How To Overcome Feeling Unlucky ?

[randomvanish]

I'm not talking about looks.

I'm from a really unlucky family.
My family is broke, my mother had a really abusive mother so she's mentally unstable and unhappy now at the age of 60,
my father left us and don't want to see us from the age of 3, i had to quit school to care about my family, lots of other childhood traumas, i've created 3 business but all of them failed.
because all of these, my brothers&sisters are quite pessimist people and they think it's already over for us.
i'm battling with these feeling but nowadays, i feel like i've had enough.
how to overcome this feeling ?
i'm getting weaker everyday in my mind.

 

[Vermilioncore]

You’re fucked.

 

[RedKeyboard]

Cursed since before birth. If your whole families like this, means somewhere down the line something happened that got you all on some bad energy.

Go get your energy cleansed and start meditating, if not it'll only get worse.

 

[randomvanish]

Go get your energy cleansed and start meditating, if not it'll only get worse.

how ?

 

[Deleted member 5927]

I have this feeling too, every fucking day bro. I'm as poor as you, growing up was pure embarassment for me. Also my genetics are pretty slimy. Sometimes good sometimes bad. I have some bad traits some good. My dad fucked up my face at age 8 leaving me with a deviated septum (my nose is very obviously assymetrical) and my eyes are assymetrical too. I also genetically have brutal, brutal cystic acne. Also I have scoliosis and zero family to help me cope with my misfortunes.

I only have myself. I am currently 19. I reached out to 2 of my sister's, below is the picture of the chat between the two of them about how I tried to reach about to them. They both essentially fucking ignored me. I truly have nobody in this world but myself.

I used to cope with religion growing up, I was deeply, deeply religious as a kid because I believed God would save me from my misfortunes. I've read the Bible innumerable amounts of times, in the King James. I actually learned how to speak in middle English just from reading it when I was 15. I never went to church, I couldn't get my parents to give me a ride to church.

Essentially you learn to rely on yourself and just accept the fact that you were dealt a shit hand. Be stoic, try to be positive no matter what. It will seriously help you be happy if you try this. Just TRY to be happy and positive, and you will end up just that way.

 

[Deleted member 502]

I'm not talking about looks.

I'm from a really unlucky family.
My family is broke, my mother had a really abusive mother so she's mentally unstable and unhappy now at the age of 60,
my father left us and don't want to see us from the age of 3, i had to quit school to care about my family, lots of other childhood traumas, i've created 3 business but all of them failed.
because all of these, my brothers&sisters are quite pessimist people and they think it's already over for us.
i'm battling with these feeling but nowadays, i feel like i've had enough.
how to overcome this feeling ?
i'm getting weaker everyday in my mind.

What race is your father?

 

[Deleted member 5927]

how ?

Don't listen to him. Meditation is pure cope dopamine reset. It works by starving your brain of dopamine (you are just sitting there not doing shit, extremely boring) so essentially you feel happier afterwards just because your brain is starved of dopamine and doing anything afterwards gives you a small dopamine charge. Ignore his crazy energy shit, looksmax users are unironically really fucking crazy.

 

[Deleted member 502]

I have this feeling too, every fucking day bro. I'm as poor as you, growing up was pure embarassment for me. Also my genetics are pretty slimy. Sometimes good sometimes bad. I have some bad traits some good. My dad fucked up my face at age 8 leaving me with a deviated septum (my nose is very obviously assymetrical) and my eyes are assymetrical too. I also genetically have brutal, brutal cystic acne. Also I have scoliosis and zero family to help me cope with my misfortunes.

I only have myself. I am currently 19. I reached out to 2 of my sister's, below is the picture of the chat between the two of them about how I tried to reach about to them. They both essentially fucking ignored me. I truly have nobody in this world but myself.

I used to cope with religion growing up, I was deeply, deeply religious as a kid because I believed God would save me from my misfortunes. I've read the Bible innumerable amounts of times, in the King James. I actually learned how to speak in middle English just from reading it when I was 15. I never went to church, I couldn't get my parents to give me a ride to church.

Essentially you learn to rely on yourself and just accept the fact that you were dealt a shit hand. Be stoic, try to be positive no matter what. It will seriously help you be happy if you try this. Just TRY to be happy and positive, and you will end up just that way.

Thank you for sharing. I will fap to this later.

 

[lookismfugee]

more or less same bro

 

[randomvanish]

more or less same bro

not really though.

I have this feeling too, every fucking day bro. I'm as poor as you, growing up was pure embarassment for me. Also my genetics are pretty slimy. Sometimes good sometimes bad. I have some bad traits some good. My dad fucked up my face at age 8 leaving me with a deviated septum (my nose is very obviously assymetrical) and my eyes are assymetrical too. I also genetically have brutal, brutal cystic acne. Also I have scoliosis and zero family to help me cope with my misfortunes.

I only have myself. I am currently 19. I reached out to 2 of my sister's, below is the picture of the chat between the two of them about how I tried to reach about to them. They both essentially fucking ignored me. I truly have nobody in this world but myself.

I used to cope with religion growing up, I was deeply, deeply religious as a kid because I believed God would save me from my misfortunes. I've read the Bible innumerable amounts of times, in the King James. I actually learned how to speak in middle English just from reading it when I was 15. I never went to church, I couldn't get my parents to give me a ride to church.

Essentially you learn to rely on yourself and just accept the fact that you were dealt a shit hand. Be stoic, try to be positive no matter what. It will seriously help you be happy if you try this. Just TRY to be happy and positive, and you will end up just that way.

thanks for sharing your story.
i will add some of my stories that sounds like yours soon when i will be available.

 

[lookismfugee]

not really though.

nah man my life is as shit as urs trust me. wish i was being dramatic. just different ways but outcome is same home is same

 

[fukmylyf]

Cursed since before birth. If your whole families like this, means somewhere down the line something happened that got you all on some bad energy.

Go get your energy cleansed and start meditating, if not it'll only get worse.

legit theory brother

 

[wolfgaiden]

all you can do at this point is to push yourself to the limits of what you can achieve. If you never make it, atleast you tried, no point in thinking about things that you have no control over.

 

[Entschuldigung]

Things will happen for you one day
Just do whatever it takes so it can happen
If you act like a loser you'll lose always