. I don't even know where you fit in to that story

It's simple. I showed up at a place. Two receptionists my age are there to help me. They see my outfit and my face and they immediately get nervous and a little red. They want to give me a card of the place but they fuck it up, because they are nervous which makes me think they are retarded, but maybe they are just attracted to me. Then they notice that they are making dumb ass mistakes so they start giggling to each other about how dumb they are. Instead of handing the card on the table she hands it in my hand and looks like she is in Freeze mode (fight, flight or freeze).

I frequent this place btw

 

[Deleted member 15698]

It's simple. I showed up at a place. Two receptionists my age are there to help me. They see my outfit and my face and they immediately get nervous and a little red. They want to give me a card of the place but they fuck it up, because they are nervous which makes me think they are retarded, but maybe they are just attracted to me. Then they notice that they are making dumb ass mistakes so they start giggling to each other about how dumb they are. Instead of handing the card on the table she hands it in my hand and looks like she is in Freeze mode (fight, flight or freeze).

I frequent this place btw

Hard to say. When I said "when females don't have an obvious reason to talk to you," this is a case where it's literally their job to talk to you. I'm not saying they weren't interested but can't say

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Hard to say. When I said "when females don't have an obvious reason to talk to you," this is a case where it's literally their job to talk to you. I'm not saying they weren't interested but can't say

Hmm true. I will go back tomorrow ask for number and report back if I get rejected or not.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Hmm true. I will go back tomorrow ask for number and report back if I get rejected or not.

You have to do it organically. If you just go there with your only purpose being getting her number, you risk giving weirdo vibes even if she was attracted to you. Because it sends the message that you wanted to earlier, but were too scared, but then ruminated about her for days and finally went there to ask, because it's a really big deal for you.

That is obviously a very bad message to send, so ask for it next time you're there already and she's talking to you. Better yet, never ask "for a number." Ask if she wants to go out. Then if she says yes you exchange numbers

 

[Deleted member 16262]

You have to do it organically. If you just go there with your only purpose being getting her number, you risk giving weirdo vibes even if she was attracted to you. Because it sends the message that you wanted to earlier, but were too scared, but then ruminated about her for days and finally went there to ask, because it's a really big deal for you.

That is obviously a very bad message to send, so ask for it next time you're there already and she's talking to you. Better yet, never ask "for a number." Ask if she wants to go out. Then if she says yes you exchange numbers

Nice but I don't like paying for dates because it makes me feel like betabuxx; how to cope?

 

[Gonthar]

Before approaching any women you should learn to be NT with other people, with your friends, classmates, co-workers, etc., including guys and girls, that means friendly, talkative, socially well adjusted, able to chit-chat about pretty much anything, etc.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Nice but I don't like paying for dates because it makes me feel like betabuxx; how to cope?

I didn't say the word date, and also in 2021 a date is anything. You don't have to spend money, I rarely do

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Before approaching any women you should learn to be NT with other people, with your friends, classmates, co-workers, etc., including guys and girls, that means friendly, talkative, socially well adjusted, able to chit-chat about pretty much anything, etc.

Yep

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Before approaching any women you should learn to be NT with other people, with your friends, classmates, co-workers, etc., including guys and girls, that means friendly, talkative, socially well adjusted, able to chit-chat about pretty much anything, etc.

Yeah I can hold convo. I think I just intimidate them a little so I will start a conversation next time I see them.

 

[Preoximerianas]

Your logic is correct, if woman doesn't talk to you she doesn't like you

As for how to NT max, get off the internet except normie apps like IG. Stop talking to weird people. Make normal friends, do normal things

But that goes against those classic threads of people posting about how girls try and talk to them/ask them out etc. only because to humiliate, bully, attack them.

But you mentioned queues later in the thread, any info on what they might be? Or just general cause i’ve had girls over the years give off vibes but I was always too much of a dense moron to pick it up until years later.

 

[Deleted member 16262]

I didn't say the word date, and also in 2021 a date is anything. You don't have to spend money, I rarely do

Based.

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Where have you seen my face? @roninmaxxer

you are a subhuman nigger you said so yourself

 

[Deleted member 15698]

But that goes against those classic threads of people posting about how girls try and talk to them/ask them out etc. only because to humiliate, bully, attack them.

But you mentioned queues later in the thread, any info on what they might be? Or just general cause i’ve had girls over the years give off vibes but I was always too much of a dense moron to pick it up until years later.

This is an extremely uncommon scenario, which only seems common because we're on a forum where some of the biggest weirdos and ugliest people concentrate.

& This is only a somewhat common thing in high school. Hopefully someone in that situation has the self awareness to realize they're being made fun of

For the vast majority of people, girls talking to you does not mean they're playing a mean trick on you. Most girls go to immense lengths to avoid conversation and eye contact with guys they don't like, because their whole life experience is being endlessly harassed by men they aren't interested in

 

[Deleted member 15698]

But that goes against those classic threads of people posting about how girls try and talk to them/ask them out etc. only because to humiliate, bully, attack them.

But you mentioned queues later in the thread, any info on what they might be? Or just general cause i’ve had girls over the years give off vibes but I was always too much of a dense moron to pick it up until years later.

I kinda already said m8. If a girl talks to you but she doesn't have to, or have an obvious reason to, it's a cue. Also a look and a smile from a random girl MAY be a cue. Etc. Feel free to drop stories and I'll give you my take

 

[Deleted member 16262]

I kinda already said m8. If a girl talks to you but she doesn't have to, or have an obvious reason to, it's a cue. Also a look and a smile from a random girl MAY be a cue. Etc. Feel free to drop stories and I'll give you my take

You are a legend.

Whenever a woman talks to me when she doesn't have to/it isn't neccesary my default robot response will be

1. answer question
2. "you look cure let me take you out sometime."

 

[Gad]

imo NTmaxing should be finding and fixing all of your mental disorders
being as mentally healhy as possible

 

[Deleted member 16262]

imo NTmaxing should be finding and fixing all of your mental disorders
being as mentally healhy as possible

I don't think I have mental disorders except misogyny.

 

[Gad]

I don't think I have mental disorders except misogyny.

if you dont have any, then the best you could do is to not blame yourself and think u need ntmaxxing

and ofc making life enjoyable so you can have abundant dopamine and function at your best

 

[Deleted member 15698]

You are a legend.

Whenever a woman talks to me when she doesn't have to/it isn't neccesary my default robot response will be

1. answer question
2. "you look cure let me take you out sometime."

Nice. Do it, worst she can say is no thank you, & you will have lost nothing

I'd drop the "you look cute" though, don't compliment girls

Also be patient while they react. Don't instantly cave if they don't instantly say yes. As to what I mean by that, I'll give more details about the gym story

I said "let's grab a drink." She didn't instantly say "yes ok!" Her eyes widened in surprised and she didn't say anything for a few seconds, and started nervously laughing. I just didn't say anything and waited for her response

At that point I could have caved and said something like "it's cool, no worries" or "if you want!" If I did that, 100% it's a no.

After a second though she said "I would like that, but unfortunately I do have a boyfriend." I smiled and said "a friendly drink then" and THEN she said ok

Point is, and it's basic people skills really, but sometimes interactions don't go as planned. When other people say something you don't know how to react to, pause and keep listening. Often they'll add something. Better than cutting them off to assume the rejection

 

[Cuervo]

This is an extremely uncommon scenario, which only seems common because we're on a forum where some of the biggest weirdos and ugliest people concentrate.

& This is only a somewhat common thing in high school. Hopefully someone in that situation has the self awareness to realize they're being made fun of

For the vast majority of people, girls talking to you does not mean they're playing a mean trick on you. Most girls go to immense lengths to avoid conversation and eye contact with guys they don't like, because their whole life experience is being endlessly harassed by men they aren't interested in

i agree. even my mom acknowledges this. "if girls didn't like you they wouldn't even make eye contact with you. girls are mean, they literally tell each other "don't look at him, don't look" whispering.

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Nice. Do it, worst she can say is no thank you, & you will have lost nothing

I'd drop the "you look cute" though, don't compliment girls

Also be patient while they react. Don't instantly cave if they don't instantly say yes. As to what I mean by that, I'll give more details about the gym story

I said "let's grab a drink." She didn't instantly say "yes ok!" Her eyes widened in surprised and she didn't say anything for a few seconds, and started nervously laughing. I just didn't say anything and waited for her response

At that point I could have caved and said something like "it's cool, no worries" or "if you want!" If I did that, 100% it's a no.

After a second though she said "I would like that, but unfortunately I do have a boyfriend." I smiled and said "a friendly drink then" and THEN she said ok

Point is, and it's basic people skills really, but sometimes interactions don't go as planned. When other people say something you don't know how to react to, pause and keep listening. Often they'll add something. Better than cutting them off to assume the rejection

did you smash on that occasion?

 

[Deleted member 15698]

did you smash on that occasion?

Yeah I'm still smashing on occasion

 

[Deleted member 16262]

Yeah I'm still smashing on occasion

when she has bf? this is just dogshit man. makes me lose hope in foids if they have absolutely no loyalty

 

[Deleted member 15698]

when she has bf? this is just dogshit man. makes me lose hope in foids if they have absolutely no loyalty

She didn't really have a boyfriend. She was seeing some other dude at the time, they were in that stage of seeing each other where you're not official yet but it's becoming implied/around the corner. She ghosted him when we started fucking

But yeah I've fucked a lot of girls with bfs. You should never have "faith" in loyalty. Women cheat, men cheat, only trust yourself, and your family if you're lucky enough to have a good one. Is what it is unfortunately, we can either be the cucker or the cucked