pandamonium
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1. Never date a girl just because ur desperate. If she doesnt match tour looks and personality criteria its not even worth it
The dating game is hard why would u try hard for something with little to no return
Ive also noticed that when i date a girl who i dont really find attractive it ends up with me not giving a fuck about her and evenrually despising her
The feelings u have for someone at first arent going to be there forever. After like 3 months in of dating all those butterflies u get are gone and at that point it will go from infatuation to just commitment and since women are very impulsive this is likely the stage she might cheat in
2. Always talk to other girls even if your in a relationship
You want to always have a main girl and a backup girl. If u only focus on one girl at a time you are setting yourself up for a world of failure
3. Never fall in a state where you like a girl more than she likes you
I promise u 100% of the time it will end up in failure. Every relationship ive been in where the girl likes me more resulted in her legit begging for me. Some girl called me yesterday i broke up with like last year when she was still attached.
Love bombing has a inverse effect
You think that it means she will fall for you but in reality its just going to tive her a inflation of ego and subconciously tell her that shes above u.
Im not saying dont give her compliments but never make it obvious that u love her more than she is returning back to you
4. Realize that dating is just a numbers game for sub 8
Here are some of the most basic criteria
- 18+ (unless ur a minor)
- semi attractive (most of u have very low standards and will date just about anyone as long as their not hideous)
- single/looking for a relationship
- not a whore
- not fat
You might think these are low standards but unfortunately they are not. Every orher fucking guy has these standards with some guys even removing certain standards like the 18+ rule and the not being fat rule
This leads me to my next point
5. Realize you cannot manufacture attraction
love is 100% in the brain. Theres nothing magical to it. Unfortunately however, only about 5% of the brain is concious or actively makes the decisions and unfortunately a large part of the love making proccess cannot be controlled
So despite what a lot of gurus will tell u theres little to nothing you can do to make a girl like you.
Im saying this not to make u want to rope but to realize that u shouldnt focus on one girl at any time
6. Be able to understand women
Ive dated 7 women in my life and every single one of them acted the exact same. There is nothing different about any woman despite what they will say.
Women have the same behavioral patterns
For example if she is constantly late to respond just wrap it up there is no attraction involved.
If she gave u attention And no longer does just wrap it up
A lot of times guys will see blatant red flags and will still hold on for hope. I promise u when a girl likes h u will know she does. Reality is that most women just wont like u
7. Stop treating women like critical thinkers
learn psychological manipulation. Learn how to play on the subconscious. please realize nothing in psychology will make her like u but it can give oil to a spark if its already there
8. Fraud till the top
Fraud until youve gotten your way with a girl. Reality is that Looksmaxxing is dead. Theres nothing u can do to make urself more naturally attractive. That doesnt mean its over.
Wear shoulder pads, wear shoe lifts, wear makeup, get a implant. Whatever it takes
The dating game is hard why would u try hard for something with little to no return
Ive also noticed that when i date a girl who i dont really find attractive it ends up with me not giving a fuck about her and evenrually despising her
The feelings u have for someone at first arent going to be there forever. After like 3 months in of dating all those butterflies u get are gone and at that point it will go from infatuation to just commitment and since women are very impulsive this is likely the stage she might cheat in
2. Always talk to other girls even if your in a relationship
You want to always have a main girl and a backup girl. If u only focus on one girl at a time you are setting yourself up for a world of failure
3. Never fall in a state where you like a girl more than she likes you
I promise u 100% of the time it will end up in failure. Every relationship ive been in where the girl likes me more resulted in her legit begging for me. Some girl called me yesterday i broke up with like last year when she was still attached.
Love bombing has a inverse effect
You think that it means she will fall for you but in reality its just going to tive her a inflation of ego and subconciously tell her that shes above u.
Im not saying dont give her compliments but never make it obvious that u love her more than she is returning back to you
4. Realize that dating is just a numbers game for sub 8
Here are some of the most basic criteria
- 18+ (unless ur a minor)
- semi attractive (most of u have very low standards and will date just about anyone as long as their not hideous)
- single/looking for a relationship
- not a whore
- not fat
You might think these are low standards but unfortunately they are not. Every orher fucking guy has these standards with some guys even removing certain standards like the 18+ rule and the not being fat rule
This leads me to my next point
5. Realize you cannot manufacture attraction
love is 100% in the brain. Theres nothing magical to it. Unfortunately however, only about 5% of the brain is concious or actively makes the decisions and unfortunately a large part of the love making proccess cannot be controlled
So despite what a lot of gurus will tell u theres little to nothing you can do to make a girl like you.
Im saying this not to make u want to rope but to realize that u shouldnt focus on one girl at any time
6. Be able to understand women
Ive dated 7 women in my life and every single one of them acted the exact same. There is nothing different about any woman despite what they will say.
Women have the same behavioral patterns
For example if she is constantly late to respond just wrap it up there is no attraction involved.
If she gave u attention And no longer does just wrap it up
A lot of times guys will see blatant red flags and will still hold on for hope. I promise u when a girl likes h u will know she does. Reality is that most women just wont like u
7. Stop treating women like critical thinkers
learn psychological manipulation. Learn how to play on the subconscious. please realize nothing in psychology will make her like u but it can give oil to a spark if its already there
8. Fraud till the top
Fraud until youve gotten your way with a girl. Reality is that Looksmaxxing is dead. Theres nothing u can do to make urself more naturally attractive. That doesnt mean its over.
Wear shoulder pads, wear shoe lifts, wear makeup, get a implant. Whatever it takes
